Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[CodeBlaMeVi]

If traditional dating worked so well then so many people wouldn't fail at it. Think about that. I am guessing you have been dating for awhile yes? How effective do you think randomly approaching women is? Out of all the women who you have ever approached randomly how many have been worth your time? I am guessing very few.

You may think it's BS b/c you haven't tried it. How many BW do you hear complain about finding decent men? And how many time have you heard me complain about it? NEVER. Why? B/c I have no problem finding good dudes. Why? It's b/c I do my homework, I am selective and I look in the right places.

I live in DC. If you get out and about in a major city you will learn that it's not as big as it seems. People tend to travel in the same circles to the same type of events. If you meet someone who runs with a particular group then you will see them again if you continue to run with that group. You don't have to be pressed to get someone's number. They will come back to you and appreciate you more for it.

Date smarter not harder fellas.

I am not single, mostly happy (lol) with my son's mother. I been out in the world. Love and like doesn't work with strategy. I just don't see an issue of someone approaching another in the world respectfully. I, personally, am not a fan of running up on people but some of the best people I met in my life do not share common interests just a genuine person. It was completely random.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I am not single, mostly happy (lol) with my son's mother. I been out in the world. Love and like doesn't work with strategy. I just don't see an issue of someone approaching another in the world respectfully. I, personally, am not a fan of running up on people but some of the best people I met in my life do not share common interests just a genuine person. It was completely random.

Again, if traditional dating worked everyone wouldn't fail at it, and I wouldn't call being mostly happy with your baby's mom as optional results (no offense).

I am just saying that damn never every time I gave a random a chance I was unhappy with the results but when I took the time and get to know aka befriend someone before pursing a romantic relationship I have always been happy with the results even when it didn't necessarily end in a relationship. The fact that you would argue against taking time to get to know someone is weird to me but hey you do you.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Again, if traditional dating worked everyone wouldn't fail at it, and I wouldn't call being mostly happy with your baby's mom as optional results (no offense).

I am just saying that damn never every time I gave a random a chance I was unhappy with the results but when I took the time and get to know aka befriend someone before pursing a romantic relationship I have always been happy with the results even when it didn't necessarily end in a relationship. The fact that you would argue against taking time to get to know someone is weird to me but hey you do you.

I was my son's mother friend first. My issue is you knocking that way of going about approaching people.

 

[Art Barr]

I never assume a broad want me to approach.
Most of the time I got my work clothes on. *black dikkes, grey/black stripped button shirt, and a black/gray hoodie*
When I catch a broad looking I just be like "she probably just look to see who that is. I look like shyt with these clothes so I know she don 't want me"

talk to females when you look your worst.
I know for a fact females do like a guy who looks worse for wear.
plus, I think females respond and notice your confidence level, when appraoch and are scruff mcgruff status.
with, the unkempt shave, and possible work attire look.
I met the first love of my life when I was high school.
after getting off of my highschool summer job at the paddleboats in Lincoln park zoo.
I was a mess, I mean a literal smelly awful looking mess.
at this job to secure the paddleboats, every night.
so, they were not stolen.
me and my homies who were on staff.
we would all walk said boats out in the Lincoln park zoo pond out to the pile.
instead of actually paddling a boat with the fleet towed together in back.
this pond is filled with slime, mad floating duck shyt, scum.
probably human fecal matter, just the worst shyt, you could think of.
shyt Lincoln park could have funnelled the urine basin of every animal in the zoo into this pond.
so, after work we were on Michigan avenue.
that is when I seen her breh's.
I approached her, and we hit it off.
while, I was covered in soaked pond scum clothes shoes and gear.
she, was so cool and smart.
that, in between this first meeting my homie from high school afterwards was like.
yo, you do know ol girl is like the smartest female in the whole educational system.
I'm like for real.
you lying,...
but nah..she really was one of chicago's smartest kids ever.
she won some award, and was on a few tv shows as one of chicago's smartest kids.
in closing,...
as the ending of this story is not the fairytale it began as.
plus, I did not think I would be posting on this topic.
let alone this story.
so I am not prepared for what this memory recollection would do to the gawd.
I will cut the story short.
in closing,...
I say approach any female, you are attracted to.
even, if you are at your worse.


Art Barr

RIP, Tab...
I miss you like you would not believe.

 

[Art Barr]

Again, if traditional dating worked everyone wouldn't fail at it, and I wouldn't call being mostly happy with your baby's mom as optional results (no offense).

I am just saying that damn never every time I gave a random a chance I was unhappy with the results but when I took the time and get to know aka befriend someone before pursing a romantic relationship I have always been happy with the results even when it didn't necessarily end in a relationship. The fact that you would argue against taking time to get to know someone is weird to me but hey you do you.

no one can follow your advice.
as you have no virtue by way of your concrete mentally accepted profession.
of course you have to use the friendzone male who is a beta who uses the friend door to find someone.
as alpha's or randoms as you put it.
already, know what's to it.
way before you discuss ya occupation.
or, even if you go out in public with a subdued look.
or, deflect from your occupation.

now, do I applaud you for still having some wherewithal to look for love and committed relationships, yes.
yet, because of your occupation.
you will always have to work from this type of exception to the rule mindset to find a suitable beta.
as, in general no alpha is going to take the backseat to all the deal breaking variables.
that come with your occupation.
which also includes a complete lack of virtue.
which for an alpha male is the most valuable asset of his committed long term monogamous female as his mate.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

I was my son's mother friend first. My issue is you knocking that way of going about approaching people.

you went through the friend door.
which, let your bm know she could beta-size you, breh.
when she gave you that eic /cs vampire bite in your neck. Never, go through the friend door.

hey, I have a bm and I am a victim to the succubus that is the eic /cs vampire project mentality based female too.
shyt, most of us in this Gen get trickbaby'd.
yet, you don't willingly go into the fray.
where you know the female can beta-size you.
going through the frienddoor is completely in the first realm of beta-sizing yourself.


Art Barr

 

[newworldafro]

I think it's rude for people to look at others without a valid reason. I don't care if you think I'm attractive or not. Control ur fukking self.

You were probably concieved cause somebody was looking at somebody without a valid reason...........

 

[Beerus]

i was coming in expecting to see what womens were thinking about this, and nothing has came up(page 5 im not going further) this the type of shyt that needs to be asked on reddit for real.

 

[Art Barr]

You were probably concieved cause somebody was looking at somebody without a valid reason...........

I think that was a troll you responded to by just username alone.


Art Barr

 

[Fellatio]

doctors lawyers teachers who have had moral based training will treat you better but are harder to obtain even short term. But lmao at trying to game an MD...

Alot of athletes get in trouble this way, they go way out of their depth and get golddug because they want them to like them for who they are. Tiger did the right thing by paying women its just he had a family

 

[Art Barr]

But when yall see these celebrities yall walk up and ask for an autograph/picture.
Yall dont say "I hope Trey Songz asks me if I want an autograph or picture".
Yall approach when its somebody famous.

you so beta, nikka.
when you gon realize, females are all in on the take.

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

doctors lawyers teachers who have had moral based training will treat you better but are harder to obtain even short term. But lmao at trying to game an MD...

Alot of athletes get in trouble this way, they go way out of their depth and get golddug. Tiger did the right thing its just he had a family

in general an accredited school taught person is more susceptible to being a victim to the game, breh.
especially a md.
anyway, tiger was a beta sized lame.
who had a great support system to originally make up for his shortcomings.
hordes of athletes are susceptible to getting beta-sized.
As they are in an occupation, that easily beta-sizes them in draw based salary.
plus, have reaped the spoils before they mentally acquire the knowledge to handle the effects of acquiring the spoils.
I think that one poster would say,..it is so demonic, friend.



Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

I feel you.
Im about to go to Kroger now and watch I catch some hoe looking.
Im not gone say nttn though.

you are the one dude on this forum.
who is so in need of a deathstar.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Lol being hygiene wise and bytches still be on the dikk. They attracted to that strong male scent.

you actually get even more attetntion to the point.
said females who don't appraoch you will approach.
if you have sex and are made to abruptly leave the house of said female you were smashing without getting fully clean.
female phermone on ya person drives other females insane.
as, females only are attracted to what other females have.
I know this for a fact, from my experience in the nursing field as a cna.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Shy guys have their appeal


Probably unfounded but you have the advantage of coming across as trustworthy. Assuming it's not a creepy silence vibe

don't send dude off.
he is already beta-sized messed up.
you telling him about Diane king.
when, females with nineties sensibilities and a hold over from male/female life building Keynesian theories don't exist anymore.

first off dude is from Hawaii, a reparations based state.
which, means he should notice the meglomaniacial capitalistic shyt females are on.
yet, that is his Achilles heel.
as he comes from Hawaii, which is a beta-sized victims capital.
shyt our president is a beta, and from Hawaii.

oh and don't get mad at that comment either.
Barack is a beta.
if he wasn't he would have swagger surfed on every investor, and dared any one in government.
to get outta line as he made this a truely equal country and place of prosperity in legal to tradition for the black male.
dude, does not even realize he is the commander of the greatest and most intimidating military might in all of earth's history.
shyt, even his own mama said he was a beta and made him leave Hawaii.

Hawaii bredds victimized beta-sized males through reparations and capitalism.
only ones who not beta on the island.
are the real natives, with their real culture, intact.



Art Barr