ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
I’ve probably only posted three times in this thread (edit: I’m actually the third post in this threadI was one against the whole 6 months, then married stance. I understand now that it doesn't take that long to know if a woman is wifey material and if you're going to marry her or not, It's actually much easier now with dating modern women.
). I can’t sit through 3 hour videos but I do find some posts in here interesting.Ive always said a man knows early on in the relationship if a woman is a wife material. They don’t need years to get to know a woman. So many women get strung along and pressure men to marry them. If a woman has to do that, he’s just waiting for an upgrade. We don’t need an incentive to get married. There’s no “right time”. Either he will or he won’t.
The guys who end up marrying their 3rd/4th choice do so out of circumstance (have a child, finances, gave up)
. Now don’t get me wrong, women also marry their 3rd/4th choice but for different reasons…. Usually due them feeling the pressure of being “unchosen” as they get older. They see their friends and colleagues getting married and starting families.
Men don’t get broody like that. We ‘comparatively’ have time on our side. I don’t agree with men stringing women along but women know deep down that being in a relationship with no hint of an engagement after a few years means he’s a free agent waiting to get trade.
ALL men know if the woman they’re with is the one after a short period. Any who says otherwise is deluding themselves.
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