Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[BAiiNE]

lol breh. women are idiots dont even bother using logic. Can believe i missed this thread. havent been in TLR in what feels like weeks

fukk you said?

 

[Ohene]

fukk you said?

 

[karim]

TRANSLATION to this and the specifically the bolded:

I only fukk with lame simp trick ass based nikkaz.

you not fooling nobody.
you have not one virtue in the world to fool a real man/nikka/alpha.
only fools who don't really get cooch and have no real social or tangible sexual experience with females.
would want to be in a real committed relationship, with a sckripper.
you also, not even real enough with your job description.
to even fukk'n accept your occupation in full.
as you struggle mentally with the decision to partake in your occupation.
plus, the idea you can still be in a real tangible relationship.

instead of being an extra making beast.
who is known world wide as the best pole master in the universe.
as you on the internet talking to us.
instead of being the biggest daytime session draw at your strip club.
plus, in the nighttime being the biggest and highest drawing private show.
or, the highest single booked pole performer in the night hours.

it is 2o14, and faking a relationship is totally some simp shyt.
as you don't have to fake a relationship for a nut, in 2o14.
yet, it sounds like you do nuffin but partake in those types of events.
where simp based trick john face ass nikkaz go primarily to get laid.
to fake a relationship for a nut, with a stripper.

I can post your own quotables where you specifically say you don't like to be approached.
plus, you partake in going to functions.
where john generally are consistently available as well.

I bet you not even the secret darling of the chamber of commerce from where you are from.
as you lack the ability to fully even authnicate your lack of virtue.
plus, your profession to fully maximize your draw as a stripper/extra performer.



art barr

i see you're getting your pimp game on

 

[karim]

only one with the issue is you.
get secure in your field of choice, and loss of virtue.
a loss of virtue, you can never reacquire.
plus, you have issue with that definitive truth.
ol still got trouble with your job choice face ass lame.
that, you equate a man with an attraction outside the work place.
as the same form of solicitation.
you receive in your place of work.

yousa, goof lame broad,...
that does not even know how to take said prospective suitor and turn them into private shows and a reoccuring customer base of john's face ass.
you a wack lame sckripper, and you not a money maker because of it.
it is 1130 on a Monday.
which means,...
you don't even build enough desire in your customer base over the weekend.
to have a line of John on a Monday night.
you are a failure because you fail to accept your loss of virtue and really committ to your profession.
you are worse than a hustler, who does not close at any and all times of the day.
then, complains about why he can't make reup with a profitable flip.
yousa lame.


Art Barr

just the idea of a sckripper having an issue.
with, a potentially new customer approaching her, in any circumstance.
shows how dumb the bytch is.
only an unsuccessful sckripper, with issues about her occupation.
hates, the prospective possibility of a warm call lead.
as a matter of fact,...
she has no idea what a lead actually is.


art barr

if you keep going like this, she will start calling you daddy and hand over all her earnings to you.

 

[no.]

"He must not be interested" comes to mind. I just keep it moving, I'm not going to linger on why a random doesn't want me.

He might find me ugly, he might have a girl, he might not be in the mood, he might have better things to do, etc, I don't know his life.

 

[BezO]

No it's childish b/c that is what teenagers do. Just b/c adults do something doesn't make immature. Look at this website. As an adult if you are approaching dating/relationships the way you did when you were a teenage then you have a serious problems. Hence why these "mature women" are still needing to be approached.

Teenagers also read, play sports, watch TV and a host of other things adults do regularly. I'm not following this line of thinking.

I'm not knocking your method. If it works for you, cool. But who are you to draw the line for mature dating methods?

Why would you not want to skew your results though? Why mess with randoms when you can go for exactly what you want?

I was agreeing with this. Nothing wrong with hanging out where like minded people hang out.

Honesty, as a man (assuming you are) this is a wonderful strategy for you. Conversations over a period of time will:

1. Allows you get to know this person (to an extent) without losing time or money. Free face time! That means no waiting 2 dates to find out you don't even like this chick or that she doesn't like you. By the time you actually meet up you are more familiar and comfortable and you will KNOW she/he is into you.
2. Gives you the opportunity to do your research about a person BEFORE you decide to take time out of your life to get to know them. Your time is valuable and not everyone is worth the time it take to get to know them.
3. It makes you seem cool like you are not thirsty. It makes you seem more interesting when you have a good conversation and then walk away. Trust me it will surprise her/him. Chick/dude will be like . Then the next time you see her she will be even more interested.
4. If give her/him a chance to see you working the room. Let's him/her know that you have options so that when you do decide to give him/her the time of day she will take it seriously.

I accomplish all of these things without your method. And it goes much quicker than waiting/hoping to bumb into women at events.

Honey you don't ask the dudes! You ask the women (for me, you would ask the dudes) who associate with him. They don't need to be the best friends. People love to gossip. You'd be surprised how much info people will give out if you just bring up a name. You don't tell the person you are asking about your interest. Just causally bring up the person of interests name. Don't underestimate the power of shade. People give it away like candy.


PS You should be surprised how many men/women will rat out their homie inorder to make themselves look better.

The more you know...

I'd never rely on a stranger's perspective of someone. Everyone is different with everyone. I'm cool with folks that others can't stand and I don't like folks that others think are cool. No way I'd rely on some chick I bumped into at a couple of event for that type of info.

I'm sure there are women at these events that don't like you for whatever reason and will talk bad about you to another man. Her opinion doesn't make you a bad person. Using your method, a man might pass on you because she said so. Nah.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Basically what @honestly? said.

What else is there to do? I'm not going to lose sleep over it and it certainly won't affect the rest of my day. Not every man is going to find me attractive or find me attractive enough to approach me.

 

[360crazy]

That doesn't describe Art Barr thought. He simply seems to be confused about the placement of punctuation. That can be corrected. You're wrong with your diagnosis.

 

[KinksandCoils]

So you expect every dude to approach and if he doesn't you assume he's not interested?

If you aren't interested you won't approach. If you are interested you either approach or you're to scared to.

 

[Illuminatos]

@ arguing back and forth with Stripper for 4 pages.

 

[AZBeauty]

I'm married so I don't flirt but if I thought I was looking cute and no one noticed, I'm sure it would bother me.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If you aren't interested you won't approach. If you are interested you either approach or you're to scared to.

The point im making is that she said she doesnt give signs.
If the dude doesnt notice you that doesnt mean he's uninterested.
You just didnt get his attention.

 

[karim]

That doesn't describe Art Barr thought. He simply seems to be confused about the placement of punctuation. That can be corrected. You're wrong with your diagnosis.

Her aim was not to describe art barr, her aim was to deflect from the fact that he made her soul burn slow when he pointed out that she is mentally struggling with her choice of work, so she took something she thought was an obvious weakness and tried to make fun of it, thinking it would have the same effect on him as his comments had on her. Since he is obviously at peace with himself, thst didn't work out though . She needs a pimp but she doesn't know it.

 

[LezJepzin]

Ill watch the video later on after I get some sleep. It's just that most of the shyt that happens to me with women doesn't make sense. There's always some bullshyt involved. Like I said, they'll hit on me (or so I think) and will have long meaningful convos and then turn around and mention that they have a boyfriend. And then if they don't there's some dumb shyt about them not wanting to hang out. shyt is mad frustrating and confusing, and I think it's had a really bad impact on my self-esteem when it comes to dating.

I get this ALL THE TIME. The ones who go out of their way to not appear to have a boyfriend and you find out the hard way are the worst. I don't trip off of it as much as I used to but its still annoying though.

I used to think I was wasting my time too much but taking the positive out of all of these (nice convo, opened up, etc) makes it not a problem to move on to the next.

 

[360dagod]

if you keep going like this, she will start calling you daddy and hand over all her earnings to you.

that shyt was an ether