Ladies, what is your definition of a "quality man"?

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

@CinnaSlim thread got me thinking

What, in your mind, is the definition of a quality man, a good guy, hubby material, whatever you call it

In my mind, and most guys I'd assume, a quality man is.....

-Does what is morally right (Or, if you are religious, is a devout man of God)
-Is courteous, honest, cares about you, wants to do the right things with you
-Takes care of himself physically/mentally/spiritually
-If he isn't financially/vocationally thriving right now, he is taking TANGIBLE steps towards doing so, i.e., in school, making investments, saving money, progressing in his career, planning on getting his own place, if he still lives with his parents
-Doesn't abuse drugs or alcohol
-Does not have a hot temper
-Is faithful & willing to commit to one woman

Tell us your vision of a good manHow many guys have you met with the traits I listed???

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I got this....

1. Bald or balding
2. Penis of below average size
3. Dap-to-message ratio of 3.5:1 or higher

...right, ladies?

 

[Paper Boi]

 

[Henri Christophe]

Womens opinion of "good man" changes depending on age & circumstance and whatever the media is saying

-Is faithful & willing to commit to one woman

Also, in your opinion - why is this a requirement?

You gave a pass to broke dudes.

But if a dude got bytches that love him.... He's not a good man?

Sounds simpery.

You definitely heard this from your mama.

 

[CinnaSlim]

• Honesty/integrity: Thoughts, words, & actions line up
• Respect: Has respect for himself and others
• Responsiblity: Handles his responsibilities and does so on time.
• Conscious/Mindful: Aware of his thoughts, emotions, actions, his environment and how he impacts it.
• Compassion/Empathy: Is aware of how others around him feels and cares about their suffering or wellbeing.
• Open and Willing: to be wrong, to see things from another perspective, to go with the flow.
• Ambitious/Motivated/Passionate: Knows what he wants and goes after it.

Hubby material: all of the above plus commitment.

 

[010101]

whatever fool they can break & get the dog.collar round his punkass neck*

 

[Henri Christophe]

whatever fool they can break & get the dog.collar round his punkass neck*

Real talk tho .... A true "good man" doesnt have anything to do with women.


Women are just the end result of being a good man.


Like luxury amenities in a nice house


You build the nice house with a solid foundation... And the amenities come along with it.

If we listened to womens version of "good man" .... We'd have to make constant adjustments and updates... Its always changing

 

[The Fade]

Boolin Barack or Boule Pac

 

[010101]

Real talk tho .... A true "good man" doesnt have anything to do with women.


Women are just the end result of being a good man.


Like luxury amenities in a nice house


You build the nice house with a solid foundation... And the amenities come along with it.

If we listened to womens version of "good man" .... We'd have to make constant adjustments and updates... Its always changing

trying to manipulate a weak man who feels for you emotionally into feeding your ego & serving your best interest is not indicative of a "good" woman either

if we were "good" we'd be honest & set everyone free



*

 

[Critical Distance]

What's the point of this endeavor when women don't actively seek these men out and take whatever comes up to them and sells them a dream that's a close approximation of "quality?"

 

[Secure Da Bag]

What's the point of a thread asking a woman's opinion if all the men are going to speak for them anyway?

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

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Yall gonna answer

 

[paperbag]

Question is a bit strange, you seem to be asking about 3 different men.

1. good guy is about his morals and personality
2. Husband material is about what he is willing to do for you
3. Quality man is about looks and how he makes you feel

But everything you listed in the op sounds good, minus the no temper part. And he would need to look good on top of all that.