It's not bullshyt. Just because it isn't your reality, it doesn't mean it isn't anybody else's. A guy in my class literally just told one of my best friends (she's had a crush on him for months) that's she's cute, but she's too dark to date because he doesnt want his children to be any darker than him (he's light-skinned). Granted it may not be the biggest problem the black community has to address, but colorism/eugenics is real and it's sad that you and many other men in this thread reduce it to people "worrying about where you stick your dikk".