Latina speaks on the Fetishization of Mixed Babies

[Katey]

this is true...quite a few black men act downright delusional about this....


i just think they are too ashamed to admit that a lot of black men have internalized white supremacy....hate being black...and get a self-esteem boost from being with a non black woman...

cause it definitely shows weakness....... "brainwashing" and "conditioning" is always brought up as an excuse...

but it's not impossible to reject the notion of white supremacy....if you have the strength of heart...

as a black man... if you put non black women on a pedestal.....and degrade black women based on superficiality....you are encouraging white supremacy...which is a huge irony...because of what white supremacy says about black men...

and this is what quite a few black men don't want to admit....and will try to skip over in a discussion.....cause it doesn't put them in a flattering light...it makes them look ridiculous and weak.....

 

[godkiller]

this is true...quite a few black men act downright delusional about this....


i just think they are too ashamed to admit that a lot of black men have internalized white supremacy....hate being black...and get a self-esteem boost from being with a non black woman...

cause it definitely shows weakness....... "brainwashing" and "conditioning" is always brought up as an excuse...

but it's not impossible to reject the notion of white supremacy....if you have the strength of heart...

as a black man... if you put non black women on a pedestal.....and degrade black women based on superficiality....you are encouraging white supremacy...which is a huge irony...because of what white supremacy says about black men...

and this is what quite a few black men don't want to admit....and will try to skip over in a discussion.....cause it doesn't put them in a flattering light...it makes them look ridiculous and weak.....

Self hate and fetishism are not the same thing. And to be real with you,

 

[philmonroe]

 

[LadySimone]

When did I ever state a preference for Latinas? The closest I've come to saying something like that is saying that they tend to view relationships more traditionally, which is a plus for me. So do African women, I've just never happened to date an African woman. I prefer my girlfriend and she happens to be Latina, there's a difference. I've dated white, black, asian, and now Latina and have had good experiences w/ all of them except maybe Asian. It's not about good hair and all that stupid shyt. If anything I'm a little worried about having a weird looking son.

Which kinda bolsters this woman's case. It's really a festishization of mixed race girls not boys and it's interesting how you fear a weird looking mix son but not a daughter. I guess you can never go wrong with a mixed daughter

 

[Katey]

 

[Biscayne]

My girl is Mexican. We clicked.

Shame on you c00n, how dare you go out and get into a relationship that makes you happy

Who in this thread has called him @Cali_livin a c00n for being happy?

Its the fetishizing of Latnias that's the problem. Dude on Twitter that was posted in the OP came off sounding creepy. No matter how you spin this, it was the Latina who was complaining about Black Men acting all creepy and googly. In a sense its the Latina(and other Latinas on Twitter who chimed in on this discussion chastising colorstruck Black Men) who are calling us c00ns for being colorstruck. This isn't some "Angry Black Women are Jealous" type thing. The ether came straight from a Latinas mouth.

 

[Silkk]

Who in this thread has called him @Cali_livin a c00n for being happy?

Its the fetishizing of Latnias that's the problem. Dude on Twitter that was posted in the OP came off sounding creepy. No matter how you spin this, it was the Latina who was complaining about Black Men acting all creepy and googly. In a sense its the Latina(and other Latinas on Twitter who chimed in on this discussion chastising colorstruck Black Men) who are calling us c00ns for being colorstruck. This isn't some "Angry Black Women are Jealous" type thing. The ether came straight from a Latinas mouth.

That was for the ones saying if you date interracially you're a c00n

 

[Biscayne]

I feel you. Its a shame but I feel you.

And then when the black man gets treated some typa way, he'll get all emotional on some bullshyt like that guy who made that spoken word



Pine after a race that wants nothing to do with you brehs

I remember that embarrassing video.

 

[Biscayne]

Becuase you probably don't feel she's beautiful lets be honest. She's not like your so called preference therefore not as beautiful in your eyes

You think your grandmother is ugly thus you think your ugly........so you go and find someone with the opposite features of yourself thus creating your "preference" it doesn't help that media feeds this "preference" down your throat.

Hol' up sista. Don't YOU date interracially?

You date Haji correct?

Do you find us dark-skinned brothas ugly?

Do you find Black men ugly?

 

[Biscayne]

You are absolutely right...

I've said before the attraction between a black man and a non black woman usually mirrors a

superiority complex(hides feelings of inferiority)
inferiority complex(hides feelings of superiority)relationship

with the man looking for the woman to validate his existence...cause he hates being black...and with the insecure woman looking to the man to validate her superiority...

a lot of black men are an ego booster to a lot of non black women....so much so...that it's embarrassing...that's why a lot of these couples always have to denounce black women....cause they aren't happy with themselves....

It is embarrassing. But this also applies to Black Female/White Male relationships. Type in "Swirling" on Google and count the number of vids, blogs, etc you'll find from Black women looking for validation from White men. Neither side wants to be honest in this discussion, because both sides are pointing the finger like

"Look how desperate you look dating that White Woman/White Man"

While simultaneously wanting to venture out and explore their options in the White dating world themselves...

 

[Biscayne]

I bolded what you switched up and that's what I was speaking on unless you ain't even writing what you saying. I can let it go you keep responding to me. I respond to stupid people all the time to uplift y'all so that ain't saying much lol. Leave me the fukk alone and KIM aka stop replying to me.

Take your own advice and get out of your own feelings. I'm not neither nikka disagree with that stupidity you said. You ain't never hung with nobody in no other communities so stop lying nikka.

"You ain't never hung with nobody in no other communities so stop lying nikka. "

How do you know this sir?

 

[Biscayne]

You are clearly one of those who can't handle the truth.Not my problem.

"That's why I stopped putting Black men on a pedestal. I've been woke"

You realize MOST Black men prefer Black women. Right?

And judging by how pretty you are, most black men DO put you on a pedestal. Especially on here. What's worse is, you probably get hit on plenty by Black men, but view it as a nuisance. Yet you let the opinions of few Black men(The Latina fetishizing ones) rile you up to make such statements regarding Black men.....

 

[Biscayne]

Which is why I will never place black men on a pedestal.I been woke.

Most Black men prefer you.

Most Non-Black men probably find you attractive(you're pretty) but prefer women of their own race.

So who DO you put on a pedestal?

 

[Biscayne]

You are clearly one of those who can't handle the truth.Not my problem.

So you don't get hit on by any Black men?

You haven't had to turn down any Black men?

You don't see very many Black couples?

 

[Barnett114]

Which is why I will never place black men on a pedestal.I been woke.

Your responses in these types of threads are getting old.

@Always-Right Liggins , you know what to do