Ladies, why do you expect a $200 dinner for a first date?

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She's just doing what's good for her, in her mind, and that's screening out the brokies who cant be bothered to spend money on a bytch they barely know.

Don't take it personal. She's done the same thing to plenty of other dudes who were excited to meet up with her.
How are they brokies? If you have money and just let people use you for it you're just a mark/simp at the end of the day. If anyone calls you broke they're just tryna bait you into taking an L

If you willing to pay for play like that you may as well get an escort, ask her about some expensive restaurants simps have taken her to, then go there by yaself after you blew her back out

Now you got sex and you got put on to a restaurant to take women who are actually worth the effort
 

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I got this chicks number off hinge, never met her don't even know her last name. She tells me she's free tomorrow at 7 and she really likes this Italian place. So I google the place and look at the menu. It's $60 for a mac and cheese entree, yea I bet your ass likes this place
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How are they brokies? If you have money and just let people use you for it you're just a mark/simp at the end of the day. If anyone calls you broke they're just tryna bait you into taking an L

If you willing to pay for play like that you may as well get an escort, ask her about some expensive restaurants simps have taken her to, then go there by yaself after you blew her back out

Now you got sex and you got put on to a restaurant to take women who are actually worth the effort
I should've worded that more clearly but it's the chick who would view him as a brokie.
 

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Open up your phone or computer to the internet. Find out any city subsidized events going on. Anything that seems interesting enough, offer to take her to the event (It is subsidized, so it will be no to very low cost). If the date goes well at the event, then offer to extend it and take her to a place that has good food for a reasonable price. If she is feeling you, she will be willing to go.

So essentially, already have a plan in place before you ask a woman out on a first date. Never leave it up to her to choose where you two are going for that first date. It is all about getting to know each other, not about making grand expenditures on a person you don't even know yet.
 
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Have you ever been to said restaurant?

If not, I would have taken it as an opportunity for me to try something new even though she seems to be familiar with the spot.

I’m not gonna be mad at someone for their taste especially when you probably asked her what she liked and what her favorite spot was.

Seems juvenile to ask then pretend she was suppose to avoid what she likes just so she can go on a date with you

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This.

Women will tell you all of their tricks once they get comfortable, I met this chick at a bar, shyt was pretty chill, didn't smash that night just went home, next time, she had tickets to an NBA game (her friend works in the stadium and passed her the tickets) we went and I smashed that night.

After I had her wrapped around my finger she had no problem telling me there was a whole 1-2 year long period where she was using nikkas from dating app to pay for her meals every night, buy her clothes, video games, subscription passwords, the whole nine, saved her a ton of money.

Meanwhile I didn't have to pay a dime to smash outside of some concession stand shyt at the game :manny:

They pick and choose who to run that game with :ufdup: that alone will let you know if she's actually into you or not IMO. She putting zero effort into the situation and just tried to use you @Tommy Lee Jones

The Chilling Truth :lupe:
 

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How are they brokies? If you have money and just let people use you for it you're just a mark/simp at the end of the day. If anyone calls you broke they're just tryna bait you into taking an L

If you willing to pay for play like that you may as well get an escort, ask her about some expensive restaurants simps have taken her to, then go there by yaself after you blew her back out

Now you got sex and you got put on to a restaurant to take women who are actually worth the effort
yea its not the money. its the audacity when I say we should go out she says lets meet here at this restaurant and you can spend at least $200 on our first date. no wonder shes 33 and single. and she was damn near spending thanksgiving alone she said. she needs to humble herself really.
 

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yea its not the money. its the audacity when I say we should go out she says lets meet here at this restaurant and you can spend at least $200 on our first date. no wonder shes 33 and single. and she was damn near spending thanksgiving alone she said.
Never dinner date the first time out with a dating app joint breh.

I'm tryna go for a bike ride (you want a physically active woman anyway not a lazy slob that's gonna get fat on you) some arts n crafts shyt, a cool mini golf/go kart thing-

Just any situation where she has to engage, not just sit back as I spend money on her, that shyt is boring and I immediately feel like I'm taking care of a child or a pet, I'm not gonna respect her as an adult, I don't give a damn about watching someone eat :russell:
 
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