Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[Ms.CuriousCat]

don't send dude off.
he is already beta-sized messed up.
you telling him about Diane king.
when, females with nineties sensibilities and a hold over from male/female life building Keynesian theories don't exist anymore.

first off dude is from Hawaii, a reparations based state.
which, means he should notice the meglomaniacial capitalistic shyt females are on.
yet, that is his Achilles heel.
as he comes from Hawaii, which is a beta-sized victims capital.
shyt our president is a beta, and from Hawaii.

oh and don't get mad at that comment either.
Barack is a beta.
if he wasn't he would have swagger surfed on every investor, and dared any one in government.
to get outta line as he made this a truely equal country and place of prosperity in legal to tradition for the black male.
dude, does not even realize he is the commander of the greatest and most intimidating military might in all of earth's history.
shyt, even his own mama said he was a beta and made him leave Hawaii.

Hawaii bredds victimized beta-sized males through reparations and capitalism.
only ones who not beta on the island.
are the real natives, with their real culture, intact.



Art Barr

Ouch my head hurts

 

[O.T.I.S.]

take advice from stripper, brehs.



meeting random people is awesome. you don't have to give them your name, digits and address. doesn't even have to result in anything in particular, but telling folks to avoid meeting random people is just dumb. i've gone out in groups and by myself and have had some great times chatting it up with random people i didn't know.

was chillin at sports bar one night watching a bball game and this random chick at the bar by herself started a convo. she wasn't too much of a looker so at first i was like but she knew a little something about ball and wasn't aggressively trying to hit on a dude so we chatted. about 15 mins later her cousin and sister come through, turns out they were meeting her there to bounce to the next spot. both were fly as hell. shorty seasoned it up for the boy and cosigned me being a cool dude and the whole nine. a round of shots on her before they bounced turned into a quick pool game and then few more rounds, basically the whole night. even got a future rendezvous with the fly cousin out of the deal and all are still cool peoples till this day. i coulda been stuck up and a assh0le about it kicking it with random people, but turned out to be a win.


admittedly rules for women are slightly different, but telling people not to talk to "randoms" is some stuck up bs imo.

You did take what @TheStripper said a lil out of context


I'm sure she meant just approaching a woman randomly, not actually meeting people and getting to know them especially at a social setting.

And it's not really avoiding someone, it's just not going out of your way to talk to someone for the sole purpose of trying to date/fukk them, especially without getting to know them first.

That's like me approaching a woman at the gym... Not my style. I have women (and men ) stare at me all the time but I don't go approaching females out the blue just because. There are some women I know, some I speak to, work out with, etc., but we got to that point by gradual conversation, mutual acquaintances, or knowing each other outside of the gym.

If I was to approach every female I THOUGHT was interested in me at the gym then I would look like a desperate fool. Some of them are just looking to look, she might think I'm attractive but she got a dude, she might think I look funny, etc.

 

[Art Barr]

What im saying is that If I was something that alot of people find attractive, I defenitely wouldnt be shy.
Like how could Deelishus walk around and say she's shy.

deelisshus, is a beta minded female impersonating an alpha chick.
with issues from having genetically poor skin and keloid skin outgrowths.
her being on tv, and her former occupation are all beta-sized cries for help.
which is why she has low self esteem and always dated.
or kicks it with guys she knows she could possibly take from and fails.
only reason she has the occupation she has is, she somehow gets it she has a physique.
yet, she is a defeatist attitude minded female turned sckripper.


only pass, I am giving a sckripper is if she is a runaway.
yet, most of the females who are sckrippers.
are, narcissitic meglomaniac capitlist gone completely off the deep end, with decent college grades and a calm river a-typical background.

Not to me. It's rude. I am there to shop for my food and leave. I don't want you in my face. But you do you. I am just saying that I would be annoyed not interested.

That is something high school kids would do. You got to up your strategy if you want more successful results.


For example, I like men with money and a liberal attitudes. Do you think I am more likely to find what I looking for by randomly approaching men in the grocery store or by associating with those type of people and hanging out at events where they hang out (socialize)? To go even further, will I then be even more successful if I am able to have several conversations with him and ask his friends about him?

you have definite warped narcissitic destructive issues with your occupation.


Art Barr

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I was my son's mother friend first. My issue is you knocking that way of going about approaching people.

Why shouldn't I? It's not an effective way to meet women (on the front and back end it fails more often than not), the VAST majority of the time it is unwanted by the person being approached and it is often disrespectful and uncomfortable. I mean God forbid we should actually apply logic to the things that we do or care about the feelings of the ones being approached right?

 

[Art Barr]

Ouch my head hurts

it's great to hear.
I put your mentally fragile mind throughed't the table.

Art Barr

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

i was coming in expecting to see what womens were thinking about this, and nothing has came up(page 5 im not going further) this the type of shyt that needs to be asked on reddit for real.

females don't generally break kayfabe and are always on the take.

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Add that to the fact that most of these bytches don't flash a smile throughout the process.

They're expecting a nikka to read their mind, while not smiling or anything.

fukk is wrong with these chicks, breh?

a dumb broad wants you to be Charles Xavier behind the helm of cerebro.
while, she envisions she is jean grey.
in the form of the phoenix.
who mentally dupes wolverine into thinking he has a chance.
while, stringing along the biggest wackest bytchmade simp character in all of creation, Scott summers
while, never reading a comic and not knowing who Charles Xavier, cerebro, and jean grey are.


Art Barr

 

[Wild self]

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gyal, mi beat dem crotches

What would you do?

 

[Wild self]

Lol....

Im shy, self conscious, and awkward

I don't take someone who is being a gentleman as automatically trying to get at me either.

I bet you at least 5 dudes approached you last week and you went

 

[Raava]

I bet you at least 5 dudes approached you last week and you went

Nope. Rarely approached.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

no one can follow your advice.
as you have no virtue by way of your concrete mentally accepted profession.
of course you have to use the friend zone male who is a beta who uses the friend door to find someone.
as alpha's or randoms as you put it.
already, know what's to it.
way before you discuss ya occupation.
or, even if you go out in public with a subdued look.
or, deflect from your occupation.

now, do I applaud you for still having some wherewithal to look for love and committed relationships, yes.
yet, because of your occupation.
you will always have to work from this type of exception to the rule mindset to find a suitable beta.
as, in general no alpha is going to take the backseat to all the deal breaking variables.
that come with your occupation.
which also includes a complete lack of virtue.
which for an alpha male is the most valuable asset of his committed long term monogamous female as his mate.


Art Barr

Sir your opinion is as wrong as your sentence structure. Your beliefs are rooted in sexism and sex shaming, and if your opinions are those of an "alpha male" then you are correct I do not and will not ever be interested in a man like you. I am loved, and I will always be loved however much you wish it not so. Fortunately, I keep beautiful men around me whose views on sex correlate to the century we live in.

 

[Wild self]

Im so confused.
If you're in public, how are you gonna only talk to a man you already know?
If you already know them, that means they had to approach you *you said you don't approach*.
But at the same time you said you don't like to be approached.

She makes no sense. Wanting some swagged out dude to know her without knowing her

 

[Wild self]

Nope. Rarely approached.

Spoiler

 

[BAiiNE]

There's nothing more soul crushing to a girl than paying them no mind / rejecting them. For all the talk about men not being able to deal with rejection, we do a better job then yall. All i know is i've never called a girl gay, got angry or threw drinks at them. Yes i've had drinks thrown at me for rejecting women. They're so used to thirsty nikkas on the internet or catcalling on the street that it's a huge assault to their egos when my futuristic pimpin dont respond the way these classic simps do.


I'm just doing the coli's work, deflating one narcisstic woman's ego at a time. Uncle Kingpin did that so hopefully you dont have to go through that.

This is such BS. I have been attacked, called a bytch, told "I didn't really even fukkin want you in the first place", had a Timbaland boot thrown at me (yes I'm from NY), and once had a guy throw heineken beer bottles out a 19th floor project window at me... All for not wanting to talk to them or not wanting to sleep with them! I mean shoot damn near everyday men will say "hi" in the street and I have to say about 90% of them if you dare not speak back they get mad and voice they opinion about how "you could at least say hi"

MEN are way more sensitive then women, most of y'all cannot handle rejection.

I mean the dude wit the beer bottle just asked me to come chill and smoke and as soon as the blunt was lit nikka said I need to take a shower and got butt naked right in front of me. I mean I only knew him for like a week or so. And I thought he was kinda cool and cute obviously if I came to chill. But homie had no chill and tried to violate immediately. SMFH. I was so stunned as soon as he actually went in the bathroom, I ran out... I mean who really get naked in the middle of the cypher?? He must of heard the door open and close because next thing I know I was outside walking away and glass bottles came crashing down around me. Thank God nah one of them shyts hit me. I looked up and seen him still wit no clothes on hang out the window! Nikka still tried to talk to me again like a month later too.

So thirsty and sad!

 

[Wild self]

This is such BS. I have been attacked, called a bytch, told "I didn't really even fukkin want you in the first place", had a Timbaland boot thrown at me (yes I'm from NY), and once had a guy throw heineken beer bottles out a 19th floor project window at me... All for not wanting to talk to them or not wanting to sleep with them!

MEN are way more sensitive then women, most of y'all cannot handle rejection.

I mean the dude wit the beer bottle just asked me to come chill and smoke and as soon as the blunt was lit nikka said I need to take a shower and got butt naked right in front of me. I mean I only knew him for like a week or so. And I thought he was kinda cool and cute obviously if I came to chill. But homie had no chill and tried to violate immediately. SMFH. I was so stunned as soon as he actually went in the bathroom, I ran out... I mean who really get naked in the middle of the cypher?? He must of heard the door open and close because next thing I know I was outside walking away and glass bottles came crashing down around me. Thank God nah one of them shyts hit me. I looked up and seen him still wit no clothes on hang out the window! Nikka still tried to talk to me again like a month later too.

So thirsty and sad!

What you look like

I know you ain't no dime piece.