Lady Says Guys That Put Them On A Pedestal Are Not Attractive, Is This True?

[H@LLOW]

eat her ass up.

 

[GreenGhxst]

yeah, most people don't like being placed on pedastals, makes the person lose value in my eyes

you shouldn't value other people more than you value your own self worth unless it's for an extreme reason, like life or death or for the betterment

regular everyday people shouldn't be placed on a pedastal breh

 

[Surreal]

So many jaded young people
Hold yaself higher. Truthfully most decent people are too good for the trash they wanna be with

 

[Phitz]

Women like men that treat them like shyt. Tell her to shut the fukk up every once and a while and her panties will soak.

This is stupid and extreme

It's as simple as being yourself. If you dont agree with something just say it, but you don't have to be demon about it. I had a disagreement with my girl this weekend without all that, but she still knows I care about her. Ok honestly I did tell her I thought somethign she said was stupid, but that's as bad as it got...

 

[Larry Lambo]

It's about communication of value.

A guy is that is too thirsty or simpish is communicating low value.

You can't even pull most of these women by communicating equal value. She needs to believe that you're a level above her.

Your looks/status/money automatically does that for you. Game/mouthpiece is the ability to validate her initial attraction with words/actions that match her first impression, or in some cases convincing the woman that you are stronger in those areas than you really are.

 

[StarGirl]

Oh no but it is conscious, I purposely tend to go after the women who are thirsty for me like that. It's ideal in a way but I hear you. Your saying it's an unconscious thing but maybe for women. I think what your trying to say is I don't value this kind of women and that it has to be unconscious because I would value a women more and go all out for her more if she went all out for me and that would prove I saw that as a great catch. You're assuming I don't see this kind of women as a great catch because I don't go all out but on the contrary. I think a women who likes the man better is a great catch and better for a relationship. I also do go all out too but I pull back a little, can't over do things or else then I would be a nice guy and a simp You have to do things in moderation.

I also think mostly women don't want a guy who values them too much, but me I love that shyt in a women lol. Give me a women any day who's hella thirsty for me but they only come around once in a blue moon for me. I also like to play it off and act like I don't notice them just to drive them nuts

I hear this- I really do. But, take a step outside of yourself for a bit. Why would you say men cheat on “good women” specifically? Make a generalization, if you will. It doesn’t need to apply to everyone.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Just be your "genuine" self. Doing that will attract women you have chemistry with. The woman also has to be physically attracted to you. Women can bullshyt all they want but physical attributes is a big part of the game. We are human after all. But if you are at least decent looking, you have a chance. Now If you are part of ugly gang then you are going to have to get your money and personality game up.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

If all a man has to offer is that he's "nice" he is not the "better man". The fact that women only entertain these men when they are desperate demonstrates these men's (low) dating market value. Keep in mind there are "nice guys" who have other things going for them.

They are the better man cause alot of those woman bd are in jail or financially or emotionally not doing nothing for they kids

Those woman go after the better financial and higher chracter guy later in life.

Cause there In a bad spot financially and trying to get a sucker to help them take care of themselves and kids.

And most times it doesn't work. Those guys have a high market value not a low one tf

 

[Blackout]

Putting women on a pedestal is basically begging for love.

I’m all for treating a lady right but having her run you over ain’t cool bruh

 

[Surreal]

You young people really lack confidence and ego. Yes ego. Sometimes you gotta be frank and honest. You are better than some people. Stop wasting your time with low level people. You're better than that. People who don't appreciate it run with these statements like in the OP. It's a defensive mechanism for knowing they ain't good enough

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

They are the better man cause alot of those woman bd are in jail or financially or emotionally not doing nothing for they kids

Those woman go after the better financial and higher chracter guy later in life.

Cause there In a bad spot financially and trying to get a sucker to help them take care of themselves and kids.

And most times it doesn't work. Those guys have a high market value not a low one tf

If these guys had such high market values why would they be messing with women with kids whose fathers are in jail There are plenty of women who don't have any of that baggage; why don't these "high market value men" mess with them?

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

It's such a shame.If you're physically attractive, you avoid most of these problems.


By the time you show yourself as a phony, it doesn't matter.More than likely, you've already swam in the puzzy.


No need to harp on it.If you're talking long term/sustainability, you might have to correct a few things

 

[Black Nate Grey]

That's bullshyt. Like the other guy said, I WANT to be put on a pedestal. By a 5 or higher.

Yeah, she is doing what a lot of people on the Coli do and equivocating Men and Women as if we aren't different beyond both being human.

Maybe women don't like to be put on a pedestal.

But guys love that shyt.

Like you said, a 5 and above that adores a Breh Is the ideal. I don't know what some of these Coli posters are talking about.

Respect and admiration are big deals and through those two come an even bigger deal for men: Loyalty.

 

[International Playa]

I think their is some truth to that. Be all like come here bytch and smack her on the butt once in a while may be a secret. Argue with her for no reason about dumb shyt at least once a week and shyt like that Might work.


She's not, she just in the car giving an interview and he interviews many women. Some models that he shoots with his cam and some regular women that he meets in his travels.

He also has a web series where he acts out different kinds of relationships and stories with the women he meets.

Sounds like he interviews prostitutes lol

 

[Reece]

What women want are fundamentally at odds with each other.