Ladies, why do you expect a $200 dinner for a first date?

[Belize King]

I got this chicks number off hinge, never met her don't even know her last name. She tells me she's free tomorrow at 7 and she really likes this Italian place. So I google the place and look at the menu. It's $60 for a mac and cheese entree, yea I bet your ass likes this place. I told her lets just meet up for apps and drinks for the first date. if everything goes well we have plenty of time to get fancy. She left me on read and then unmatched me.

Now she is a nurse so maybe she is used to spending her own money. But where does she get the audacity to ask this of a man for a first date? Does this mean other guys have done it? Was she testing me? I didn't even want to meet up with her after that to be honest.

I wanna know why yall think you are entitled to this on the first date? I wasn't gonna take her to applebees but I am also not spending $200 plus drinks on a bytch I don't even know her last name.

Thursday foolery… y’all down to answer the mans question?

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[Mike Nasty]

I’m not gonna be mad at someone for their taste especially when you probably asked her what she liked and what her favorite spot was.

I'm sure her taste varies depending on who's paying

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Agree to the date but tell her you gotta stop at the house first and grab some shyt. Then give her a quick tour ending with the bedroom. If you did it right you can fukk

yea im sure this works for you all the time especially when you''v never met them before and they just willingly come to your place before the date.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

This is the answer. Don’t give them an option for the first date.

i didnt give her an option she gave me an option. It went from me asking if she wanted to go out some time and her responding yes to this fancy Italian place.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Because there’s goofy mf’s who actually do that shyt. Talk to a chick 1st ,vet her she’ll let you know what type of chick she is. If she feelin you then any decent restaurant will be enough y’all going out to have a good time. Only the gold digging chicks want Ruth Chris or *insert expensive restaurant* on a 1st date.

any other response from a male besides this means you a sucker pretty much

 

[DatBoiHawk]

This is the answer. Don’t give them an option for the first date.

Man these hard head hoze would still be saying “nah I want to go here I don’t eat chilis”

 

[Sunshine]

Get in the driver's seat and don't look to impress a woman by attempting to do what she wants, when you don't know her. Impress her by the way that you lead.

If you were leading, you would have had the date planned out at a restaurant that is within your budget for a first date. After she told you what time she was free, you should have told her there was a dining experience that you wanted to share with her.

When she came back with a certain restaurant, you could have said the vibe you had in mind is another place. Women will go for a "vibe". You have to know the keywords for circumvention.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Delete.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

yea im sure this works for you all the time especially when you''v never met them before and they just willingly come to your place before the date.

Ok nice ass nikka

 

[4-Rin]

She was looking for free dinner breh. She probably told 5 matches she wants to go there and 3 of them were down to take her so she unmatched you

For the 3 unluncky brehs, she'll leave one on read, flake on another but meet the 3rd for a nice expensive free dinner. Welcome to online dating brehs

 

[Savvir]

If she really likes you she will require less.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

i didnt give her an option she gave me an option. It went from me asking if she wanted to go out some time and her responding yes to this fancy Italian place.

Oh she pulled that one. So w/ that being said

I got this chicks number off hinge, never met her don't even know her last name. She tells me she's free tomorrow at 7 and she really likes this Italian place. So I google the place and look at the menu. It's $60 for a mac and cheese entree, yea I bet your ass likes this place. I told her lets just meet up for apps and drinks for the first date. if everything goes well we have plenty of time to get fancy. She left me on read and then unmatched me.

I wouldn't have even done this. Once I saw them prices I would've left her on read.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Agree to the date but tell her you gotta stop at the house first and grab some shyt. Then give her a quick tour ending with the bedroom. If you did it right you can fukk

Yup, worked for

 

[Roid Jones]

$200 is light for a HVM, I hope Allah brings one into her life

 

[T-K-G]

She was looking for free dinner breh. She probably told 5 matches she wants to go there and 3 of them were down to take her so she unmatched you

For the 3 unluncky brehs, she'll leave one on read, flake on another but meet the 3rd for a nice expensive free dinner. Welcome to online dating brehs

This.

Women will tell you all of their tricks once they get comfortable, I met this chick at a bar, shyt was pretty chill, didn't smash that night just went home, next time, she had tickets to an NBA game (her friend works in the stadium and passed her the tickets) we went and I smashed that night.

After I had her wrapped around my finger she had no problem telling me there was a whole 1-2 year long period where she was using nikkas from dating app to pay for her meals every night, buy her clothes, video games, subscription passwords, the whole nine, saved her a ton of money.

Meanwhile I didn't have to pay a dime to smash outside of some concession stand shyt at the game

They pick and choose who to run that game with that alone will let you know if she's actually into you or not IMO. She putting zero effort into the situation and just tried to use you @Tommy Lee Jones