I didn't take his comment as
justifying anything. Ime, that is, in fact, one of the ways potential stalkers are 'radicalized.' I've seen it in real time.
I was out with some girls I knew from online. We had dinner and then went to a bar. We separated. I ended up with a group of African guys, one of whom offered a coveted bar stool, the others bought drinks. But they were aware that I had a man so everybody was respectful.
Meanwhile, another group of girls got drinks from some other guys. As we're leaving, one of their guys chased us down in the street like, "

where
yall going??!

" The girls, professional bw, seemed both shocked and scared, so I had to jump in and tell the nikka "
Two funky little drinks ain't gon get you no p*ssy, foh. 
"

I was
forced to act out of character bc they had already fukked up wit they game goofy ass. That nikka was borderline crazy, I coulda got hurt.