ladies and gentlemen of the coli need your advice

ClassyME

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:what: i'm not hoping shyt, nikkes come and go boo... just sharing views and reading comments, since and you know its something new to me....

:what: don't call me boo nikka, that sounds gay as fukk coming from you. :whoa:.... you aren't sharing views if you need the ladies n gentlemen of the coli's help. :laugh:


Drop his ass like a hot potato and let's go guy shopping out of state mahfaka... I already told you!:myman:
 

kevm3

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If the negro cheated on you once, he'll do it again. Go ahead and get back with him if you want to replay the same story over and over in your life. With cheaters, it's always 'different this time' and that lasts for about a month or two until they get back comfortable and it's back to the same ol' routine.
 

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i have been told he is good with the ladies, EVERY GIRLS WANT TO fukk HIM.. he told me i was his first relationship, he didn't know how to be a boyfriend and i needed to teach him..:obama:
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This sound like some shyt I'd say to chicks. :pachaha: You love the penis. :word: That heat got you like :whew:
 

kevm3

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lol @that negro hitting babygirl with that musiq soulchild game

shawty teeeach me how to loveeee.

son was out there getting it in like action jackson and now he wants that comfort booty right back in his life. you said yourself you heard he was great with the ladies and he came through hitting you with a song like the o'jays - talking about 'I never been in love like this before.' the man told you he was a player since knee high, but you got to read between the lines to pick that up.

go ahead and take him back if you cool being with being a back-up, aka being the woman he falls back on after them hoes he left you for stopped giving him attention. There's been a few real ones in this thread who didn't hit you with that nonsense talking about work it out. Go ahead and get back with him, but you'll be right back on here talking about, "How could he do me like that?" What you need to understand about players is they know how to PLAY with your emotions, so of course he's going to be making you feel vulnerable, hitting them right buttons. But we done already told you what will happen if you take him back. If you want to be out here singing the blues, go ahead and let him in your life again.
 

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Let me hip ya'll to something. Players/competent cheaters are some of the sweetest people you will ever meet. Every time you are in their presence, it is fun and games and everything is wonderful. When you're not around, they're bringing that exact same experience to other people. Thus, when they cheat on you and you find out, you don't want to have those wonderful feelings that you've become dependent on out of your life and they will be right at your doorstep gaming you, putting on the tears, promising how much they've changed.

in your own mind you start thinking you can rekindle that fire and that it was just an honest mistake and that person really loves you. This cheater is thinking let me see what i can do to get ma back on my team... he might even be laughing at you in the background. if he is sincere, the sincerity will last only about a month before his natural habits resume and he's right back to talking to all these females.

people operate on habits. The same habits they had before they met you is the same ones they will likely carry on into the relationship. Cheater/player/womanizer before they met you, cheater/player/womanizer when they get with you. One of the worst things a woman can do when entering a relationship is thinking that she can change a man and treating him like some project. On the surface, it may seem like you are causing change, but it will last only a little while before they revert back to their natural characteristics.

If you get back with this guy, you are essentially rewarding him for his cheating and giving him the impression that he can always pull you back in. What do they say? Treason is punishable by death? There's a reason traitors are treated so harshly. What did Jesus tell Judas? "It was better that he was never born."

Relationship treason needs to be punished by eliminating any second chances.
Without any repercussions, people will continue to engage in their sorry behavior. Let me be perfectly clear with you. Someone that really loves you will have enough consideration for you to not cheat on you. Players, on the other hand, know how to manipulate your emotions and make you feel great and will constantly manipulate your emotions to pull you back in while they are doing their own thing. If you choose to be part of that cycle, you have been warned. There will be nothing but an emotional rollercoaster of pain and misery interjected by brief moments of pleasure deriving from emotional manipulation in your future... but the ride will end with a calamitous drop.
 

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Let me hip ya'll to something. Players/competent cheaters are some of the sweetest people you will ever meet. Every time you are in their presence, it is fun and games and everything is wonderful. When you're not around, they're bringing that exact same experience to other people. Thus, when they cheat on you and you find out, you don't want to have those wonderful feelings that you've become dependent on out of your life and they will be right at your doorstep gaming you, putting on the tears, promising how much they've changed.

in your own mind you start thinking you can rekindle that fire and that it was just an honest mistake and that person really loves you. This cheater is thinking let me see what i can do to get ma back on my team... he might even be laughing at you in the background. if he is sincere, the sincerity will last only about a month before his natural habits resume and he's right back to talking to all these females.

people operate on habits. The same habits they had before they met you is the same ones they will likely carry on into the relationship. Cheater/player/womanizer before they met you, cheater/player/womanizer when they get with you. One of the worst things a woman can do when entering a relationship is thinking that she can change a man and treating him like some project. On the surface, it may seem like you are causing change, but it will last only a little while before they revert back to their natural characteristics.

If you get back with this guy, you are essentially rewarding him for his cheating and giving him the impression that he can always pull you back in. What do they say? Treason is punishable by death? There's a reason traitors are treated so harshly. What did Jesus tell Judas? "It was better that he was never born."

Relationship treason needs to be punished by eliminating any second chances.
Without any repercussions, people will continue to engage in their sorry behavior. Let me be perfectly clear with you. Someone that really loves you will have enough consideration for you to not cheat on you. Players, on the other hand, know how to manipulate your emotions and make you feel great and will constantly manipulate your emotions to pull you back in while they are doing their own thing. If you choose to be part of that cycle, you have been warned. There will be nothing but an emotional rollercoaster of pain and misery interjected by brief moments of pleasure deriving from emotional manipulation in your future... but the ride will end with a calamitous drop.

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