Deflection from their father figure bendy nature
oh nah I DEFINITELY understand the motive/trigger point but I literally wanna see how the conversation transitioned to that shyt lol...I didn’t read the whole thread...read the beginning then jumped back in and seen nikkas talking that reckless defeatist shyt smh

I have a 1% mid-40s first cousin once removed in NYC who recently married a Korean artist (MFA in some type of art) who's around my age (a little more than ten years younger.) He wasn't about to spend the rest of his life getting nagged to an early death by a late-30s overweight single mom just because she's in finance too. 

