all my relationships have lasted for years ...and I did not have a problem keeping them they had a problem keeping me...
2 years with my current guy...
Ladies: What do YOU do to KEEP a man once you have one?
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all my relationships have lasted for years ...and I did not have a problem keeping them they had a problem keeping me...
2 years with my current guy...
FreshFromATL
Self Made
-Stay looking the same as when he met me, and continue to have the same personality that he fell in love with.
- Be open and responsive to his interest and likes
-Be there for him as a person to give advice or just a listening ear
-Strive to better myself so that I can become an even better girlfriend.
-Be his cheerleader in life, and push him to do better for himself.
There is much more to do to keep him happy, but that is all I have for now.
That's a great list. I would definitely do the same for the female I am with.
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
-Stay looking the same as when he met me, and continue to have the same personality that he fell in love with.
- Be open and responsive to his interest and likes
-Be there for him as a person to give advice or just a listening ear
-Strive to better myself so that I can become an even better girlfriend.
-Be his cheerleader in life, and push him to do better for himself.
There is much more to do to keep him happy, but that is all I have for now.
i can fukks with this
-Stay looking the same as when he met me, and continue to have the same personality that he fell in love with.
- Be open and responsive to his interest and likes
-Be there for him as a person to give advice or just a listening ear
-Strive to better myself so that I can become an even better girlfriend.
-Be his cheerleader in life, and push him to do better for himself.
There is much more to do to keep him happy, but that is all I have for now.
Its a lotta talking goin on in your how to keep a man advice,didn't say a damn think about sucking dikk
I'm gon take it you was tryna be a lady so let me fall back.[ame=http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_eFF3adrVY]Montana Deleon talks about leaving no D%CK Behind (Sex Cam Blog) - YouTube[/ame]
Y'all can start by lookin like this and thinking like this
and we might not cheat
But Let's keep it real tho,ain't shyt a woman can do to stop a man from cheating....I been sayin if I found a woman like my girl I could settle down...and technically I have settled down but from time to time
...if women wanna date dudes with a lot of options whether it be his looks,money,personality they gotta expect to be cheated on from time to time....but they should aslo expect they partner go through all the measures to make sure they never find out.....if ya dude cheatin all over the place with no regards of you finding out and bein embarrased than you should leave...fellas u at least owe the woman u care about that much to not cheat with the neighbor or cousin
.Then again women want what other women want,so alotta y'all ain't gon simply go for the dude who ain't gettin puzzy thrown at em when u met em,who all ya friends wanted to have sex with....so live with the reality or better yet live in denial and you'll both be happy
innocentdevil
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Its a lotta talking goin on in your how to keep a man advice,didn't say a damn think about sucking dikk
Keeping him happy, and satisfied in the bedroom is a given
Keeping him happy, and satisfied in the bedroom is a given
cool...with that said alotta women think they man bussin and tryna fuk em every night is a sign of happiness and satisfaction....and it is and we not sayin it ain't good,but its a lot of chicks out here with that expendable puzzyThey need to to make a movie starrin Sylvester Stallone,Jet Li,Arnold Schwarzeneger and 90% of the puzzy out here ....most women don't have that sex or that mouth a nikka don't feel like he couldn't find with the next chick,or feel the next chick would be better simply cuz its new by default....he ain't scared to lose the sex you have to offer...the world is made up of like 75% water and we supposed to believe you the only one with that "wet wet"
...ain't no secret every chick I've known or heard gave good head got wifed up by sum nikka or is well taken care of regardless of her looks or past
..stop wonderin why that ugly chick,fat chick,fat white chick got wifed up and get a clue....make yaself a rarity ladies,get yaself in that 10 percentile sexuallly and on top of that be a good woman
@innocentdevil this ain't directed at you btw.
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innocentdevil
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@innocentdevil this ain't directed at you btw.
Oh ok *puts notepad, and pen down*
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Insensitive
Superstar
Why go into a relationship with someone if you don't plan
on keeping them around in the first place ?
More often than not the whole "I don't need you" mentality seems like a defense mechanism. We can't genuinely invest in someone or create a real relationship thinking the whole time "Why should I work to keep you ?".
If something is worth keeping then we should strive to keep it unless of course things just ain't gonna work out.
If that sentence runs through someones head chances are it's their common sense speaking and they either aren't feeling the other person like that, don't want to get to involved or feel that the person they're with isn't nearly as invested into them.
Any woman who won't make compromises, changes or attempts to get to know their partner isn't worth keeping around, same goes for a man.
And when I say "Change" I don't mean becoming an entirely different person, because who that person is (male or female) is most likely what attracted that person in the first place.
SheWasFly
Rookie
Why go into a relationship with someone if you don't plan
on keeping them around in the first place ?
More often than not the whole "I don't need you" mentality seems like a defense mechanism. We can't genuinely invest in someone or create a real relationship thinking the whole time "Why should I work to keep you ?".
If something is worth keeping then we should strive to keep it unless of course things just ain't gonna work out.
If that sentence runs through someones head chances are it's their common sense speaking and they either aren't feeling the other person like that, don't want to get to involved or feel that the person they're with isn't nearly as invested into them.
Any woman who won't make compromises, changes or attempts to get to know their partner isn't worth keeping around, same goes for a man.
And when I say "Change" I don't mean becoming an entirely different person, because who that person is (male or female) is most likely what attracted that person in the first place.
Ok, if I have to do anything to try and keep a man besides what I was doing when we met a problem arises. I shouldn't have to go out of my way to keep you, and that's not because I don't want you around.
We should be able to make each other happy without trying, if that doesn't work I'm not going out of my way to try anything, we just don't mesh.
Insensitive
Superstar
If you think putting forth an effort in a relationship is a bad thing you've
got the idea of a relationship wrong.
This is exactly how people date for months to years and when it's all
over they don't know sh1t about each other, except for the traits that started to nag them near the end of their already doomed relationship.
Which is why I said this :
Insensitive said:
SheWasFly said:
Well what else could it be ?
If you WANT someone around wouldn't you try to see what is causing them to drift away in the first place and correct things to keep them around ?
If you DON'T WANT someone around then why do anything beyond something casual or even make attempts at making the relationship "serious" ?
The little things in a genuine relationship isn't "going out of your way" unless of course it isn't really a relationship where the feelings are reciprocated, in that case the person is most likely doing something will go unappreciated.
A lot of people seem to avoid doing things for fear of losing out, as if they're putting to much effort into someone they genuinely feel for or they feel it's "wrong" and emasculates them in same way.
SheWasFly said:
No one goes into a relationship knowing exactly what makes their partner happy and this is what I mean by effort, if a person goes into a relationship planning on doing the very least they can, chances are the relationship will reflect that and won't amount to much.
To Clarify :
No I don't mean going out of your way to please some total stranger (buying dinner,giving it up the first night, etc.)
No I don't mean doing anything and everything to keep around someone that clearly doesn't want to be around.
And No I don't mean doing things completely out of character or things you wouldn't be comfortable with just to keep someone.
There's a difference between doing the ridiculous and unreasonable things to save a failing relationship and doing the expected to keep a healthy relationship,healthy or doing things to make sure it starts off well.
JoelB
All Praise To TMH
You fukking faggit!
See you at 10 oclock tonight breh
I'm fed by a network of high reppers
Your main account will be red too ina few days unless you apologise
Once the people on this forum reach 25+ they will start realizing this.
If you are a good guy...the MOMENT it is known you are single MANY women you know will start asking questions about you and wanting to "hang out". The options you have at 25 are incredibly high without having to do a damn thing. Unless you walking around at 400lbs or something
I have hurt a few in the past couple of months when I was living on my own. No attacks or anything, but I tend to leave the past in the past...its stupid to try to reconcile years later.
The 10th Letter
Rookie
Way to eurostep the question.