Ladies, If You Slapped Your Dude Would You Want Him To Hit Back?

[Turbulent]

This is not s parent-child relationship. Unfortunately she wasn't raised right, but it is not your job to raise her. You should care if repercussions are equal because you are both supposed to be an adult. 9 times 10 of hitting her won't make her change or it won't be the change you want. You can't raise adults. But you may like a woman being scared of you, or a woman with low self esteem that will stay with someone that will hit them. I would think I would rather deal with someone who I don't have to deal with all that.

if a woman hits me, i won't stay with her. but i may still hit her just to make sure she never thinks about hitting me again.

i agree that it's not a parent child relationship but if someone acts like a child around me, i will treat them accordingly. what does being an adult have to do with caring if it's equal or not? me hitting her is not about "eye for an eye". it's about "do this again and this is the result you can expect". it's not about justice or fairness. it's a deterrent.

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

what kind of silly ass question is this?

 

[no.]

why get so brave and provoke people and all this is enabled by the police/protection by society. so much faith in these systems but what will you do when you meet someone who just doesn't give a fukk about these systems and traditions? your sense of security and bravery is tied into something so fragile...

If I'm arguing, I expect someone to argue back, not assault me because he felt like it. If he steps over that boundary, I can and will call the police. If you think law enforcement is fragile, well, the freedom of one lone psycho who goes around throwing haymakers over words is even more fragile

 

[Raava]

if a woman hits me, i won't stay with her. but i may still hit her just to make sure she never thinks about hitting me again.

i agree that it's not a parent child relationship but if someone acts like a child around me, i will treat them accordingly. what does being an adult have to do with caring if it's equal or not? me hitting her is not about "eye for an eye". it's about "do this again and this is the result you can expect". it's not about justice or fairness. it's a deterrent.

You just negated the whole argument. If you aren't going to stay with her then why do you have to worry about if she will do it again? What are you deterring if the issue is no longer there?

I don't have sympathy for women who act like they can fight a man and get hit. At the same time, I would prefer the guy walk away. In relationships why even deal with that. It's a precarious position.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Umm what? If I slapped a dude, I would hope I wouldnt get hit back. Just take as in knowing I'm pissed off. So I wouldn't lose respect for not hitting me back, I'd respect him for that.

never date a Jamaican. We beat our women for not cooking breakfast in the morning.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

All my women know better

they even relay it to me from time to time

like "damn you'd prolly punch me in the face huh?"

Me:

real nikka shyt. I remember one time my ex said I got her so mad she wanted to punch me in the face, but right as her angry started to bubble it dawned on her "I'm pretty sure this nikka would beat the breaks off me "

She told me I was the first dude she dated that she was afraid of, and in turn she was on her best behavior with me. Took that as a compliment

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I just wouldnt in the situation in general, yea he defending himself... but you hit me over a slap. Im a woman my strength does NOT equate to a mans. Yeah the whole 'you hit someone, expect to get hit back' line is going to be thrown at me but seriously... you gone hit a woman over a slap? A basic ass slap? Come on, thats the stuff that a man shouldnt let bother him. At least i would hope all men wouldnt...

Now @Amulet of Immortality is getting major side eye from me after that comment to me and the fact that he has @honestly? pic as his avi...

bytch that should give you cause to NOT hit that nikka to begin with. Could you imagine a dude walking up to an MMA fighter, slapping the shyt out of him and saying "Your strength is greater than mine, so you can't hit me back "

Silly ass hoes man

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

real nikka shyt. I remember one time my ex said I got her so mad she wanted to punch me in the face, but right as her angry started to bubble it dawned on her "I'm pretty sure this nikka would beat the breaks off me "

She told me I was the first dude she dated that she was afraid of, and in turn she was on her best behavior with me. Took that as a compliment

she knows my personality plus i used to do pushups w her on top of me and one armed pull ups....she dont fukk around w that physical shyt


.... nothing can ever shut them up tho..words are their weapons breh

 

[Turbulent]

You just negated the whole argument. If you aren't going to stay with her then why do you have to worry about if she will do it again? What are you deterring if the issue is no longer there?

I don't have sympathy for women who act like they can fight a man and get hit. At the same time, I would prefer the guy walk away. In relationships why even deal with that. It's a precarious position.

she because you don't live with someone/not in a relationship with someone, doesn't mean you won't see her again. sometimes you kinda have to see people. Sometimes it's people you work with, sometimes it's people you go to school with. Remember the dude who posted about his friend who broke up with the jamaican chick and she was still trying to hit him? You already know this dude was "turning the other cheek..." while they were in a relationship. Too many chicks that to play the "I'm a crazy bytch!" and even exes are on that shyt. funny enough most of them will only play it on the dudes that seem like they'll let them get away with it.

 

[A.R.$]

I aint say sh1t about punching tho, i said a slap. now a punch then, aye...

Why do you even got to slap him though? Why couldn't you express you frustrations without hitting him?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

she knows my personality plus i used to do pushups w her on top of me and one armed pull ups....she dont fukk around w that physical shyt


.... nothing can ever shut them up tho..words are their weapons breh

I didn't do all of that with my broads. I just let em know off rip that I'm Jamaican and I come from a long line of women beaters

That pretty much is all it takes. So far I've been lucky, and I only had to choke one broad out my entire life.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

I didn't do all of that with my broads. I just let em know off rip that I'm Jamaican and I come from a long line of women beaters

That pretty much is all it takes. So far I've been lucky, and I only had to choke one broad out my entire life.

LOL nah that was just 1 chick... and she was saying that shyt waay before any of that.. just based off atttitude..shyt just solidified the fact that she'd get smacked into next week

 

[Turbulent]

bytch that should give you cause to NOT hit that nikka to begin with. Could you imagine a dude walking up to an MMA fighter, slapping the shyt out of him and saying "Your strength is greater than mine, so you can't hit me back "

Silly ass hoes man

because as men, we fundamentally understand how respect flows. we understand it has nothing to do with statutes and badges. respect comes from power. A lot of women take that shyt for granted as if it couldn't happen to them because of some random words in law books. hell, even men are starting to take their safety for granted. Grown men doing stupid pranks in the streets and think they won't get touched because it's illegal...

 

[↓R↑LYB]

because as men, we fundamentally understand how respect flows. we understand it has nothing to do with statutes and badges. respect comes from power. A lot of women take that shyt for granted as if it couldn't happen to them because of some random words in law books. hell, even men are starting to take their safety for granted. Grown men doing stupid pranks in the streets and think they won't get touched because it's illegal...

It's another reason why I say women are nothing more than tall ass children who bleed out they a$$hole every few weeks. bytches have no sense of responsibility.

nikkas that do dumb shyt though.....I laugh when hands get put on em

 

[YaBoy]

If I'm arguing, I expect someone to argue back, not assault me because he felt like it. If he steps over that boundary, I can and will call the police. If you think law enforcement is fragile, well, the freedom of one lone psycho who goes around throwing haymakers over words is even more fragile

I hate women like you who intentionally provoke men into hitting them & then hide behind the police