Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

There's nothing more soul crushing to a girl than paying them no mind / rejecting them. For all the talk about men not being able to deal with rejection, we do a better job then yall. All i know is i've never called a girl gay, got angry or threw drinks at them. Yes i've had drinks thrown at me for rejecting women. They're so used to thirsty nikkas on the internet or catcalling on the street that it's a huge assault to their egos when my futuristic pimpin dont respond the way these classic simps do.


I'm just doing the coli's work, deflating one narcisstic woman's ego at a time. Uncle Kingpin did that so hopefully you dont have to go through that.

You sir are a hero to mankind.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Hell no.

It's like seeing a pair of beautiful but impractical shoes, you're obligated to appreciate the art but you don't have to buy them. If you see a beautiful human creation same principle applies.

This is the most underrated post ever. BM in particular really think that it is okay to approach any time or any place. I hate being approached when I am in a non-social environment. The ones who then have the nerve to get mad are the worst; as if he is entitled to my attention, my company, my body, etc just b/c he likes the way I look.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I've been hit with the "don't worry about it, he must be gay."

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So you never wanted a dude to approach.
They always just approach you already.

I don't like being "approached" in general so it is not something I ever "want" to happen. If I am in a social setting it's fine depending on the situation but in general I think it is rude to walk up to a perfect stranger to try to impose your sexual urges on them. Because if we are being honest at that point the only interest you have in that person is physical.

IMO you should have a reason to be talking to someone. I don't even start to "like" or show interest in a guy until I know him to some extent. In my experience, the lasting and best experiences I have had have all been with men who I have known or have references on. The "first time I meet you I get your #" guys are always the worst which is understandable given you know nothing about this person.

After I decide I like him I get him. Never been passed up by a man I wanted.






PS Yes I know there are women who want to be approached by random strangers on the street and they are desperate. Why? Because the random guy on this street has the highest failure rate.

 

[Typical Simp]

There's nothing more soul crushing to a girl than paying them no mind / rejecting them. For all the talk about men not being able to deal with rejection, we do a better job then yall. All i know is i've never called a girl gay, got angry or threw drinks at them. Yes i've had drinks thrown at me for rejecting women. They're so used to thirsty nikkas on the internet or catcalling on the street that it's a huge assault to their egos when my futuristic pimpin dont respond the way these classic simps do.


I'm just doing the coli's work, deflating one narcisstic woman's ego at a time. Uncle Kingpin did that so hopefully you dont have to go through that.

You sound boring, bitter and emasculated.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If I was to give guys in general one piece of advice it would be to treat females like human beings. If you see a man who you think might look interesting or you might have something in common or you just want information from him, what do you do? Go over and start a conversation right. Do the same thing, talk to her like a human being not like some dodgy sales man trying to sell her something crappy and broken which she doesn't need.

This way there's no awkward "should I hit on her" because you're not hitting on her, whether she's interested or not. Trust me, as flattering as it is to have some guy read off all the lines he's crammed into his head, no reasonably intelligent woman is going to be impressed by it.

brehs still using lines?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Well, that's not really my problem. I don't have a problem talking to women and having regular convos; I do that quite often. But then when it gets to that point of where I'm like should I ask for the number or not? That's when I get confused and start trying to figure out in my head if she is interested or she's just talking to me or if she has a boyfriend or if I'm annoying her or what.

It doesn't help either that I've had a lot of bad luck when it comes to hitting on girls. I've hit on some chicks before and had long interesting convos only to find out they had boyfriends Then I've talking to some girls and had a good convo and then got the digits, but I hit them up and they have some excuse as to why they can't hang out. Most of the time it's that they are too busy with school or work or something It's like, why give me ur number in the first place? Then I start feeling like maybe she gave me her number out of mercy, and that really kills my confidence. So it's like, a lot of the times it goes no where so I'm like whats the point?

I definitely feel you.
I ain't scared to talk to no broad.
But when I tell myself in my head "im about to get her number" . Then I start panicing thinking about how dumb ima feel if she says "no" and I gotta walk way back to where I just left.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Was you playing hard to get?

Idk what I was playing.
I just kept looking at the meter.
Idk for sure If she wanted to talk to me.
She might've just looked at me to see who was the person opposite of her pump *we're the only ones at the station*
And holding the door open probably was just cause she knew I was behind her.
Thats why I started this whole topic.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

This is the most underrated post ever. BM in particular really think that it is okay to approach any time or any place. I hate being approached when I am in a non-social environment. The ones who then have the nerve to get mad are the worst; as if he is entitled to my attention, my company, my body, etc just b/c he likes the way I look.

Whats really a non social environment though?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I don't like being "approached" in general so it is not something I ever "want" to happen. If I am in a social setting it's fine depending on the situation but in general I think it is rude to walk up to a perfect stranger to try to impose your sexual urges on them. Because if we are being honest at that point the only interest you have in that person is physical.

IMO you should have a reason to be talking to someone. I don't even start to "like" or show interest in a guy until I know him to some extent. In my experience, the lasting and best experiences I have had have all been with men who I have known or have references on. The "first time I meet you I get your #" guys are always the worst which is understandable given you know nothing about this person.

After I decide I like him I get him. Never been passed up by a man I wanted.






PS Yes I know there are women who want to be approached by random strangers on the street and they are desperate. Why? Because the random guy on this street has the highest failure rate.

Im so confused.
If you're in public, how are you gonna only talk to a man you already know?
If you already know them, that means they had to approach you *you said you don't approach*.
But at the same time you said you don't like to be approached.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Should ask like a real life chick in Wal-Mart. The opposite of what she says is the truth.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ladies, just a thought


Reading your signals (mixed or otherwise) is confusing and time consuming. If you're interested in a guy, just approach him and make some conversation at least. If not, keep it moving just like we keep it moving

I only approach women at a bar or unless I know them/about them already. So if I don't know you or your situation, i always assume it's mixed signals, she's just being polite especially if she smiles, or she thinks I look strange if she stares

Whats really a non social environment though?

Anywhere outside of a party, club, or social gathering. Another exception would be if he has a reason to speak to me outside of this own intentions.

 

[iBrowse]

Lol @ this thread both speaking the truth and exposing some ass nikkas.

shyt the OP mentions has happened to me in the past because thats just the norm, (I don't like it but it is what is is But honestly, if a girl likes me, she either needs to approach or because I don't like when people just stare at me expecting me to be Professor X to read her mind or some shyt. The staring makes me feel mad uncomfortable.

 

[mamba]

Lol @ this thread both speaking the truth and exposing some ass nikkas.

shyt the OP mentions has happened to me in the past because thats just the norm, (I don't like it but it is what is is But honestly, if a girl likes me, she either needs to approach or :gamby: because I don't like when people just stare at me expecting me to be Professor X to read her mind or some shyt. The staring makes me feel mad uncomfortable.

Times have changed, breh. There are too many women out here going for what they want for me to be trying to read some shy bytches mind.

While she's sitting over there in the corner, hoping I can read her mind, another bytch is walking up and going for what she wants.

Or dropping a nikka texts and shyt.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Anywhere outside of a party, club, or social gathering. Another exception would be if he has a reason to speak to me outside of this own intentions.

Imo a grocery store is acceptable though