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ThrobbingHood

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I was one against the whole 6 months, then married stance. I understand now that it doesn't take that long to know if a woman is wifey material and if you're going to marry her or not, It's actually much easier now with dating modern women.
I’ve probably only posted three times in this thread (edit: I’m actually the third post in this thread :leon:). I can’t sit through 3 hour videos but I do find some posts in here interesting.

Ive always said a man knows early on in the relationship if a woman is a wife material. They don’t need years to get to know a woman. So many women get strung along and pressure men to marry them. If a woman has to do that, he’s just waiting for an upgrade. We don’t need an incentive to get married. There’s no “right time”. Either he will or he won’t.

The guys who end up marrying their 3rd/4th choice do so out of circumstance (have a child, finances, gave up)

. Now don’t get me wrong, women also marry their 3rd/4th choice but for different reasons…. Usually due them feeling the pressure of being “unchosen” as they get older. They see their friends and colleagues getting married and starting families.

Men don’t get broody like that. We ‘comparatively’ have time on our side. I don’t agree with men stringing women along but women know deep down that being in a relationship with no hint of an engagement after a few years means he’s a free agent waiting to get trade.

ALL men know if the woman they’re with is the one after a short period. Any who says otherwise is deluding themselves.
 
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I’ve probably only posted three times in this thread. I can’t sit through 3 hour videos but I do find some posts in here interesting.

Ive always said a man knows early on in the relationship if a woman is a wife material. They don’t need years to get to know a woman. So many women get strung along and pressure men to marry them. If a woman has to do that, he’s just waiting for an upgrade. We don’t need an incentive to get married. There’s no “right time”. Either he will or he won’t.

The guys who end up marrying their 3rd/4th choice do so out of circumstance (have a child, finances, gave up)

. Now don’t get me wrong, women also marry their 3rd/4th choice but for different reasons…. Usually due them feeling the pressure of being “unchosen” as they get older. They see their friends and colleagues getting married and starting families.

Men don’t get broody like that. We ‘comparatively’ have time on our side. I don’t agree with men stringing women along but women know deep down that being in a relationship with no hint of an engagement after a few years means he’s a free agent waiting to get trade.

ALL men know if the woman they’re with is the one after a short period. Any who says otherwise is deluding themselves.

To a certain extent. I’ve seen dudes swear they met their wife only for 8 months to pass and he’s like “ I dont remember her being like this” lol.
 

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To a certain extent. I’ve seen dudes swear they met their wife only for 8 months to pass and he’s like “ I dont remember her being like this” lol.
True. Women can switch up so I understand men being cautious. Women know how to play the long game and keep up the facade until they move into an “untouchable” position (cheaper to keep her at this point.)

Asian women are the masters of this. They know how be docile and they make that heel turn once they’ve got the ring on their finger. The amount of CACs I’ve seen get bossed around by their Asian wives. They’ll say the same thing “she was sweet in the beginning.”

So I get it, men will approach marriage with more trepidation than women because ultimately, it tends to be mainly our chips at the table and we don’t want to bet on the wrong color.

But men have their gut feeling as women have their intuition. We know the red flags early on if you keep on letting a woman talk. She’ll reveal her true self in bits and pieces if she’s putting up an act.

I sniff that bullshyt out straight away and it’s bush statuses if too many red flags become apparent.
 

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Fam, this chick that was 25 on last nights show. I was listening to her at first cause she kinda reminded me of my sister, then she comes through saying I want 8 kids an need a man making 1 Million talking about he can be a "data analyst" or "CEO". SMH

Like Kev said, when you dating a man making a Million, you have minimal say, you just following his plan at that point. She talking about "if we aligned" lol
 

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Fam, this chick that was 25 on last nights show. I was listening to her at first cause she kinda reminded me of my sister, then she comes through saying I want 8 kids an need a man making 1 Million talking about he can be a "data analyst" or "CEO". SMH

Like Kev said, when you dating a man making a Million, you have minimal say, you just following his plan at that point. She talking about "if we aligned" lol
link the video lol
 

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aton is using the low intelligence model of selling to low intelligence black folks. Because “we dont understand” normal english they have to spiff up the delivery. I’ll say it again, I know Anton is a normal dude and the “game” he gives is legit because its the game everyone gets introduced to once they start making a certain amount of money and get a CPA because they tired of getting ran by taxes.

my issue with being in character is once you turn it off folks look at you funny cause now you look fake.
There could be a thread on this alone no bullshyt:russ:
 
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