Ladies Ever Consider Submission as a Way to Win?

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maybe I'll try it

 

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You said you were gonna try it.

Tell me how it goes.

 

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You said you were gonna try it.

Tell me how it goes.

Oh lol ok

 

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I'm like this normally anyway. But usually it's with everyone.
Here's the deal...it's a great primer because people will begin to underestimate you. Then I hit with boom if they make me angry and dear lord you'd think I'm the damn devil.

I'm the nicest, sweetest, most considerate person in the world until u flip that switch.
And it takes a lot do so, but when you do I'm downright evil.

Great thread and no, women should never feel wary of submitting to a man who is willing to love and take care of you. If he isn't or can't, then the word "submission" shouldn't even be behind his teeth.

Too many people want something for nothing these days.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Still coming along ladies. I'm sure my 2 weeks is up by now but Imma keep it going. I still need to try it on a new date.

Edit: Update on Mr. 4 Year. He wanted me to meet some members of his family today. Nah we won't be doing that. And sent me a text telling he is working on travel plans for this ticket he is trying to get me. Also not going to happen.

 

[Black Barbie]

Interesting thread. I might try this, but at the same time I'm hesitant to because of where I live since I don't wanna attract dudes from L.A.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Okay ladies met a new cutie yesterday. He is sexy too . Looks like a better version of John David Washington with the beard. Finally I have a new person to try my new submissive side on. He's kinda killing my phone with a million and one questions though but he'll do.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I guess I'm submissive and want a submissive partner as well. I'm able to reason without overreacting, consider different perspectives, respect anyone's privacy and limits. However, if my partner's not willing to do the same for me, no biggie but it's definitely over. It shouldn't be too hard either, but I guess it depends on how you were raised and the crowd you normally deal with.

This is my definition of being a decent and mature person. But I guess in this day and age, this type of behavior is something that people (not you) have to consciously practice/try to achieve.

 

[StickStickly]

Nah I don't think you're right at all. Submission is a behavior/mindset and you don't just start acting a new way all of a sudden. Also if he needs to tell you how to behave then it obviously doesn't come to you naturally. Why would a good dude with options want to have to tell a grown woman how to act? If submission came so naturally to women then you wouldn't have so many men complaining about.

I also I never said anything about NOT having an opinion. Not sure why you even said that.

I think men who complain that women aren't being submissive anymore are confused about what it means. I've noticed when a guy here or elsewhere says that, they mean they want women to like to cook, clean, take care of the hypothetical kids and not have a better education or better job than they do. Hell they tend to think any woman who works or has a career isn't submissive. hey want women to acknowledge men are smarter and stronger and should be the "leaders". They also think women who reject their relationship advances or don't say "Yes" to sex all the time (to their spouses) aren't being submissive, hence why they always harp on the 1940s-60s, when women didn't have many options to reject suitors. I don't know if they complain that women aren't nice, just that women don't act like wives or girlfriends or domestics when they first get to know them, which is asking a lot.

But the traits you described sound like being an agreeable, considerate person who values other opinions and allows others to have them .

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I think men who complain that women aren't being submissive anymore are confused about what it means. I've noticed when a guy here or elsewhere says that, they mean they want women to like to cook, clean, take care of the hypothetical kids and not have a better education or better job than they do. Hell they tend to think any woman who works or has a career isn't submissive. hey want women to acknowledge men are smarter and stronger and should be the "leaders". They also think women who reject their relationship advances or don't say "Yes" to sex all the time (to their spouses) aren't being submissive, hence why they always harp on the 1940s-60s, when women didn't have many options to reject suitors. I don't know if they complain that women aren't nice, just that women don't act like wives or girlfriends or domestics when they first get to know them, which is asking a lot.

But the traits you described sound like being an agreeable, considerate person who values other opinions and allows others to have them .

Good men complain about it as well as bad men. I think if there is a complaint across the board with men from all different walks of life I think that they should a least be heard. I feel like many women gave the broad stroke answer that you gave "their confused" "they want a maid" "they want to oppress us/hold us back" to dismiss their concern when I don't think that's the case for many men. The think most mean the bolded but also couple that with her being willing to take care of a home/husband/children and I honestly don't see anything wrong with that. I mean, we are talking about live time partnerships. I think it's perfectly acceptable to want a partner who actually wants to be that.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I wasn't really thrill with the idea of submission until I put it in context.

I have dogs. I do everything for these dogs. I take them out 3+ times a day. I go to the store and buy them food. I clean up when they eliminate. I clean up their puke. I train them. I make sure they stay healthy. I do EVERYTHING for them and I don't mind it b/c I love them. In fact, I really enjoy it. They provide me with love, affection, company and protection. A man can provide me with so much more than a dog. So why am I willing to bend over backward for the dog but I hesitate when it comes to man?

I guess I can use the excuse that "I don't want to get taken advantage of" but honestly I have standards and self love so when someone acts up they get shone to the door. On top of that I have no shortage of men and also have no problem being alone b/c I enjoy my own company. So...there really is no reason other than the fact that I've been taught to see men a certain way. So I am making an honest effect to switch it up. It's done nothing but yield positive results.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I like dude in the OP. He comes off as mad sexist but when you really listen to him he basically is about reciprocity to the high level in regards to male/female interactions. He tells men their sex game, mouth piece, presentation, romantic ability, self confidence, standards etc need to be top tier. Basically the idea is to be better than every other dude so that you can have "any" woman or as many women are you want.

I am just flipping the script. Be all that except the female version. I already have random bytches mad that I exist; running around town telling folks they mad that I'm so cold. I'm just trying to take it to the next level. I'm trying to break hearts everywhere I go.

 

[The Mad Titan]

@BlackPearl you can't even let yourself have the last word




Seems like your at cross roads with yourself

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

@BlackPearl you can't even let yourself have the last word




Seems like your at cross roads with yourself

Nah bae I'm just rambling.