Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

AAKing23

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dating game is broken beyond repair, tired of watching this nikka videoss

I honestly believe that eventually open relationships will be the new normal instead of taboo
Word, shyt is depressing more than anything :francis: Click the video and it's some average chick talking about she needs a high value man
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall

The funny thing about this is
On this very forum some dudes just want to get shyt off their chest/catharsis
And you can tell when the thread is genuine and when it’s troll shyt
But you will have grown ass men run in saying the same vile shyt women/society at large has said for centuries
Man up
Nut up
Never give any real insight or lessons
It’s always wins with no Ls
Life don’t work like that
Men’s mortality rates are at a all time high
From suicide to disease
But with black men it’s always doubled because it’s been proven bigoted views are used throughout medical fields
Which leaves a lot of men damned if they do or don’t
And about time we do actually go for help
We knocking on the door to the upper room
I don’t know if fam is truly sincere
Some of those roommates videos are shaky
But I do agree that this is one sector that’s getting overlooked in this discussion of wellness for men
It is a lot of focus on miserable bytches and not trying to fix the male psyche
Which is a derivative of the basic common denominator
If you don’t love, talk or appreciate yourself
Ain’t no way in hell should you be dating, fukking or trying to get married
A woman, job, friend, family will drag you to the depths of hell and leave you rotting
While they diddy bop back to life
Learn to say no and walk away from situations that don’t benefit your well being
And never let a doctor tell you no
Listen to your body and keep finding somebody else who will listen
 

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Here's how I look at relationships and marriage....even before I ever knew who KS was:

A lot of women today don't want to settle into that wife role, because even "beta/soft" men are going to require certain things from their wife if they are handling all the "man shyt" and paying for at least 80% of everything.

Year 1: Getting to know who you are, decide on if it's going to be exclusive.
Year 2: Plan for engagement, actually get engaged.
Year 3: Actually get married.

If either person doesnt want to get married, then after year 1 it needs to end or move to a FWB situation since you've probably been fukking for several months now. I have the marriage conversation even If its informal, with every woman i have interest in. all you gotta do is ask if they ever thought of being married or were they engaged, after like a month or so.
Three years is a long time unless you're in your early 20s.
 

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Villa Straylight.
But you will have grown ass men run in saying the same vile shyt women/society at large has said for centuries
Man up
Nut up
I said this before and I will say it once more. There are alot of dudes who are lap dogs for women as long as they are getting theirs. If the fire isn't burning their house its not real to them, until it does.
 

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Here's how I look at relationships and marriage....even before I ever knew who KS was:

A lot of women today don't want to settle into that wife role, because even "beta/soft" men are going to require certain things from their wife if they are handling all the "man shyt" and paying for at least 80% of everything.

Year 1: Getting to know who you are, decide on if it's going to be exclusive.
Year 2: Plan for engagement, actually get engaged.
Year 3: Actually get married.

If either person doesnt want to get married, then after year 1 it needs to end or move to a FWB situation since you've probably been fukking for several months now. I have the marriage conversation even If its informal, with every woman i have interest in. all you gotta do is ask if they ever thought of being married or were they engaged, after like a month or so.
This is completely too organized for regular day relationships lol but I heavily agree that being mindful about your own end goal and vocalizing it with women from early is necessary. Most millennials usually last about 3 years in a relationship (makeups, breakups included) and it usually doesnt result in anything except a lost experience- There's a Reason Why the Average Millennial Relationship Is So Short

I do however think it makes sense to have a sense of a deadline if you’re with someone and things are actually working out. I seen folks I went to high school with be done after 5,6 sometimes even 7 years and no engagement happened. If
 

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Another example of not being able to understand stand simple things.

Like, someone makes a good point on a topic, but because the person making the point is white, gay, ugly and or fat or whatever now that person’s POV shouldn’t matter. Instead of actually listening and appreciating when people speak good advice online.

Another annoying thing is people like to discredit you tubers and say well since they are public they are just here for views. They can’t be genuine or really know what they are talking about. People don’t know how or who to to listen to. So they just discredit everyone and continue being uneducated.

I blame Tariq.

Before this board got extra political (we used to NNNNNNNNNNEEEEVVVVERR talk about politics in late SOHH/early Coli) we started using c00n/CAC in every thread. And nikkas got mad myopic and if you disagreed you're are a c00n or white.

The way this board protect Biden/Kamala (two cop ass nikkas) was ten times the amount we did when Obama first ran...I joined SOHH in 2007.
 

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I was turned away by the nikka looking naked in the thumbnail :laugh: and I've started to associate them with Fraud & shyt.

But, this spoke to me.

I've been fukked up since my mom died last year and really since my brother died in the 2010 (she died around the 10th anniversary of his loss).

I can't talk to my dad cuz he's on that man up shyt (whether he admits it or not--he's upset at how I've dealt with it) and all my male cousins have families, now (not trying to burden them).

The video was all facts.
 

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I was turned away by the nikka looking naked in the thumbnail :laugh: and I've started to associate them with Fraud & shyt.

But, this spoke to me.

I've been fukked up since my mom died last year and really since my brother died in the 2010 (she died around the 10th anniversary of his loss).

I can't talk to my dad cuz he's on that man up shyt (whether he admits it or not--he's upset at how I've dealt with it) and all my male cousins have families, now (not trying to burden them).

The video was all facts.
Yeah, the thumbnail is kinda wild (lol), but the message is legit. I ended up finding this clip by accident
 
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