Ladies: What do YOU do to KEEP a man once you have one?

[Kenny West]

I'm not conceited I just know that I'm going somewhere. And I don't blame the break-up on him, I'm just not feeling being in college and working and seeing a grown man sit on his ass.

You're a loser though, trying to tell me about myself because I have self-worth.

Whatever nikka.

I saw thru you in less than 3 posts, mainly because so many chicks say the same shyt until they start getting older.

I don't need to shyt on you champ. I'm a nikka, a young nikka at that. Even if I were ugly, the transition from to is just a paycheck, smile and charming conversation away.

That said I ain't got no beef with you doing ya thing in school and career. Everybody gotta eat.

It's just that attitude expressed in your first post is gonna be pivotal factor down the road if you begin to realize you can't keep a man who aint a bum. You might as well bookmark this thread. Hopefully down the road you can revisit it so hopefully Binary's post can save your soul.

 

[HelgaPataki]

unless you are actively trying to keep a man all you have to offer is sex?

 

[SheWasFly]

Whoa now, no need for name calling.....lets be respectful.

You basically proved my point...even when the trollop decides to go wayward and divorce with intentions of swindling half of a mans money to seek her new found "independance"...even then her value is still based off of what a man has to offer. Noble jezebel, building that career isn't going to help the cocoa butter fade away the stretch marks. Don't be the rebel career woman who is single in her 40's and has a "traveling hobby" as a front to mask her lonely lack of a home life.

Getting touchy are we? I didn't prove anything, I just explained how the system works. I also said how personally I don't give a damn about wealth because ill have my own. I won't have to worry about fadin stretch marks because I'm in shape and I will be when I'm forty as well. I won't be single and if I am it'll be my choice, trust me.

im not in the mood to shade...but i think your age is a big determining factor to your answer...young women...attractive young women...are very valuable to men...and if youre attractive...i think you know this. so right now...youre right you dont have to do anything to keep a man...

once you're in your mid 30s...i think your perspective will change. you'll be competing with women that are your age now...just looking good wont be enough

Ok, well as I've said numerous times, looking good isn't all I have or will have to offer. I'm not even worried about that.

 

[AllHolosEve]

realizes i watch them dumb @$$ reality shows & pretend to care just for wifey.... i be like whodat why they mad, whodat who she cheat wit, whodat she drugged up, wifey be cant you shut the f_ck up til the commercial..... i cant stand them kardashian b!tches....

 

[Sierra Mist]

unless you are actively trying to keep a man all you have to offer is sex?

What else can you offer?

 

[HelgaPataki]

@Sierra Mist what do you have to offer besides dikk and simping?

 

[SheWasFly]

Whatever nikka.

I saw thru you in less than 3 posts, mainly because so many chicks say the same shyt until they start getting older.

I don't need to shyt on you champ. I'm a nikka, a young nikka at that. Even if I were ugly, the transition from to is just a paycheck, smile and charming conversation away.

That said I ain't got no beef with you doing ya thing in school and career. Everybody gotta eat.

It's just that attitude expressed in your first post is gonna be pivotal factor down the road if you begin to realize you can't keep a man who aint a bum. You might as well bookmark this thread. Hopefully down the road you can revisit it so hopefully Binary's post can save your soul.

No, the attitude in my first post will ensure that I don't get stuck with a fukking loser. And if by any chance I can't find a nice man of my race that likes my lifestyle and has something to offer I am not opposed to meeting a nice white nikka. They appreciate women who work for what they have way more.

Ultimately men don't care how much money women have because that's not what men are attracted to. Men are attracted to beautiful , feminine women. Be as wealthy as you want. I really don't have a beef with that. Plus you're attractive so you're on point in every area.

I actually agree with your philosophy. The women I have a beef with are the ones who want to make money and pick unestablished men so they can have a kept man that is subordinate to them.

Sometimes when I see you posting I wanna disagree but I always end up liking you, guess for good reason.

 

[Sierra Mist]

No, the attitude in my first post will ensure that I don't get stuck with a fukking loser. And if by any chance I can't find a nice man of my race that likes my lifestyle and has something to offer I am not opposed to meeting a nice white nikka. They appreciate women who work for what they have way more.



Sometimes when I see you posting I wanna disagree but I always end up liking you, guess for good reason.

I'm not trying to be mean. lmao I only go hard because I care I guess.

@Sierra Mist what do you have to offer besides dikk and simping?

It was a legit question but men offer women protection and providing. Now women can do that for themselves. Damn I just realized that relationships are a complete waste of time.

 

[Kenny West]

No, the attitude in my first post will ensure that I don't get stuck with a fukking loser.

You'd think common sense would be enough.

Lol @ thinking that attitude would help you keep a man black or white. A faithful one at that.

Ironically enough you never answered the question from the thread title doe. No idea?

I'm not gonna step on ya swag though, get yourself a nice stable of simps while you can. this forum a good starting point. get ya bills paid, I aint mad atcha

 

[HelgaPataki]

@Sierra Mistmy question was legit as well. there is more to a relationship than just sex and ass kissing. some guys are very independent and not looking for basically a mother who lets them smash. not all men think with their penis, some actually need a mate with a personality, ambition, good conversation etc

who cares there are more women in this country than men? wasn't there a study that showed most women are bisexual anyway? women have options

 

[Sierra Mist]

@Sierra Mistmy question was legit as well. there is more to a relationship than just sex and ass kissing. some guys are very independent and not looking for basically a mother who lets them smash. not all men think with their penis, some actually need a mate with a personality, ambition, good conversation etc

who cares there are more women in this country than men? wasn't there a study that showed most women are bisexual anyway? women have options

To the women who do have more to offer than a p*ssy I salute them. Women only say the are bisexual to get attention.

 

[#1 pick]

I always hate when people say what do you have to offer, some chicks can have nothing to offer and others can have the world.

 

[SheWasFly]

I'm not trying to be mean. lmao I only go hard because I care I guess.

Aw, I don't believe you, but that's cute. Lmao.

You'd think common sense would be enough.

Lol @ thinking that attitude would help you keep a man black or white. A faithful one at that.

Ironically enough you never answered the question from the thread title doe. No idea?

I'm not gonna step on ya swag though, get yourself a nice stable of simps while you can. this forum a good starting point. get ya bills paid, I aint mad atcha

You never know, wolves dress in sheep clothing consistently.
Actually I did answer, I said I don't feel like I need to do anything to keep a man. Now what I have to offer is a different story.

 

[cfountain]

so...another thread that asks a legit question goes nowhere?

The inverse of this thread would have males and females discussing what men could do to keep there women(an the obvious troll attempts) but this...went nowhere.

don't both individuals have to contribute to have a successful relationship? It would have been a nice read to see what some women feel they have to do to keep a man.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Companionship .