Ladies Ever Consider Submission as a Way to Win?

[Neuromancer]

It's not that he's taking time out of his life just incorporating me/women into what he already does. He probably doesn't have to do much to get sex with women normally. He goes out at least 4 times a week and either has a trip or outing planned every weekend. A lot of women would be impressed with that but again game recognize game. I think he enjoys the trill of the chase.

Oh I see.

 

[Neuromancer]

It is indeed.

I wanted to talk to you. I will hit your PM soon.

Ok.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Update!!!!!!

So I went out with the new guy. This dude is drop dead gorgeous!!!! My god!!!! Looks wise he is damn near perfect: wash board abs, perfect smile, smooth dark skin, full beard, over 6ft, eyelashes like a camel and these amazing hazel eyes. It defies all logic.

So you know what that means...he's the perfect specimen for our little experiment Dude probably has women throwing it at him left and right. On top of that he has a good job, seems to have a little money to burn and has no children. Again defies all logic.

Anyway I think this is the best kind of man to test this on b/c 1. He's the kind of man most women want: handsome, athletic, "successful", childless etc. 2. He's use to getting women so it's less likely his response will be skewed by desperation /loneliness ie the way he treats me will likely depend on how I represent myself.

I think this is going to be good

Actually date in the next post...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So I met this guy a week ago. It was just a quick passing. I saw him, he saw me, he wanted me to take his number but I didn't have my phone so he took mine and we text each other/talked on the phone throughout the week and made plans to meet today.

I swear the dude must listen to dude in the OP. He did EVERYTHING that "the dean" tells men to do.

1. He tried to give me his # instead of taking mine.
2. He had it very clear he was interested in me sexually from the first conversation
3. He wanted to meet up for a free activity
4. The date was an activity he would normally be doing

He even went through thecoli check list and asked me if I had tattoos, do I club a lot, have I even clubbed a lot and do I drink a lot (every answer is no).

Classic



Anyway the date was at the park where he runs. I brought my dogs. He walked one and I walked the other around the park. It was a beautiful but hot day. Anyway all went well. I let him choose the path, took all his suggestions with stopping, taking breaks, watering the dog etc. I made sure not to dominate the conversation and make it as much about him as possible. It was easy, came nature and made for a pleasant date.

He did try to kiss me and grab my booty so I had to pump his breaks and tell him to slow it down...nicely of course. All in all good date.

When I got home he called me and told me he wanted to see me again tonight. Told me he was kinda thrown off by the fact that I wasn't all over him (paraphrase) and I just told him I have to get to know him better before anything physical goes down.

So far so good. I can't think of how the date would have went any different if I had been bossy or bytchy about the kiss except maybe he wouldn't have wanted to see me later or again at all.

I'll keep ya'll posted. Feel free to chime in.

 

[Neuromancer]

So I met this guy a week ago. It was just a quick passing. I saw him, he saw me, he wanted me to take his number but I didn't have my phone so he took mine and we text each other/talked on the phone throughout the week and made plans to meet today.

I swear the dude must listen to dude in the OP. He did EVERYTHING that "the dean" tells men to do.

1. He tried to give me his # instead of taking mine.
2. He had it very clear he was interested in me sexually from the first conversation
3. He wanted to meet up for a free activity
4. The date was an activity he would normally be doing

He even went through thecoli check list and asked me if I had tattoos, do I club a lot, have I even clubbed a lot and do I drink a lot (every answer is no).

Classic



Anyway the date was at the park where he runs. I brought my dogs. He walked one and I walked the other around the park. It was a beautiful but hot day. Anyway all went well. I let him choose the path, took all his suggestions with stopping, taking breaks, watering the dog etc. I made sure not to dominate the conversation and make it as much about him as possible. It was easy, came nature and made for a pleasant date.

He did try to kiss me and grab my booty so I had to pump his breaks and tell him to slow it down...nicely of course. All in all good date.

When I got home he called me and told me he wanted to see me again tonight. Told me he was kinda thrown off by the fact that I wasn't all over him (paraphrase) and I just told him I have to get to know him better before anything physical goes down.

So far so good. I can't think of how the date would have went any different if I had been bossy or bytchy about the kiss except maybe he wouldn't have wanted to see me later or again at all.

I'll keep ya'll posted. Feel free to chime in.

I hope this works out for you. Are you ultimately trying to find a mate?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I hope this works out for you. Are you ultimately trying to find a mate?

Right now I am just seeing where it goes. IDK this dude. He's easy on the eyes but that might be it. I do ultimately want to find a mate but I am not pressed.

 

[marcuz]

Nah.

you want to be a baby momma

 

[Blackout]

and grab my booty

 

[BmoreGorilla]

This shyt is true. Us men are so easy to manipulate

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[The Mad Titan]

So I met this guy a week ago. It was just a quick passing. I saw him, he saw me, he wanted me to take his number but I didn't have my phone so he took mine and we text each other/talked on the phone throughout the week and made plans to meet today.

I swear the dude must listen to dude in the OP. He did EVERYTHING that "the dean" tells men to do.

1. He tried to give me his # instead of taking mine.
2. He had it very clear he was interested in me sexually from the first conversation
3. He wanted to meet up for a free activity
4. The date was an activity he would normally be doing

He even went through thecoli check list and asked me if I had tattoos, do I club a lot, have I even clubbed a lot and do I drink a lot (every answer is no).

Classic



Anyway the date was at the park where he runs. I brought my dogs. He walked one and I walked the other around the park. It was a beautiful but hot day. Anyway all went well. I let him choose the path, took all his suggestions with stopping, taking breaks, watering the dog etc. I made sure not to dominate the conversation and make it as much about him as possible. It was easy, came nature and made for a pleasant date.

He did try to kiss me and grab my booty so I had to pump his breaks and tell him to slow it down...nicely of course. All in all good date.

When I got home he called me and told me he wanted to see me again tonight. Told me he was kinda thrown off by the fact that I wasn't all over him (paraphrase) and I just told him I have to get to know him better before anything physical goes down.

So far so good. I can't think of how the date would have went any different if I had been bossy or bytchy about the kiss except maybe he wouldn't have wanted to see me later or again at all.

I'll keep ya'll posted. Feel free to chime in.

Invite me to the wedding





Seems like you might not want a guy like this for a serious long term relationship as much as you let on tho




I like picking your brain bp

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Invite me to the wedding





Seems like you might not want a guy like this for a serious long term relationship as much as you let on tho




I like picking your brain bp

I just met him. I have no expectations. He may/probably just trying to get laid. A little early for long term talks.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I just met him. I have no expectations. He may/probably just trying to get laid. A little early for long term talks.

Its never to early to start thinking about forever


Now planning for forever


Keep us updated tho.

I want to know if this guys gets laid...




so I can live vicariously through him if he does

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Its never to early to start thinking about forever


Now planning for forever


Keep us updated tho.

I want to know if this guys gets laid...




so I can live vicariously through him if he does

Yea too early hun.

 

[Blackout]

You talk to any corny brothas after you stated doing this yet?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You talk to any corny brothas after you stated doing this yet?

Yeah there was this corny dude who asked me my opinion on shirts yesterday but he didn't shoot his shot. No corny dudes have asked lately.