Ladies Ever Consider Submission as a Way to Win?

[iBrowse]

Now hear me out ladies.


I'm conducing an experiment. I've been listen to this guy Steve Williams on youtube. He's an "alpha male" dating expert. You will probably hate him so don't click if you don't have a strong stomach. He's a dikk but I can't lie if I was a dude I would want to be just like him. This dude be schooling the hell out of these boys on the sex game too.



Anyway he's big on submission in women and he said something in one of his videos like "If men from all over the world want this (submission) why don't you ladies get the hint." So it got me to thinking. How can I use this to my advantage?


So I decided to conduct an expert. For 2 weeks, I am going to be "submissive" to men. This will include men I know and strangers. This "submission" will include:

Not being argumentative
Not critiquing or criticizing men
Stating my opinion in a brief, respectful and non-emotional manner
Being "happy" and smiling more
Being complimentary

The purpose of this experiment is to observe the differences in responses of men (if any) compare to my normal opinionated self.

Now it was hard for me to put my ego to the side to even think about doing this but I am always down for a challenge. I'm just fukking curious to see how men response. I already on day three. I will post the results I had so far in the next post.

Wish me luck.

Here is his channel. Enter at your own risk.
steve williams


PS The only time will not be submissive is when I am on thecoli

How did this go

My girl is submissive to me but we treat each other like royalty as well

Are we submissive to each other

Then again I do dictate things but in a non-confrontational manner

I'm so confused

 

[Yinny]

I may have to try this, I'm on operation Hubby so I should probably try something different.

 

[BigMan]

“Not being argumentative
Not critiquing or criticizing men
Stating my opinion in a brief, respectful and non-emotional manner
Being "happy" and smiling more
Being complimentary”

A little sad that people are seeing this as something hard to do or something that requires effort . This is just being a good person lol

 

[Yinny]

“Not being argumentative
Not critiquing or criticizing men
Stating my opinion in a brief, respectful and non-emotional manner
Being "happy" and smiling more
Being complimentary”

A little sad that people are seeing this as something hard to do or something that requires effort . This is just being a good person lol

The first two are hard because a lot of men aren't as intelligent or correct as they think they are, and have massive egos. Regardless, they view women who correct them or disagree with them as difficult or unpleasant even if she's not.

 

[BigMan]

The first two are hard because a lot of men aren't as intelligent or correct as they think they are, and have massive egos. Regardless, they view women who correct them or disagree with them as difficult or unpleasant even if she's not.

Ok so let’s flip it around:

“The first two are hard because a lot of women aren't as intelligent or correct as they think they are, and have massive egos.”

Is a man that says this a good person ?

My point is what OP suggests is something everyone should do. Be pleasant, be empathetic, compliment the other person. Basic stuff.

That you and other female posters are looking at this as something extra is concerning lmao

 

[Yinny]

Ok so let’s flip it around:

“The first two are hard because a lot of women aren't as intelligent or correct as they think they are, and have massive egos.”

Is a man that says this a good person ?

My point is what OP suggests is something everyone should do. Be pleasant, be empathetic, compliment the other person. Basic stuff.

That you and other female posters are looking at this as something extra is concerning lmao

I agree with the statement (people hate being corrected, and usually don't know as much as they think they do without research) but this thread is about the opposite sex. I don't think pointing out something like that has anything to do with being a good or bad person, either. You're agreeing with the last three of her points but the first two aren't necessarily simple, it seems more about shutting up for the sake of general peace and pleasantness than being correct.

 

[BigMan]

I agree with the statement (people hate being corrected, and usually don't know as much as they think they do without research) but this thread is about the opposite sex. I don't think pointing out something like that has anything to do with being a good or bad person, either. You're agreeing with the last three of her points but the first two aren't necessarily simple, it seems more about shutting up for the sake of general peace and pleasantness than being correct.

Idk, IMO If you’re always argumentative and always critique men, you’re probably a shytty person

And if you’re always argumentative and criticizing women, you’re probably a shytty person too. Just look at the coli.

If you’re in or looking for a relationship you shouldn’t always try to one up the other person or always correct the person anyway.

 

[Yinny]

Idk, IMO If you’re always argumentative and always critique men, you’re probably a shytty person

And if you’re always argumentative and criticizing women, you’re probably a shytty person too. Just look at the coli.

If you’re in or looking for a relationship you shouldn’t always try to one up the other person or always correct the person anyway.

Which are fair, I think it varies by the person because some people enjoy debating and don't view criticism or being corrected as a negative thing. Now anyone will get annoyed if it's happening constantly, which is why I get it. Some people have egos where they can't accept being wrong though and will make outlandish or inaccurate statements, and it's not always about the critiquer esp if it's multiple people who point out something.

 

[BigMan]

Which are fair, I think it varies by the person because some people enjoy debating and don't view criticism or being corrected as a negative thing. Now anyone will get annoyed if it's happening constantly, which is why I get it. Some people have egos where they can't accept being wrong though and will make outlandish or inaccurate statements, and it's not always about the critiquer esp if it's multiple people who point out something.

Yeah I was going to say there’s ways to debate/correct without being argumentative

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Update

So I just went back and reread this thread. Wow this was a great thread with super interesting dialogue. I can't believe it's been 3 years since I made this thread. This is so dope. The push back I got in this thread is hilarious. Anyway...

I have been on the same road since I made this thread. The benefits have been substantial. Now it's second nature and carries over to all my relationships. I would say I am much more likeable in general. I have acquired probably triple the friends and associates I had when I made this thread. I have like 4 seperate groups of people I kick it with regularly. It's been great and my social skills are through the ruff. I can win over damn near anyone.

Mr. Beautiful faded into the background but popped back up a year late. Breh completely changed his game up and was trying the whole courtship routine. I wasn't really interested at that point and never linked back up with him.

Mr. 4 years is now Mr 7 or 8 years lol. Breh still wants to take me out. Again, never had any type of sexual interaction with him nor Mr. Beautiful. He's had a few girlfriends in this time but I guess they never work out idk. He recently had a female friend ask me why I don't like him. I'm like 'girl it's been almost 10 years. The any potential fire has died long ago.' She claims 'He doesn't know how.' Girl bye. I'll keep riding the wave until I get into a relationship or he finally decides to put his foot down and makes me tell him I'm not interested. lol

Been a few dudes/dates in between. Nothing to right home about but generally happy with how they turned out even though I wasn't interested.

Got a whole situation now that is working out pretty well for me. Maybe I'll share it one day. It's been a whole adventure and I know with absolute certainty that if I didn't switch up my style I wouldn't be benefiting. One day...maybe.

All in all my experiment was well worth it and I have adopted the practices to the point it's second nature. The results have been nothing but positive. As you all may known I haven't lost a bit of my personality. I'm still as 'Blackpearl-ish' as ever but I have molded my personality to be more advantages to me with men and women. And as I stated before, gained a lot more friends/associates in the mean time which is dope.

I haven't been taken advantage of in the least. There is one sutuation I wasn't sure about but it turned out to be the biggest W ever. Again, maybe I'll detail it one day. It's a whole saga. Outside of that, it has been straight positivity.

I have found that instead of trying to take advantage men seem so happy to find someone who is 'cooperative' that they are usually ready to lock it down fast in addition to being generous.

In conclusion, I am super glad I did it. I helped me socially in a million ways and I will continue doing it and continue to get better as time goes on.

Thanks for listening.

How did this go

My girl is submissive to me but we treat each other like royalty as well

Are we submissive to each other

Then again I do dictate things but in a non-confrontational manner

I'm so confused

 

[iBrowse]

@BlackPearl The Empress congratulations sounds like you’ve been having a grand time. Being submissive does not equate to subjugation.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

@BlackPearl The Empress congratulations sounds like you’ve been having a grand time. Being submissive does not equate to subjugation.

Oh not at all. It's actually very disarming to most people. People who want to control you will do so regardless of how you act and overly aggressive women get controlled as much as anyone else. Having standards that you adhere to stops control not aggressive or confrontation.

 

[iBrowse]

Oh not at all. It's actually very disarming to most people. People who want to control you will do so regardless of how you act and overly aggressive women get controlled as much as anyone else. Having standards that you adhere to stops control not aggressive or confrontation.

Very true.

 

[Strapped]

Are you still practicing this bpe

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Are you still practicing this bpe

Yup it's second nature now