Ladies: What do YOU do to KEEP a man once you have one?

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I'm going to assume your initial question refers to men WHO ARE WORTH keeping.


For the most part I feel that its a two way street if you show respect, love, and security then I will be willing to do all I can to keep a gem.

That would be being me and elevating it to a degree to show him I love him and all that gushy stuff. Whether that be cooking, cleaning, fukking more, giving space, etc.

The ones that's worth keeping are who I am referring to.
 

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The better question is what a man would do to keep me? I'll remain the catch I am. I'm the one choosing and should be treated accordingly.

Thats sounds rather selfish. Its not all about you you know?
 

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I did notice that this thread attracted a few female posters ive never even seen post b4? :huh:
 

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Just continue being me....if he likes me for who I am then it should not be difficult...I never understood why people had a hard time "keeping" a spouse...

the only reason I can see why people have difficulty keeping a mate is because they attracted their mate acting like someone other than themselves...
 

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Too many women hustle backwards and don't even know it. They look at a relationship as what can you do for me and never learn what makes a dude tick. That's why most women have no idea how to get a man outside of looking good and showing that the p*ssy is available.

Little do they realize that if you go out of your way to make a dude feel good the same way you want him to do for you, you won't have to worry about shyt. He'll want to take care of you like no other. Not just talking about money, but that's why most dudes have to learn NOT to trick. Making sure the woman we like is good is instinctual. Pride is a motherfukker though. You can still be a bad chick while loving unselfishly and making your man feel like that dude.
 

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He gets more than some half ass p*ssy and a pack of noodles on the stove after a hard day at work thats for sure :rudy:.

I question the type of women ya'll come into contact with at times...
 

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-Stay looking the same as when he met me, and continue to have the same personality that he fell in love with.

- Be open and responsive to his interest and likes

-Be there for him as a person to give advice or just a listening ear

-Strive to better myself so that I can become an even better girlfriend.

-Be his cheerleader in life, and push him to do better for himself.

There is much more to do to keep him happy, but that is all I have for now. :smile:
 
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