Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[Balla]

only handsome or at the very least fit gang could pull that off without resentment or young chicks feeling like they settled for some old washed nikka with bread.

I'm at the part where the 37 yr old with 3 kids is asking if Kevin hung up on her.

the technical difficulties in this episode been whupping his ass tho.

She was like, “please Kevin no, don’t hang up on me!!”



I don’t see how you would still have to pay for it if you’re handsome and fit, even if you’re old. I thought tricking was reserved for nikkas who don’t care about looking good or game, but just want to spend their money and call it a day.

To spend money on a chick and her kids has to be the worst.

Is dating when older really that bad? These chicks only see you for money no matter what?

 

[Ahadi]

“The black guys at my job like white girls”

 

[Ziggiy]

That shyt is legit gross. It's so primitive and disrespectful. And these women, with a straight face, will say "ummm, I'm not having anymore children."



Reminds me of that dude that went viral working 16 hours a day and the woman bragging that he's breaking his back for her and her 2, 3 kids by another man.

fukk that. I'm glad KS says "average men" don't even deserve this shyt.

 

[Easy-E]

I can't find the Tweet

But some womam on TikTok was recording her man watching tv bragging about how many hours he works and that her kids aren't by him.

All that "im not the step father, im the father that stepped up" shyt

 

[Apollo Creed]

She was like, “please Kevin no, don’t hang up on me!!”



I don’t see how you would still have to pay for it if you’re handsome and fit, even if you’re old. I thought tricking was reserved for nikkas who don’t care about looking good or game, but just want to spend their money and call it a day.

To spend money on a chick and her kids has to be the worst.

Is dating when older really that bad? These chicks only see you for money no matter what?

Tricking is about time and efficiency, simping is the validation thing. Two different things

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

She was like, “please Kevin no, don’t hang up on me!!”



I don’t see how you would still have to pay for it if you’re handsome and fit, even if you’re old. I thought tricking was reserved for nikkas who don’t care about looking good or game, but just want to spend their money and call it a day.

To spend money on a chick and her kids has to be the worst.

Is dating when older really that bad? These chicks only see you for money no matter what?

All I'm saying is...

older good looking fit brehs with money have better options than older washed looking brehs with money. If both are trying to trick off into a marriage, the better looking breh would prolly get better cooperation. There's no guarantee though since tricking is lowkey sucker shyt anyway. Better get all the leverage you can if you do it though. I'm sure nobody wants to come off looking like Trick Daddy annoying young chicks at the club even with money and legendary status.

Think about it in reverse. What if you had two older chicks that were willing to trick off on you. One is good looking and one is washed looking. Which one you think you're gonna enjoy smashing and hanging out with more?

But I couldn't tell you if dating older is that bad. I been married since I was like 24.

that 2nd chick with the glasses looked like the rapper Bad Azz (RIP)

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Imma say it again ...

It's not that these women don't value marriage, or they don't want marriage, or they don't dream about being married ...

It's that simply put these women know they are not cut out for/qualified/bring anything to the table in a marriage so they don't want that shyt period. They know that shyt deep down inside, so they dont bother asking for it from a man. If all you got is experience working at foot locker why the fukk would you apply to an engineer position at IBM?!

And second, women out here are perfectly ok with just having boyfriends, just having a man around that they don't have a deep or serious commitment to. This way they can leave whenever they want, that's why zero commitment to them is way more important than marriage. This way if she has character flaws that she needs to work on she ain't gonna work to fix her issues, she gonna go to the next man who accepts her "as is" and the cycle continues.

Ideally these women want a "rent-a-man" .. a man that comes around a couple times a week, brings groceries/some cash/fixes a few things around the house/signs in to his Netflix account and stays logged on after he leaves/orders some pizza/scrambles her guts and bounces. This is the ideal man to a lot of these women.

Third, these women care more about the baby than who they have it with. If they could pull up to a baby vending machine and just get a baby without a man they would do so. They just wanna be a young mom and don't give a fukk who the father is, I've seen this in my own family. They gonna get child support, they will be championed for being a single mom/independent, so in their minds it's a good deal.

Kevin needs to move on from the "why didn't you ask for marriage?" Narrative that he's been saying for a year, and move onto "ladies, just admit you're not qualified for marriage and it was never attainable for you" instead.

These women have just normalized dysfunction.

 

[6ixSigma]

Typically I don't watch the YouTube shows but tuned in today since he was talking about 'Baddies and Ballers'.

Dude was dropping a bit of game. Just a few quotes that stood out to me from the show that are basically 'facts' (I've seen or am seeing it happen to my 'peers').

For the women:
"If you're not married and a 9 or 10 at 28, you fuked up"
"If you're a under 25, cash in on the highest value man you can get"

For the men:
"Women who messed with athletes and entertainers expect you to treat them the same way" (and it don't work that way)
"The 8,9 and 10s that couldn't get a baller will start chasing after the 'Henry's'" (basically as a back up plan)

"Women are hot from 16 to 25. Men, from 40 to death, but it starts getting good about 30"

 

[Roid Jones]

Kevins still trying to be cheap even though hes preached against it. Had last nights livestream worked properly I think it could have been Top 5 for this year. He needs to upgrade out of that 1 Bedroom into a Penthouse with Business Internet. Donovan Sharpe, Fresh & Fit are miles ahead of him in production and have been for a while.

Kevin won't be happy until that laptop bursts into flames

People on here, youtube and insta have urged him to upgrade but he keeps saying 'build it while we're flying' nah Kev you're just cheap

 

[Neuromancer]

“The black guys at my job like white girls”

How come no one ever calls black women who say this out like they do black men?

 

[Neuromancer]

What, me specifically? No. That was an allusion to the latest LSA offensive against me, currently in the rafters.

Damn. They really hurt out here.

 

[ogc163]

Imma say it again ...

It's not that these women don't value marriage, or they don't want marriage, or they don't dream about being married ...

It's that simply put these women know they are not cut out for/qualified/bring anything to the table in a marriage so they don't want that shyt period. They know that shyt deep down inside, so they dont bother asking for it from a man. If all you got is experience working at foot locker why the fukk would you apply to an engineer position at IBM?!

And second, women out here are perfectly ok with just having boyfriends, just having a man around that they don't have a deep or serious commitment to. This way they can leave whenever they want, that's why zero commitment to them is way more important than marriage. This way if she has character flaws that she needs to work on she ain't gonna work to fix her issues, she gonna go to the next man who accepts her "as is" and the cycle continues.

Ideally these women want a "rent-a-man" .. a man that comes around a couple times a week, brings groceries/some cash/fixes a few things around the house/signs in to his Netflix account and stays logged on after he leaves/orders some pizza/scrambles her guts and bounces. This is the ideal man to a lot of these women.

Third, these women care more about the baby than who they have it with. If they could pull up to a baby vending machine and just get a baby without a man they would do so. They just wanna be a young mom and don't give a fukk who the father is, I've seen this in my own family. They gonna get child support, they will be championed for being a single mom/independent, so in their minds it's a good deal.

Kevin needs to move on from the "why didn't you ask for marriage?" Narrative that he's been saying for a year, and move onto "ladies, just admit you're not qualified for marriage and it was never attainable for you" instead.

These women have just normalized dysfunction.

I agree he needs to stop with the "why didn't you ask for marriage" questions, and stop the baby boomer etched questions in general.

These broads mostly grew up seeing chaos or were influenced heavily by chaos because the household values didn't have enough depth to undermine the chaos. That holds true across class, geographic, and generational lines.

Dude goes into his traditionalism/conservative bag way too much for my liking, when that battle has generally been lost.

He stated he was going to have a show about more cosmopolitan "Executive Wives" and DINK couples opposed to the traditional suburban setup. And that's probably beneficial for a lot of the community because many of these millennial/Gen-Z folks(men and women) have personalities and economic situations that would align with a DINK dynamic. A DINK situation would also alleviate the downside risk of divorce, as both sides wouldn't have to worry about the psychological impact of divorce on a child.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I agree he needs to stop with the "why didn't you ask for marriage" questions, and stop the baby boomer etched questions in general.

These broads mostly grew up seeing chaos or were influenced heavily by chaos because the household values didn't have enough depth to undermine the chaos. That holds true across class, geographic, and generational lines.

Dude goes into his traditionalism/conservative bag way too much for my liking, when that battle has generally been lost.

He stated he was going to have a show about more cosmopolitan "Executive Wives" and DINK couples opposed to the traditional suburban setup. And that's probably beneficial for a lot of the community because many of these millennial/Gen-Z folks(men and women) have personalities and economic situations that would align with a DINK dynamic. A DINK situation would also alleviate the downside risk of divorce, as both sides wouldn't have to worry about the psychological impact of divorce on a child.

Millenial and Gen Z men are not getting married if they aren't getting kids so I dont even see the value of a DINK convo.

 

[ogc163]

Millenial and Gen Z men are not getting married if they aren't getting kids so I dont even see the value of a DINK convo.

The notion that they aren't getting married if they aren't having kids is too broad of a statement, especially given that so far hasn't been a major shift in the percentage of people in DINK situations while there's been a downward shift in married couples with kids, but I'm open to seeing evidence that undermines the conclusions in the link.

Further, I disagree that there isn't value in the DINK conversation considering Kevin's stances regarding the role of marriage in relation to a) community b) marriages role in career advancement and c) the costs of a traditional lifestyle--he consistently brings up the 250k over 18 years stat when discussing the costs of just one kid.

 

[Ahadi]

How come no one ever calls black women who say this out like they do black men?

The sister code is strong.

They rather protect their sister’s feelings than be honest.

If a black man says this, they would rip him apart.