Ladies: What do YOU do to KEEP a man once you have one?

[killacal]

what does sex have to do with this? shut your dumbass up.

Cuz youve never been in realtionship and this thread is about relationships

 

[Still Benefited]

These young chicks feeling on top of the world brings a tear to my eye....they don't know what's ahead of them.

Chances are they attitude will change once they get sum good dikk,nikka ain't hit that right ye

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Im not reading all of that but the expected? Lol. I'm 22, fukk I look like being a homemaker. I'm concentrating on myself and advancing in life, I need a man who's doing the same and not expecting me to do a damn thing for them.

You are missing the point. Its not about giving up your dreams or ambitions, its not about being a homemaker. Its about WORKING AT A RELATIONSHIP. The shyt don't just fall into place.

Men work on shyt like understanding a womans workload, her emotions, the things she goes through every day. You wouldn't be in a long term relationship with a nikka that just went to work, came through and knocked you off would you? No, you wanna be wined and dined, you want thoughtful gifts and shyt.

A man wants the same kinda thing but slightly different, a man wants a woman that can cater to his needs, that can understand what he's going through, perhaps ask him whats on HIS mind, learn what HIS thought processes are.

EVERYONE works on relationships, regardless of status or career path. If you aren't worth working with then you aren't worth dating period because NO ONE is perfect. And if you aren't trying to work on your OWN imperfections and the imperfections of the relationship you will NEVER FIND WHAT YOU SEEK.

Simple as that. And if anyone HAS said that you are perfect they LIED to you.

 

[killacal]

These young chicks feeling on top of the world brings a tear to my eye....they don't know what's ahead of them.

Chances are they attitude will change once they get sum good dikk,nikka ain't hit that right ye

Or how desperate and suicidal them bytches are when theyre in their mid 30s making 80k single with no kids and have no chance at landing a man. Its a fukked up future but its comedy none the less :foh:

 

[Pazzy]

Cuz youve never been in realtionship and this thread is about relationships

you didn't answer my question. what does me not having sex have to do with me not being able to talk in this thread about the things that women have to offer to keeping a man in a relationship? this thread isn't even about experience in relationships, breh. my response wasn't even about relationships. you just taking swipes at me for no reason. get yourself a life and stop starting shyt.

 

[SheWasFly]

You are missing the point. Its not about giving up your dreams or ambitions, its not about being a homemaker. Its about WORKING AT A RELATIONSHIP. The shyt don't just fall into place.

Men work on shyt like understanding a womans workload, her emotions, the things she goes through every day. You wouldn't be in a long term relationship with a nikka that just went to work, came through and knocked you off would you? No, you wanna be wined and dined, you want thoughtful gifts and shyt.

A man wants the same kinda thing but slightly different, a man wants a woman that can cater to his needs, that can understand what he's going through, perhaps ask him whats on HIS mind, learn what HIS thought processes are.

EVERYONE works on relationships, regardless of status or career path. If you aren't worth working with then you aren't worth dating period because NO ONE is perfect. And if you aren't trying to work on your OWN imperfections and the imperfections of the relationship you will NEVER FIND WHAT YOU SEEK.

Simple as that. And if anyone HAS said that you are perfect they LIED to you.

The question is what do you do to keep a man, my answer is remain who I was when we met. If that bothers you take your long ass, tired responses to someone who's interested because I'm not.

And you writing a damn book won't change the way I feel.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

The question is what do you do to keep a man, my answer is remain who I was when we met. If that bothers you take your long ass, tired responses to someone who's interested because I'm not.

And you writing a damn book won't change the way I feel.

jesus, you are stupid.

 

[SheWasFly]

jesus, you are stupid.

Stupid because I refuse to read the bullshyt you're writing? Your personal life must suck to really sit and write out a long ass response to some you don't know, who quite frankly can't give a fukk less about you or what you're saying.

 

[Kenny West]

This was posted a page ago, the fukk yall still arguing wit her for.

A lesson i had to learn multiple times. No point in dropping gems in front of birds. They'll just mistake them for common rocks

You gotta understand that some muthafukkas aint gonna believe hell is hot till they feel that fire themselves

 

[Ohene]

The better question is what a man would do to keep me? I'll remain the catch I am. I'm the one choosing and should be treated accordingly.

i hope this is a troll. if not...this is exactly why relationships are as fukked up as they are today

 

[SheWasFly]

This was posted a page ago, the fukk yall still arguing wit her for.




You gotta understand that some muthafukkas aint gonna believe hell is hot till they feel that fire themselves

So I'm a bird because I don't think I need to do extra shyt to keep a man? Interesting.

i hope this is a troll. if not...this is exactly why relationships are as fukked up as they are today

Not a troll, like I've said dozens of times already, if me being me isn't enough to keep him then apparently he isn't worth my time.

A couple of females said what I said nicely, it's funny that I'm the one upsetting everyone.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

So I'm a bird because I don't think I need to do extra shyt to keep a man? Interesting.

what makes you different from any other chick walking around?

 

[SheWasFly]

what makes you different from any other chick walking around?

My DNA.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

My DNA.

oh right...nothing.

 

[Ohene]

No, the attitude in my first post will ensure that I don't get stuck with a fukking loser. And if by any chance I can't find a nice man of my race that likes my lifestyle and has something to offer I am not opposed to meeting a nice white nikka. They appreciate women who work for what they have way more.



Sometimes when I see you posting I wanna disagree but I always end up liking you, guess for good reason.

wait a sec. is that you in your picture? You look latina or something but please clarify. I have just been discerned by the fact you said, "white nikka" when you are not black (presumably) and that in itself is an oxymoron.