Kirk Franklin's Daughter Is A Dime Brehs

[Still Benefited]

My favorite gospel bytch is the tall chick in Forever Jones

 

[Tae]

I am not pretending to school anyone. Listen, everyone has different issues and perspectives within colorism. In the black community, sometimes you aren't black enough.
To the white community, we as black people are too black. Do you think mexicans share the same issues with regard to colorism?
The darker skinned italians? Mixed race people have added facets that have to consider that WE don't. I am black, and father on the dark shade.
There is no mistake to be made. But a lighter skinned person who is a mix of several things? Are they black enough? How will the irish treat them?
Who will the puerto ricans treat them?

When you are a dark skinned male or female, you know what to expect. When you are mixed and share a ton of features, who fukking knows
how people will react. Stop pretending it is simple.

Question: If a white Swedish woman is has a baby by a black man and says she is happy the baby got her features instead of his would you say she suffers from colorism? If a Russian man impregnates his black wife and says he hopes the baby looks more like him than her would you say he suffers from colorism?
If the offspring of these couples gets together and says "I hope our baby looks more European than African" would you say they suffer from colorism?

 

[Versa]

I don't mean insecurities like it threatens us or something, but the fact of the matter is, since she has that mix in her, her baby may very well look like,
and I hate using this dumb term, a CaC. Especially if she procreates with a man who is 50/50 himself. It would be more fair to let mixed race people
identify as mixed race rather than apply the dynamics that define the black and white problem to them as if it is that simple.

Like the Jewish girl who was simply told she was white so they never had to seek out the father, she had clearly black features, but being both, she
can't exactly walk in a black or white jew's shoes, nor can we walk in hers. Mixed race people have a different set of challenges to face, and labeling
their preferences a white supremacy issue is woefully simplifying it.

I do not look at his daughter as mixed because she is predominantly black. She has a black father and a half black mother(who honestly looks more than half). The chances her child looks like a cac are miniscule unless she goes out of her way to find a man who sports those genetics, which, with how she talks, wouldn't surprise me at all. She clearly favors the whitness in her greatly despite the fact that her father is a strong black man and her mother a strong biracial black woman. Yes, I am aware that it is "ignorant" to not say she is mixed on a technical level so please don't educate me on the biological falicies in my beliefs lol.

It's always cool debating with you though, because you're a smart brother. I don't always agree with what you say but it's always coming from a thoughtful place. You'e one of the better posters so respect for that.

 

[Tae]

....I don't know anything about you. What I do know is *this* girl is mixed. Lets keep on topic.

You have labeled her as mixed. She has labeled herself as a black woman. How much African blood to non-African blood do you need to qualify as mixed? 75-25%? 80-20%? 85-15%?

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

be shocked that a light skinned baby is desired brehs

 

[NoSingleMothersB]

She isn't a "dime" and these threads are the reason why so many women are gassed. One star.

 

[At30wecashout]

Question: If a white Swedish woman is has a baby by a black man and says she is happy the baby got her features instead of his would you say she suffers from colorism? If a Russian man impregnates his black wife and says he hopes the baby looks more like him than her would you say he suffers from colorism?
If the offspring of these couples gets together and says "I hope our baby looks more European than African" would you say they suffer from colorism?

Here is one thing you didn't say, which is the crux of my issue. Who doesn't want their babies to look more like them? Yes, there are cases
in which there are very unlikely feature sets that make wishful thinking a waste of time, like blue eyes on two mixed race, brown eyed people.

However, is it a question of color specifically or the features they have? A slender nose vs a larger one? Long, stringy hair vs shorter, kinkier hair?
All the examples you said weren't out of the norm. However, what the mixed couple said specifically is foul, but that is VERY specific vs "I like the way this babies
blue eyes look and would love to have one with blue eyes as well." That doesn't bash anyone, but it mentions a feature she would like. Prior to that, she has all
darker, brown eyed babies on her page. I'm sure she knows realistically her kids will look more like that. Everyone has a preference bias for what they look like, and
part of that is ground in the reality of what they will look like as well. Colorism defines everything, but it is a bit more complex when speaking of mixed race folks.

I do not look at his daughter as mixed because she is predominantly black. She has a black father and a half black mother(who honestly looks more than half). The chances her child looks like a cac are miniscule unless she goes out of her way to find a man who sports those genetics, which, with how she talks, wouldn't surprise me at all. She clearly favors the whitness in her greatly despite the fact that her father is a strong black man and her mother a strong biracial black woman. Yes, I am aware that it is "ignorant" to not say she is mixed on a technical level so please don't educate me on the biological falicies in my beliefs lol.

It's always cool debating with you though, because you're a smart brother. I don't always agree with what you say but it's always coming from a thoughtful place. You'e one of the better posters so respect for that.

You are one of the better posters and I also enjoy debating with you. Unlike most, you never called me out of my name for simply disagreeing

 

[Tae]

Here is one thing you didn't say, which is the crux of my issue. Who doesn't want their babies to look more like them? Yes, there are cases
in which there are very unlikely feature sets that make wishful thinking a waste of time, like blue eyes on two mixed race, brown eyed people.

However, is it a question of color specifically or the features they have? A slender nose vs a larger one? Long, stringy hair vs shorter, kinkier hair?
All the examples you said weren't out of the norm. However, what the mixed couple said specifically is foul, but that is VERY specific vs "I like the way this babies
blue eyes look and would love to have one with blue eyes as well." That doesn't bash anyone, but it mentions a feature she would like. Prior to that, she has all
darker, brown eyed babies on her page. I'm sure she knows realistically her kids will look more like that. Everyone has a preference bias for what they look like, and
part of that is ground in the reality of what they will look like as well. Colorism defines everything, but it is a bit more complex when speaking of mixed race folks.


You are one of the better posters and I also enjoy debating with you. Unlike most, you never called me out of my name for simply disagreeing

How is what the mixed couple said foul? They didn't bash Africans they just said they hope their child looks more European than African.
I'm sure KF's daughter knows chances are her children will look nothing like that, but it is obvious she idolizes blue eyes and blonde hair.
Is there anything wrong with a white Russian man or Swedish woman wanting their IR kids to look like them, no and yes. Most people want their children to look like them, but we do not live in bubble where outside forces such a racism/colorism don't influence us.
So while you may see nothing wrong with a mixed race or white person in a IR relationship craving light features in their children, it could very well be that they see "African features" as less than and "European features" as better.

 

[Gravity]

I no longer blame people who use skin bleachers. The currency of skin shade especially for women is real...prople can sweep it under the rug all they want but young black girls/women aren't stupid. Your mom may have been 'strong' but she's not blind she just made do with what she has. As for your aunt...did what she can to get a leg up in society.

If blacks had the opportunity to be another race tomorrow many will choose other, some will not. People have different strengths.

It's obvious which side of that fence your c00n ass is on. at your excuses for self haters.

 

[At30wecashout]

How is what the mixed couple said foul? They didn't bash Africans they just said they hope their child looks more European than African.
I'm sure KF's daughter knows chances are her children will look nothing like that, but it is obvious she idolizes blue eyes and blonde hair.
Is there anything wrong with a white Russian man or Swedish woman wanting their IR kids to look like them, no and yes. Most people want their children to look like them, but we do not live in bubble where outside forces such a racism/colorism don't influence us.
So while you may see nothing wrong with a mixed race or white person in a IR relationship craving light features in their children, it could very well be that they see "African features" as less than and "European features" as better.

Know what, you made some good points. I only called it foul because you would think someone would just wan't their kids to resemble them more, not specifically hope
against a set of features. I can rock with what you saying.

Thankfully im not mixed and don't have to made those considerations. Easier said than done for me.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

You have labeled her as mixed. She has labeled herself as a black woman. How much African blood to non-African blood do you need to qualify as mixed? 75-25%? 80-20%? 85-15%?

sounds like you have a large percentage of cac blood in you

 

[Yup]

It's obvious which side of that fence your c00n ass is on. at your excuses for self haters.

So you assume a lot about me. I speak by observation...you know who is worst...the faux militants eho try portray themselves as problack.

 

[Jhoon]

I think North is adorable too, but we are talking about the most recent post she made.
She is still idolizing features she was not born with, and her children may not have.
If it was a blue eyed blond hair white women with a white man saying she hopes her baby looks like a blue eyed Shirley Temple it'd be cool because she wants her daughter to essentially look like her. These people are idolizing features that they themselves do not have. In essence they do not want their children to look like them. The only insecurities lie with the people idolizing those features not with the people calling them out for it.

But all features are beautiful. All. We are all beautiful in our own ways. Theread a gazillion type of ants, and they are all infinitely special. The idea that one specific trait is awesome and the other isnt, is what racism and all other isms is based on.

 

[Gravity]

So you assume a lot about me. I speak by observation...you know who is worst...the faux militants eho try portray themselves as problack.

My assumptions are based on your comments and I suspect that they're accurate. It's pretty safe to assume that one who would defend blacks who are colorstruck and blacks who try to bleach their skin is a c00n who's ashamed of being black theirself.

On other you just made a blind assumption on the strength of trying to come back at me. My posts/positions are very consistent. That "faux militant" bullshyt is just a way for you c00ns/crackers to belittle people who call c00n shyt out.

 

[Yup]

My assumptions are based on your comments and I suspect that they're accurate. It's pretty safe to assume that one who would defend blacks who are colorstruck and blacks who try to bleach their skin is a c00n who's ashamed of being black theirself.

On other you just made a blind assumption on the strength of trying to come back at me. My posts/positions are very consistent. That "faux militant" bullshyt is just a way for you c00ns/crackers to belittle people who call c00n shyt out.

Nope...I don't respect people who say one thing but do otherwise. You think you know my belief system but you don't.