Kirk Franklin's Daughter Is A Dime Brehs

[Yup]

This is the second time someone has said that this is about insecurity this week, and it's really, REALLY not. Nothing about a predominantly black women hoping that her child looks like a cac makes me insecure. It makes me sad and frustrated that the tentacles of white supremacy has dug themselves so deeply into some of our own . I am against this. I fight this. But it doesn't make me feel any less or more secure as a black man. I'm not under the impression that blackness is played out. I still believe firmly that the majority of black people prefer their own, but there is a sizable and LOUD minority who loves putting down blackness, separating themselves from blackness as much as possible, and diluting blackness in order to make themselves feel better about themselves and identify more with the people who put us in this position to begin with. I find this to be outrageously despicable, and people like that NEED to be rehabilitated. Like cacs, they tend to either be against black progression or completely apathetic to it, and that doesn't help us in anyway.

For the record, I actually don't find that woman to be attractive at all, and think the people in this thread calling her a dime are strange. It's not like I thought she was bad and then saw her c00nish ways and made a sudden u-turn lol.

Its a slippery slope when we are talking about mixed peoplr though.

 

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[At30wecashout]

She's with a lame
Naw I'm just hating. I'd wear that Waldo outfit proudly if I'm with her

ANY woman you can confidently nerd out with is wife status. Nobody wants to put up a facade to keep a woman

I think North is adorable too, but we are talking about the most recent post she made.
She is still idolizing features she was not born with, and her children may not have.
If it was a blue eyed blond hair white women with a white man saying she hopes her baby looks like a blue eyed Shirley Temple it'd be cool because she wants her daughter to essentially look like her. These people are idolizing features that they themselves do not have. In essence they do not want their children to look like them. The only insecurities lie with the people idolizing those features not with the people calling them out for it.

What is wrong with that? That doesn't mean she hates that she can't or some other thing we might project upon her. We don't know what the guys family looks like, in which
his mother or father can be blue-eyed and blonde and he happed to take more dominantly black features. My mother, with a light-skinned man, made a dark, beautiful child
who is tall and looks unquestionably black. Her older sister? High-yellow, short, with a lighter shade of brown eyes, and looks NOTHING like my mother.
Both are my half sisters, and to me, they are whole.

This dialogue is an exercise of us, black people, passing *our* issues with colorism onto someone who isn't black wishing to be white or vice versa, but a mix of both
that can very well pop out a blue-eyed baby with a golden mane. Never did she in the same breath put down her afrocentric features. Nothing she said
was out of line.

 

[Versa]

not surprised that a very religious woman wants her children to have blue eyes and blonde hair

believe in white jesus brehs & brehettes

I am a Christian and do not subscribe to Jesus having blue eyes and blonde hair. I think the mere notion that people think he looked like that is ridiculous when he was born in the middle east. White people want everything to be their own lol.

I think North is adorable too, but we are talking about the most recent post she made.
She is still idolizing features she was not born with, and her children may not have.
If it was a blue eyed blond hair white women with a white man saying she hopes her baby looks like a blue eyed Shirley Temple it'd be cool because she wants her daughter to essentially look like her. These people are idolizing features that they themselves do not have. In essence they do not want their children to look like them. The only insecurities lie with the people idolizing those features not with the people calling them out for it.

The wild part is if a white person had a black grandmother or some shyt you would never see them uploading pictures of Blue Ivy talking about " Im 1/8th black...I sure would love for my child to have that thick kinky hair...my boyfriend is half black too so it's a possibility!"

Never. And that's because they are taught from a young age that whiteness is beautiful, superior, etc. We was raised hating ourselves so the minute some of us find out we have white ancestry we get all googly eyed and happy. It's sad and needs to be addressed.

Dude looks like the soft version of Ray Lewis.

Wow. You never lied. They look practically identical outside of complexion LMAO.

 

[Tae]

It just seems like it is cool to say "Black is beautiful" but anything but is labeled a product of white
supremacy. When someone is mixed race, they don't have the luxury of finality.
This girl isn't black. She isn't white. She is mixed, and her baby can look like a ton of things
as a result. Why is she brainwashed for liking traits that she VERY WELL could make
with her partner, who also happens to be mixed race?

It is divisive of any fully black person or fully white to use this against a mixed person. We don't have that issue
of having to balance identities.

This chick is barely mixed she has a white grandmother, that means she may be around 75% black. Vanessa Williams may be more more mixed than this chick she is only 56% black. Do you consider Rhianna mixed she also has a white grandmother?
Either way this chick considers herself a black woman.
If you have over 50% African DNA majority rules so it would be silly to label yourself as anything else other than black.
I consider a mixed person someone like Cassie, who has a bi-racial mother and bi-racial father.

 

[At30wecashout]

This is the second time someone has said that this is about insecurity this week, and it's really, REALLY not. Nothing about a predominantly black women hoping that her child looks like a cac makes me insecure. It makes me sad and frustrated that the tentacles of white supremacy has dug themselves so deeply into some of our own . I am against this. I fight this. But it doesn't make me feel any less or more secure as a black man. I'm not under the impression that blackness is played out. I still believe firmly that the majority of black people prefer their own, but there is a sizable and LOUD minority who loves putting down blackness, separating themselves from blackness as much as possible, and diluting blackness in order to make themselves feel better about themselves and identify more with the people who put us in this position to begin with. I find this to be outrageously despicable, and people like that NEED to be rehabilitated. Like cacs, they tend to either be against black progression or completely apathetic to it, and that doesn't help us in anyway.

For the record, I actually don't find that woman to be attractive at all, and think the people in this thread calling her a dime are strange. It's not like I thought she was bad and then saw her c00nish ways and made a sudden u-turn lol.

I don't mean insecurities like it threatens us or something, but the fact of the matter is, since she has that mix in her, her baby may very well look like,
and I hate using this dumb term, a CaC. Especially if she procreates with a man who is 50/50 himself. It would be more fair to let mixed race people
identify as mixed race rather than apply the dynamics that define the black and white problem to them as if it is that simple.

Like the Jewish girl who was simply told she was white so they never had to seek out the father, she had clearly black features, but being both, she
can't exactly walk in a black or white jew's shoes, nor can we walk in hers. Mixed race people have a different set of challenges to face, and labeling
their preferences a white supremacy issue is woefully simplifying it.

 

[Tae]

ANY woman you can confidently nerd out with is wife status. Nobody wants to put up a facade to keep a woman


What is wrong with that? That doesn't mean she hates that she can't or some other thing we might project upon her. We don't know what the guys family looks like, in which
his mother or father can be blue-eyed and blonde and he happed to take more dominantly black features. My mother, with a light-skinned man, made a dark, beautiful child
who is tall and looks unquestionably black. Her older sister? High-yellow, short, with a lighter shade of brown eyes, and looks NOTHING like my mother.
Both are my half sisters, and to me, they are whole.

This dialogue is an exercise of us, black people, passing *our* issues with colorism onto someone who isn't black wishing to be white or vice versa, but a mix of both
that can very well pop out a blue-eyed baby with a golden mane. Never did she in the same breath put down her afrocentric features. Nothing she said
was out of line.

Colorism is not "our" issue. It is a global white supremacy issue.
People all over the world of every nationality value light features, so stop with the bs like you're schooling people.

 

[At30wecashout]

This chick is barely mixed she has a white grandmother, that means she may be around 75% black. Vanessa Williams may be more more mixed than this chick she is only 56% black. Do you consider Rhianna mixed she also has a white grandmother?
Either way this chick considers herself a black woman.
If you have over 50% African DNA majority rules so it would be silly to label yourself as anything else other than black.
I consider a mixed person someone like Cassie, who has a bi-racial mother and bi-racial father.

Barely mixed? Is this really a thing? She is mixed enough that her hair is super long and lays on her shoulders and her complexion ain't quite
on the brown side. When we make our own categories of mixed and this and that, we can reason our way out of anything.

Not a good habit.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Being light-skinned isn't the only factor of her being marriage material. You think every nikka is thirsting for a light-bright??

 

[At30wecashout]

Colorism is not "our" issue. It is a global white supremacy issue.
People all over the world of every nationality value light features, so stop with the bs like you're schooling people.

I am not pretending to school anyone. Listen, everyone has different issues and perspectives within colorism. In the black community, sometimes you aren't black enough.
To the white community, we as black people are too black. Do you think mexicans share the same issues with regard to colorism?
The darker skinned italians? Mixed race people have added facets that have to consider that WE don't. I am black, and father on the dark shade.
There is no mistake to be made. But a lighter skinned person who is a mix of several things? Are they black enough? How will the irish treat them?
Who will the puerto ricans treat them?

When you are a dark skinned male or female, you know what to expect. When you are mixed and share a ton of features, who fukking knows
how people will react. Stop pretending it is simple.

 

[Tae]

Barely mixed? Is this really a thing? She is mixed enough that her hair is super long and lays on her shoulders and her complexion ain't quite
on the brown side. When we make our own categories of mixed and this and that, we can reason our way out of anything.

Not a good habit.

Damn I guess I'm mixed too. Time for me to change up the selection on that census form.

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[At30wecashout]

Damn I guess I'm mixed too. Time for me to change up the selection on that census form.

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....I don't know anything about you. What I do know is *this* girl is mixed. Lets keep on topic.

 

[Versa]

I understand what you are saying but I personally believe that pretending that shadeism does mot exist or sweeping it under the rug is disingenuous. You have yo understand in my 24 years of living my mom has never mentioned or alluded to skin complexiom until recently (in the last year)
Telling your darskinned child to embrace them self id not enough...you have to bring awareness about skin colour the same way that blacks havr talk about racism.
The reason why shadeism is considered less important it is due to fact that is often deemed as sexual preference. I doubt you can swy the same thing about race without opening cam of worms but the effects are still very damaging.
I serm so many darskinned girls around that are left playing catch up because they did not have parents to prepare them or give them the heads up. It's unfortunate but shadeism should be a serious topic of discussion in every household

I read the first sentence. Stop right there. You are not talking to a stupid person. I NEVER said we should pretend the war against darkness doesn't exist. I said it needs to be treated with positive reinforcment and LOVE, not seen as an Achilles heel that needs to be worked around. One method fights against white supremacy. The other method goes along with it. I am not denying the problem, I am rejecting your mother's views on how it should be addressed. If we all subscribed to the idea of needing to outdo and outwork black people lighter than us then we will remain enslaved by white supremacy. I am not an "it is what it is" and "that's life" type of negro. I was not put on this earth to go with the flow. I'm here to uplift my people and undo those chains. I'm here to fight, and we all should feel the same. I can't respect any person of color who can't ride with that .

 

[Danie84]

Congrats on her getting a Masters

...when is Kirk going to stop the charades and come all the way out the closet*Sigel voice*

 

[Versa]

Its a slippery slope when we are talking about mixed peoplr though.

Mixed people tend to rock with whichever side is most convenient at whatever particular time lol. They're slippery alright. Finding a mixed person who acknowledges that - despite science saying they are just as much white as they are black - rocks with their black side because they know that society has a one drop rule complex and still sees them as a ****** is pretty rare. Mixed people like that are allies. The ones who want to play whichever side of the fence suits them most on various topics and promote their white side while degrading their black side are some of the most annoying and shady people on the planet.

When I say mixed I mean a person with a black parent and a ____ parent, for the record. I ain't talking about women like Kirk Franklin's daughter. That chick is 75% negro. Sure she is "mixed" but who the fukk really counts that. If we looked at it that way the majority of us are all mixed - myself included. There comes a point in time where you have to separate the science from race and use social common sense. I have an Irish grandfather. I am mixed. Nobody would ever look at my black ass and know this without me saying it, so I do not consider myself a mixed person even though science says I am.

I stop seeing mixedness after 50/50. I am not gonna look at a nikka who is 85% black and 15% cherokee or a woman who is 80% black and 20% chinese as mixed

Anyways I need to get started with my day so I'ma have to stop posting now. My notifications are going off like crazy and I can't keep up lol.