ladies and gentlemen of the coli need your advice

[thoushallhustle]

If you take him back, make him pay. Be distant, make him lick ur ass without giving him head or sex. Flirt with other nikkas. Make him buy you things. That way if he cheats again you wont be looking like a fool. If hes giving his jumpoffs everything he gives you then you lost.

 

[Just like bruddas]

so i have been single for about 5 months and my ex "found" me since i deleted him from everything and changed my number... btw i didn't change my number because of him, that's another story... anyways, now he is sorry and crying for me to come back. he's telling me that his feeling never changed and trying to become a better man because i showed him life.. he told me after i left him karma was a bytch, he went through shyt... idk what he was thinking but you just can't start where you left of after you cheat and disappoint your so called relationship for nothing.. i never got cheated on before so i didn't know how to react. yes, i loved him then idk about now... guys i need your help

can a men cry and lie about his tears?

Beloved dont go rushing back into this, cause thats what he's doing. Think yall need some time apart especially if he just got done dirty himself. Let that shyt burn, I think he just want you to build himself back up after karma shytted on him.

Think with your brain this time beloved, let that heart get finished healing

 

[1thouwow]

I'd help you, but I'm going through this same shyt myself. Me and my ex been broken up for a year, yet we've been trying to get back together for over 8 months, and even then, we always argue and fall apart just to come back to each other.

This shyt aint fun at all

Let that shyt go

 

[Wild self]

Not easy for him giving up them East African bootymeats

 

[Wild self]

If you take him back, make him pay. Be distant, make him lick ur ass without giving him head or sex. Flirt with other nikkas. Make him buy you things. That way if he cheats again you wont be looking like a fool. If hes giving his jumpoffs everything he gives you then you lost.

Tricking is never the answer

 

[winb83]

never second guess your decisions. if you decided to ex him then it should be over.
people really should learn to trust their own instincts more.

 

[ChocolateCake]

I wanna thank you guys, your very helpful!!

Y'all showed me love in a deep way lol some of y'all was really girl!! But I know why, soooo thanks again

 

[Malta]

He's probably texting his dudes like -


"Look at this text from her, can you believe she thinking bout taking me back too easy"

 

[MeachTheMonster]

As others said him cheating doesn't mean he doesn't love you. But him still loving you doesn't mean he won't cheat on you again. It's a risk that you have to decide if your willing to take.

 

[Turbulent]

he was a good guy, always called me to say good morning, good night. i went to school 2hrs away from home and would drive twice a week to see me..

but for some reason i felt there was something wrong.. one thing about me i get a very strong feels about things is life... i suck on following my instinct.

i have been told he is good with the ladies, EVERY GIRLS WANT TO fukk HIM.. he told me i was his first relationship, he didn't know how to be a boyfriend and i needed to teach him..

lol @ the obama smug. you actually believed you were doing something? that dude played you like a violin. he stroked your ego real good and you fell for it.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

I believe the hardest things for most females to grasp is:

The ONLY way a man will know your worth & how much you were mistreated, is by NEVER going back to him. If there are no consequences, nothing is learned and the cycle continues (respect is also lost).

In essence, losing you will make him a better man for the next woman (another hard pill females cannot swallow). Let the man who already learned/knows the value of a woman come into your life. To do otherwise, you're blocking your own blessing(s).

 

[Lavish]

He just wants to fukk you.

:stare:

 

[thoushallhustle]

Tricking is never the answer

I wouldnt call it tricking, moreso consequences for his indiscretion(s). He needs to do SOMETHING to get back right. Cant just take him back with open arms.

 

[Houston911]

I wanna thank you guys, your very helpful!!

Y'all showed me love in a deep way lol some of y'all was really girl!! But I know why, soooo thanks again

Lmao at you dapping the post that said "take him back but make him lick your ass and buy you shyt"

Why dont you lick @Broke Wave ass and buy him shyt so your man can feel the pain that you felt?

 

[Art Barr]

It is 2012,....

Cheater swag nikkas are simps.

You do not have to lie to kick it.
You do not have to fake a nut for a relationship.

you should have let him cry on the phone.
Then, hung up in his face.
If you take him back,...you are a dumb ass.
Plus,..i just learned females who do that are introverted sadists.
So you will be one of them, too.

Art Barr