This is basic shyt we've should've learned as a child. Especially if you're Black and grew around whites. Your safe negro looks will get you in the door but you cant tap then
This coming from someone who was a nerdy chubby, 4 eyed negro most of his childhood. I looked the part of the black friend but if Hunter crossed a line around me
. It should make the job search simpler in some respects. If they want, they really want you for your skills. If they are mid about you, it makes the candidate select easier "he doesnt fit our image"Anyone who dapped this is a fukking moron and doesn’t run in meaningful corporate circles.Gay auntie jr usher board old church lady energy. “Baby! Don’t nobody wanna see Buckwheat comin on Dey job!”
Geez there’s a lady at a church I used to go to that had his EXACT mannerisms and everything.
Respectability politics doesn’t really work for me. He is a buffoon. I know dreadlocked Jamaicans that sued entire colleges for tenure and cleaned out the entire departments.
It’s not 1940 anymore.
Sometimes you have to push the envelope and force your reality across boundaries to make a place for yourself. You can’t spend your entire life by their rules.
Ive done shyt in my life that almost seemed self-sabotaging to the naked eye. Rarely got anywhere on time. Constantly, tongue-in-cheek. Purposefully irreverent of establishments. All because I LIKE the cognitive dissonance I inspire in closed minded stupid a$$holes. I like small brained, uninspired idiots being wedded to one perception of me as a bumbling, happy go lucky idiot. Only to have them turn red, sputtering, angrily when I make perfect scores on their exams or get invites to host research strands at major conferences.
There’s no better feeling than a coward hating you because you had the audacity to be your DAMN self...AND run circles around bootlickers who gave up their asses for nothing. That shyt is orgasmic. I live for those moments. It’s like the embodiment of divine energy in human form. Because just by being you, you are making the impossible possible in a sea of cowards.
When there is no other path, make one yo damn self. You gotta fight for the right to be yourself.
I ain’t sayin go to work and let yo nuts hang out...
But there’s gonna come a time when you gon get tired of not being able to be u in the place you will spend 40 hrs a week at for 30+ years. I know I can’t do it.
This is basic shyt we've should've learned as a child. Especially if you're Black and grew around whites. Your safe negro looks will get you in the door but you cant tap then
KS advice is for hood dudes who dont know how to navigate around cacs. They adults now and got thrown into the world of whites with no manual.
If anything rocking natural hair, low or medium, is a litmus test of
Life might be a little harder when you keep your integrity high but in the long run I feel like there are more benefits to your mental health and how you raise offspring.This is basic shyt we've should've learned as a child. Especially if you're Black and grew around whites. Your safe negro looks will get you in the door but you cant tap then
KS advice is for hood dudes who dont know how to navigate around cacs. They adults now and got thrown into the world of whites with no manual.
If anything rocking natural hair, low or medium, is a litmus test of
25 hours a week making 140K? Why she need a man for?
Obviously they don't care about money only. If they did, they would be golddiggers dating old men. They choose not to date old men because they are not golddiggers. Those particular women care about age too and will not date men who are 10 plus years older. I think they have already made their choice because they are single. They would rather be alone than date an older man.
Obviously they care mostly about money because they keep wanting a man to pay their bills.
