Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[richaveli83]

Haven’t watched him in a minute. Is it still the same repetitive topics?

Yep

 

[richaveli83]

Black Women I see IRL and on social media will do EVERYTHING but work on being in shape.

Hair
Nails
Feet
Eyebrows
Lashes
Teeth
Surgery
Waist Trainers

But...

Change diet
Gym 3-5x a week

^^^^^there's no time, motivation, or discipline for those two. The weight trainers crush your organs, and the surgeries require maintenance and gym work as well. I just don't understand why Black Women don't hold each other accountable. it's a ton of pats on the back for bad behavior all around.

anything is possible, 100% optimism, and it's never women's fault. Talking about not settling for less at ages 40-50....when your life is half over.

Starting to see talk about communal living, but what happens if one of the women want to deal with a man, even temporarily? And Black Women themselves have long said you can't have two women live under the same roof, especially not two attractive women, gonna be some hating, and if one is way below another, that's going to cause hating as well.

One of my exes is on that BS and she's 45. She has children (all grown and out the house) and she's on that BS. Even though it was more of a casual relationship and not really dating, we're still cordial. I told her straight up that the chances of you getting a dude at your age and size (she's got a shape like Queen Latifah but used to be smaller) who has his shyt together is very slim and that if you want to get married then YOU WILL HAVE TO SETTLE. She wasn't trying to hear it but was so damn delusional.

Another sister I'm cool with is 44 and will be 45 in December and has SEVEN children. Now all her children were by the same man who she was married to and were all born within wedlock. She's GORGEOUS, has a body like Megan The Stallion, gorgeous face, bubbly personality, friendly, works out, can cook, owns her own hair salon, and just an overall cool chick. I would have definitely tried to wife if she didn't have as many children or didn't have any children. She's on that not settling shyt as well. She's always complaining about not having a man and refuses to settle. I told her straight up no man is going to get with you when you have 7 children (3 of them are grown and out the house and the four remaining are teenagers) and you have no right to have such high demands. She and along with all her friends (this was on Facebook) ganged up on me and called me all kinds of things. I wasn't mean spirited or anything but being honest.

 

[jay83]

One of my exes is on that BS and she's 45. She has children (all grown and out the house) and she's on that BS. Even though it was more of a casual relationship and not really dating, we're still cordial. I told her straight up that the chances of you getting a dude at your age and size (she's got a shape like Queen Latifah but used to be smaller) who has his shyt together is very slim and that if you want to get married then YOU WILL HAVE TO SETTLE. She wasn't trying to hear it but was so damn delusional.

Another sister I'm cool with is 44 and will be 45 in December and has SEVEN children. Now all her children were by the same man who she was married to and were all born within wedlock. She's GORGEOUS, has a body like Serena Williams in her prime, gorgeous face, bubbly personality, friendly, works out, can cook, owns her own hair salon, and just an overall cool chick. I would have definitely tried to wife if she didn't have as many children or didn't have any children. She's on that not settling shyt as well. She's always complaining about not having a man and refuses to settle. I told her straight up no man is going to get with you when you have 7 children (3 of them are grown and out the house and the four remaining are teenagers) and you have no right to have such high demands. She and along with all her friends (this was on Facebook) ganged up on me and called me all kinds of things. I wasn't mean spirited or anything but being honest.

The only problem I have is the constant complaining on social media. If you are 45 years old still looking for Idris Elba cool. That’s your right.

But when it don’t work out keep your L to yourself. Dont go on shows or get on social media saying they’re aren’t any solid guys out here. You are brainwashing the youth with that nonsense.

 

[Adebisi_Said]

One of my exes is on that BS and she's 45. She has children (all grown and out the house) and she's on that BS. Even though it was more of a casual relationship and not really dating, we're still cordial. I told her straight up that the chances of you getting a dude at your age and size (she's got a shape like Queen Latifah but used to be smaller) who has his shyt together is very slim and that if you want to get married then YOU WILL HAVE TO SETTLE. She wasn't trying to hear it but was so damn delusional.

Another sister I'm cool with is 44 and will be 45 in December and has SEVEN children. Now all her children were by the same man who she was married to and were all born within wedlock. She's GORGEOUS, has a body like Megan The Stallion, gorgeous face, bubbly personality, friendly, works out, can cook, owns her own hair salon, and just an overall cool chick. I would have definitely tried to wife if she didn't have as many children or didn't have any children. She's on that not settling shyt as well. She's always complaining about not having a man and refuses to settle. I told her straight up no man is going to get with you when you have 7 children (3 of them are grown and out the house and the four remaining are teenagers) and you have no right to have such high demands. She and along with all her friends (this was on Facebook) ganged up on me and called me all kinds of things. I wasn't mean spirited or anything but being honest.

The woman with the 7 kids: What happened to her husband?

 

[Apollo Creed]

This is why we lose.

Stop inviting other groups into our convo & creating open conversations on open platforms (Twitter, Clubhouse, etc.) Need to be more protective of our resources.

Amirah is just a coming up off of BM.

black folks never ask themselves why they are listening to a non black who isnt married or at least formerly married and grew from said experience talk to them about relationships.

i guess because of my career field, but i have a low tolerance for hearing people with no experience talk about anything

i just wanna say STFU. Prob why i have a zero tolerance for dudes in this thread flooding it with nonsense

 

[Silver Surfer]

Man it's crazy how all the shyt he be saying be playing out in real life

@richaveli83 I literally have a similar situation you mentioned.

Been messing around for the last 2 years to a mom of four thats 39.

When I first met her gave her the opportunity to show her value....said she was trying to get married and I slowly realized she was going to settle if that ever happened.

We very casual and she recently got Covid with all her kids..so I looked out for when she recovered cause shyt was serious.....she now talking bout starting a truck dispatch business in addition to her 9-5

I was like...damn..thought you was getting married

 

[Apollo Creed]

Man it's crazy how all the shyt he be saying be playing out in real life

@richaveli83 I literally have a similar situation you mentioned.

Been messing around for the last 2 years to a mom of four thats 39.

When I first met her gave her the opportunity to show her value....said she was trying to get married and I slowly realized she was going to settle if that ever happened.

We very casual and she recently got Covid with all her kids..so I looked out for when she recovered cause shyt was serious.....she now talking bout starting a truck dispatch business in addition to her 9-5

I was like...damn..thought you was getting married

unless you planned on marrying her why even care? Lol

 

[Silver Surfer]

unless you planned on marrying her why even care? Lol

Why care about what?

This thread is an observation on modern women

 

[General Mills]

I know Courtney from Lapeef is seeing Ameera on Kevin’s show


When Kevin had Courtney on she fumbled the rock

 

[Ahadi]

black folks never ask themselves why they are listening to a non black who isnt married or at least formerly married and grew from said experience talk to them about relationships.

i guess because of my career field, but i have a low tolerance for hearing people with no experience talk about anything

i just wanna say STFU. Prob why i have a zero tolerance for dudes in this thread flooding it with nonsense

Exactly. That’s why the “He's been divorce twice!” argument doesnt make any sense. He’s learned from his mistakes and understands what it takes to preserve a marriage.

If he was married and then transitioned into a divorce, ppl move the goal post and say “How can you listen to a man that’s recently divorced?”

I understand some aspects of taking tools from other groups (money pooling, image control & arranged marriage), but those conversations need to be behind close doors.

 

[Ahadi]

I know Courtney from Lapeef is seeing Ameera on Kevin’s show


When Kevin has Courtney on she fumbled the rock

They all fumble. First Sixthagoddis, now Courtney.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I know Courtney from Lapeef is seeing Ameera on Kevin’s show


When Kevin had Courtney on she fumbled the rock

6goddis punching air rn

 

[Apollo Creed]

Exactly. That’s why the “He's been divorce twice!” argument doesnt make any sense. He’s learned from his mistakes and understands what it takes to preserve a marriage.

If he was married and then transitioned into a divorce, ppl move the goal post and say “How can you listen to a man that’s recently divorced?”

I understand some aspects of taking tools from other groups (money pooling, image control & arranged marriage), but those conversations need to be behind close doors.

i dont even mean to he offensive but chick comes
From a country that is a literal failed state and is unmarried. She comes from a culture where being unmarried post 25 = red flag.

when it comes to a woman speaking on this stuff people only want to hear from a MARRIED WOMAN. With men its different because we intiate marriage so not being married doesnt matter as long as the man is considered of a high standard, but with women if
You not married i dont want to hear your thoughts on marriage because you not out here proposing to men and you dont provide for men.

 

[Silver Surfer]

Can somebody do a cliffs if what happened with sixthegod and Kevin?

 

[Easy-E]

This is why we lose.

Stop inviting other groups into our convo & creating open conversations on open platforms (Twitter, Clubhouse, etc.) Need to be more protective of our resources.

Ameera is just a coming up off of BM.

It's YouTube, not a Black Panther meeting.

And Kevin has non-black women on his show all the time.

I still don't understand why Ameera (you I can take or leave) makes ya'll so mad