Latina speaks on the Fetishization of Mixed Babies

[IWunD3r]

Dude is mixed race, likely both his mom and dad.

Many of he brehs here take issue with calling mixed race people mixed. If he wants to identify as mixed he has every right to, if he wants to identify as white so be it...Mariah gets to call herself a black woman in the U.S.



Somehow I knew you would mention how you've been to those countries and saw for yourself.

Yes, I will trust your "life experience" rather than the census of those countries, as I'm sure you took a personal poll on the genetic makeup of every individual in said country on your visits. You are no doubt a reliable source

Idk what you're re talking about. i originally stated,different countries have different censuses. in the u.s neymar is considered blk. In his country he's not..
And in the same breathe. In many latin American countries, you have ppl who are mostly blk in genetics and apperance, yet despite the fact they don't consider themselves blk or admit to african ancestry... therefore having an impact on their country's census

 

[IWunD3r]

j lo is not a redbone get the fukk out here.

Never in my life did I see a black person describe j lo as a redbone.

Tisha Campbell yes. J LO no

Do u know what we off that means? Do i have to draw it for u?

The fact is, most redbones have the racially ambiguous look, and in the u.s., they often get mistaken for being latino.

 

[Cat piss martini]

the woman that have my gorgeous children will
be a woman of color.

 

[IWunD3r]

does this make a lot of black men encouraging white supremacy any better?.....what does this have to do with anything?......it shouldn't be about how easier it is to assimilate into a "white power structure" ...the big deal is the people who have an inferiority complex in the first place...and the internalization of white supremacy...


there should be more interest in speaking out against white supremacy...cause white people aren't gods....and white supremacy is a ridiculous notion....we are all equal...you aren't below white people...and white people aren't above you..


i do agree with black men being affected the most by the notion...which makes it all the more ridiculous....superficiality drives white supremacy....so if a lot of black men are putting non black women on a pedestal...and degrading black women based on the same superficiality......that's basically like,indirectly,cosigning what white supremacy says about black men....

It goes both ways. the same way there's blk men who degrade blk women, there's blk men who uplift blk women.

And the same way ,There's blk women who uplift blk women hood, there's women who degrade it as well.
Blk women tend to be blk women's biggest blockade.
The perpetrator of this blockade usually tends to be a self hating blk female c00n , who have wht supremacist ties. The blk female c00n operates under the guise of sista hood, to gain trust of Other blk women. she don't say shyt with substance, but blame everything on blk men, as a deflection....

 

[InDePickWest]

Its nasty that they want mixed girls but not mixed boys. They want daughters other nikkas want to date which is Subconsciously NORMAL to want beautiful attractive children but the self conceived notion you can't do it with your own Black genes that Black men have fuels a bigger problem with low self esteem and low self worth.

 

[Anahita]

They were all dark-skinned huh...I'm embarrassed.

30+ year old men hitting on/groping a teenage girl, it was disgusting.

it's not about dating...

it's about these black men internalizing white supremacy...... having severe self-hatred...and projecting their issues on black women...while encouraging white supremacy...by placing non black women on a pedestal for superficiality alone..

this is what is continually skipped over...

you can even say some black men are literally white supremacist...the only difference between them and prejudice white people...is the color of skin......and that the prejudice non black people are upfront about it...

yes...that's how bad it is......and that is what's so embarrassing about it...if black men were just dating non black women...and not degrading black women in the process.....this would be a whole different story....

All of this! Yes, both genders of black people are prone to self-hatred and internalizing racism but there is a terrifying number of black men/boys that are functioning as active agents of white supremacy. As you said, it's not the dating out that's the problem as it is the seething hatred for black women and girls.

 

[IWunD3r]

I see alotta Anti-Interracial relationship rhetoric, as if the blk community is a utopia .

most blk ppl, not all, but most are self hating individuals.
Who are practically Blk wht supremacist, who talk down on their partner's and children's blk features.
"Too black, hair too nappy... ****** nose. Big lips"... we say those things to each other.
So how can we get angry, when some one steps out, and goes interracial?

Everyone who dates interracially, isn't a wench or a buck. U can be blk n proud, n still date interracially.
The same way, u can be a blk self hating c00n, and date blk.

Im not an interracial relationship advocate, nor am i saying it's the answer . Im saying, we live in america, a diverse country. where we're actually outnumbered. innterracial relationships are gonna happen. Especially when u factor the self hate in the black community.

Every sista who dates interracial, aint a wench. There's sistas in here
who've dated innterracial, n sounded sensible when mentioning it. yet , we still bash them for it, and say worst shyt to them, than their racially other partners, may have not said.
Why? Is it insecurity ?
Cause personally, everytime a sista say she dated a non blk guy, i just think to myself, he wasn't hitting it right.

Im a different breed i guess.

 

[Biscayne]

The funny thing is... most of the ppl who's doing the bytching, is ppl who date interracially and haven't been with a blk person since the 8th grade....

 

[Biscayne]

A red bone is a biracial/multiracial woman, with RECENT African ancestry.
A light skinned African woman is a yellow bone.

Kelis is a yellow bone... J.Lo on living color was a redbone.

J.Lo's no redbone. That was just good camera/makeup work. J.Lo circa childhood, looked like Mestizio Boricua with a Taino/Euro Mix. She looked like she was maybe a quarter black at most. In the In Living Color photo you just posted, yes she does look redboned. She almost looks like an Afro-Latina like Jocelyn Hernandez in that photo. But in general? Naw....

 

[ZoeGod]

I have dated Ricans and we have been cool and whatever but I will always put black women on top. I want and will marry a black woman. Here is the thing i have no problem with IR as long u dont shyt on ur own race or stay dating a racist.

 

[Biscayne]

does this make a lot of black men encouraging white supremacy any better?.....what does this have to do with anything?......it shouldn't be about how easier it is to assimilate into a "white power structure" ...the big deal is the people who have an inferiority complex in the first place...and the internalization of white supremacy...


there should be more interest in speaking out against white supremacy...cause white people aren't gods....and white supremacy is a ridiculous notion....we are all equal...you aren't below white people...and white people aren't above you..


i do agree with black men being affected the most by the notion...which makes it all the more ridiculous....superficiality drives white supremacy....so if a lot of black men are putting non black women on a pedestal...and degrading black women based on the same superficiality......that's basically like,indirectly,cosigning what white supremacy says about black men....

And THAT's embarrassing.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

Who said she was pro black? Shes woke.

Can't be woke while sleeping next to white flesh. Don't talk to me about dismantling white privilege while benefiting from it by proxy. Signing up to be a house nikka then telling folks in the field how bad it is in the house? Nah nikka nah.

 

[MalikReloaded]

Nikkas spending their entire day arguing about white supremacy whilst living in a white dominated country when they could hop on a plane tomorrow and never see white folk again. Nikkas rather change every one around them instead of focusing their attention on the one thing they have control of, which is their own actions. Nikkas subscribe to Garveyism and pro-blackness except the whole part about leaving the country. I hate the Matrix but, I still want to be plugged in and enjoy the steak azz nikkas.

 

[IWunD3r]

30+ year old men hitting on/groping a teenage girl, it was disgusting.



All of this! Yes, both genders of black people are prone to self-hatred and internalizing racism but there is a terrifying number of black men/boys that are functioning as active agents of white supremacy. As you said, it's not the dating out that's the problem as it is the seething hatred for black women and girls.

Really? Last i checked, it goes both ways, both blk men n women are used as active agents for wht supremacy.

Infact, i'll say blk women r used more than blk men Cause, if one wants to control a group, u control the women. Once u control the women, u control that group for generations to come.
During Slavery, alotta the self hating ideologies were purposely forced on enslaved blk wmn, to pass on to for genrations to come.

Most of the self hating rhetorics from blk male celebrities, that was posted in this thread. Was learned via blk wmn. all were raised predominantly by a blk wmn , mother or grandma.

During the Olympics when the whole world celebrated, and watched Gabby Douglas excel as a blk woman.
It wasn't blk men talking shyt about her hair, it wasn't wht ppl, asian , indian or latino ppl... it was blk women..

Overall, it's gonna take the entire community, men women n child to be all in, in order to obtain change.

 

[BigMan]

i agree with the original premise of this thread , the meme about fetishizing of mixed babies. thats weird. what i dont like (i've skimmed this thread) is people downing bm for self hate without trying to help us. self hate is a disease that needs to be treated. we, as black people, need to work together to eliminate self hate