Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[Apollo Creed]

So men aren't the hunters any more? You want women to hunt you?

my statement is when you are on your journey you will come across what you are looking for. Avg man arent kn a journey of purpose they are simply existing.

If im hungry and eat a bag of chips, yeah I ate but it wasnt fulfilling.
When you dont move with purpose you will only interact with people who serve no purpose.

 

[Apollo Creed]

This was my brother's experience, he's now divorced.

What's fukked up is, moms got her into finance, and then she wielded it over my brother. She's about to get remarried and my brother has sworn off women (for now).

dudes dont just become HOH outta nowhere lol, its usually a relationship or their mother who puts the sour taste in their mouth and puts the man in survival mode

 

[King Poetic]

perfect example how changing to get women get you killed

 

[HARLEM AL]

So men aren't the hunters any more? You want women to hunt you?

Yeah those days are over. You have new nikkas outchea now boo!

"Thats the thing about the old days. They are the old days" - Slim Charles

 

[HarlemHottie]

my statement is when you are on your journey you will come across what you are looking for. Avg man arent kn a journey of purpose they are simply existing.

If im hungry and eat a bag of chips, yeah I ate but it wasnt fulfilling.
When you dont move with purpose you will only interact with people who serve no purpose.

I was, as we (ados) say, 'playing the fool to find the fool.' You'll do well.

 

[Wild self]

You forgot to add in loving the Lawd!

Black man has to be many things and be on his game 24/7.

Damn near superhero expectations!

Exactly. Black Men gotta be otherworldly to appeal to black women that watch Love n Hip Hop, Power reruns, and rap videos 24/7 that treat luxury items like children's toys. The excess images of black men flaunting money made a lot of women think that black men gotta be John Shaft mixed with Pac to even be talked about to their homegirls.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Yeah those days are over. Tou have new nikkas outchea now boo!

"Thats the thing about the old days. They are the old days" - Slim Charles

But you're built for it. You hunt without even noticing. Has that changed? And if so, how?

 

[Wild self]

perfect example how changing to get women get you killed

I think that KS may get to this particular topic soon enough, but lets be real: switching up just to be sexually attractive to superficial women leads you in all kinds of trouble, and even in the context with Tupac, being some caricature of a Black man just to get female attention fukks it up for the rest of us.

 

[SNG]

black men need to live their 'best lives' and walk away. Reward those who get with your program, the days of begging and pleading or putting up with abuse is over for thinking black men,

This is why I stress brehs become the best versions of themselves (mentally, physically, financially, spiritually). When you do this you understand your worth as a man. Soooooo many black men die just literally serving people who dont care about them. Once dude is in the ground its like he never even existed.

I feel debating only happens when people have no options and feel they need to convert the little options they have. Nah, dudes need to understand their place in the world and act on it.

Especially the Spiritual Element. Alot of brothers don't realize how important that aspect is. Every great black man in this country from Fredrick Douglas to Malcolm, Muhammed and Martin luther king had this element to them. God fearing black men literally have moved mountains in this country. That cloth is missing in alot of us these days.

 

[Micky Mikey]

Question - For any of you brehs who've dated or have been in relationships with non-African American women do you have a different experiences?

Looking through this thread it seems the average breh just cannot win when it comes to a lot (not all) of black women in America. Their mentality is all screwed up. You're looked down upon when you don't make enough and when you do get money the goalpost is either moved further or you have to deal with damaged goods.

 

[HARLEM AL]

But you're built for it. You hunt without even noticing. Has that changed? And if so, how?

Me personally I dont even hunt no more. Ive been the one getting hunted(which is weird at first. took me a little bit to get adjusted to it). But I still have it in me. The young dudes dont have it in them out the gate. They dont have to. These young joints is giving shyt away quicker than 5 min grits. There are a lot of young dudes who have chosen not to deal with women period. And thats on Mary had a little lamb.

 

[General Mills]

This was my brother's experience, he's now divorced.

What's fukked up is, moms got her into finance, and then she wielded it over my brother. She's about to get remarried and my brother has sworn off women (for now).

When my brother got with his ex she had just graduated from Nursing school. My brother with is little IT degree put her through extra schooling. HE paid ( mostly ) for those two Masters degrees she got. He figured its helping the family. His plan was to get her schooling together. Once she was finished then he could concentrate on getting more certs. This way their whole family wins. As soon as she got her second Masters she REALLY showed her true colors.


The hilarious thing is she used her two Masters degrees to not only shyt on my brother... but also her sisters. She has two other sisters. Just normal chicks with normal jobs. She flaunted her lifestyle, money, and marriage in front of their faces all the time. Low key stunted on them at every chance she got. Told them her family is the Huxtables.


Now she is single in her late 30's. Broke. Overweight. Miserable. Her sisters are doing just fine. My brother is doing just fine.

 

[HarlemHottie]

perfect example how changing to get women get you killed

There's a difference between loving women and loving bytches. The progression in this video is an example of a young man who loved women learning about bytches.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Question - For any of you brehs who've dated or have been in relationships with non-African American women do you have a different experiences?

Looking through this thread it seems the average breh just cannot win when it comes to a lot (not all) of black women in America. Their mentality is all screwed up. You're looked down upon when you don't make enough and when you do get money the goalpost is either moved further or you have to deal with damaged goods.

Within the context of America is someone is born here then they will adopt the ideals of the system, doesnt matter where their parents are from. You’ll see people of other ethnic lr racial groups with the same complaints of modern western dating. We just speak on black issues because we are black but look at the non blacks who call into kev or make responses. This is an American issue, but for black people due to our position on the social ladder in this country we feel everything worse than other groups because we are barely hanging on.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Question - For any of you brehs who've dated or have been in relationships with non-African American women do you have a different experiences?

Looking through this thread it seems the average breh just cannot win when it comes to a lot (not all) of black women in America. Their mentality is all screwed up. You're looked down upon when you don't make enough and when you do get money the goalpost is either moved further or you have to deal with damaged goods.

Each race has their shyt. None of them is perfect. One thing that is different is the cooperation and the treatment. Just not putting up with have the shyt alone is a plus to some. Cooperation is the icing on the cake.

But no chick is perfect.