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Let’s be real, going out of your way to talk to younger women is pretty weird.
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philmonroe
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Its weird because you were told it is weird. Why the hell don't any of you dudes ever answer why y'all use this silly tactic of what to talk about like y'all talk all business all the time? I swear its like you dudes need cameras on y'all to notice y'all talking basic shyt the majority of the time that anybody that's interested in the topic can understand.that shyt IS weird. period. what the fukk does a grown ass man have to talk to an 18 year old about?!
Formerly Black Trash
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fukking nah
But dating and taking them seriously...I won’t say weird but most of the time it’s not a good idea
But dating and taking them seriously...I won’t say weird but most of the time it’s not a good idea
philmonroe
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I did read you fukking failure. The link said uk so I didn't click it. You can't tell me I can't read because I didn't click a link that says uk when we are the us. What kinda hoe logic you using? You bytches getting stupider by the day. Even with the us mentioned doesn't change the fact most people don't marry that far away in age anyway so where is the real difference at when you account for that or can you not find a google article to explain your claim public school failure?wow you dont know how to read so there is no talking logic with you and ima stop responding now lol
"According to a study conducted by Emory University over in Atlanta, there’s a correlation between larger age gaps and divorce in married couples.
The study, which was conducted in 2014, is based on information from over 3000 people in the United States. Couples with a one year age difference were the most likely to make it with just a 3% chance of divorce, however those chances jumped up to 18% for a five year difference and 39% for a ten year difference. For relationships with a 20 year age gap, things look pretty bleak with a 95% chance of separation."
philmonroe
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More silly logic because no matter what the age difference is you're using the other person for something. If you wasn't you'd talk to whoever says whats up.
All Women Are Queens
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It's either that or obese single mothers, at least where I'm from.
Those women are elite in looks among even other stars breh our women don't age as hard but those 10 years make a difference
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You think its possible the young person could be also using the older person for something?
Bumblebreh
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breh your average 18 year old will babble on about social media and their friendship circle and their lack of life experience will be problematic. The age gap between an 18 year old and a 35 year old is 17 years!
A 35 should stick to a woman who is 21 and up,so a chick that is working on her career and shyt.Around 25 would be the ideal age as a 25 year old and a 35 year old will have a bit more in common.
An 18 year old is like a child to me and I see older dudes just trying to take advantage.
HarlemHottie
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I advise women to date older. I didn't, but that's just bc I was off the market so young, I didn't even have a chance. It just makes sense. As a woman, your youth is relative. A 35 y.o. is still ''young' to a 45- 50 y.o. man. Resource-wise, it should be a win too.
Compatibility is the answer here. A lot of older dudes literally fukked up in their 20s and got hella baggage now trying to dump that on a young chick who trying to enjoy her youth.
I tried dating older dudes and to be honest, it was depressing. Couldn't relate to anything, disposition was always jaded, money/resources were exaggerated. A lot of older dudes didn't have funds b/c of getting caught up with baby mamas, divorces or foolishness. More importantly? Basically if they made it to a certain age and they had never been in a solid relationship, there was something majorly wrong with them.
Even worse if they were emotionally broken. Like bitter as fukk. It was always the same ole story. Some toxic bytch they were chasing played them and they now hated everything female. They try to cover up their resentment but they end up wearing it on their sleeves. Most of the time they end up judging you or looking down their noses at you like they are superior just b/c they are older. It got tiring to watch a dude have little vitality, a closed off bitter heart, and a chip on their shoulder talking about what u need to do as a young woman.
All that being said, some older dudes can be real gems, but the percentage of good ones without severe emotional baggage is small. We always talk about women having baggage as they age but nobody ever wants to talk about male baggage.
Regardless I don't think it's weird for older men to want younger women. It's just not what a lot of younger women think it's gonna be in a lot of cases. One of my sister's friends is divorcing her older husband of 6 years now. She said it felt like she was living the life of an 80 year old and he was one of the most negative people she'd ever dealt with once they got married. Super critical of EVERYTHING. shyt gets old. No pun intended.
I tried dating older dudes and to be honest, it was depressing. Couldn't relate to anything, disposition was always jaded, money/resources were exaggerated. A lot of older dudes didn't have funds b/c of getting caught up with baby mamas, divorces or foolishness. More importantly? Basically if they made it to a certain age and they had never been in a solid relationship, there was something majorly wrong with them.
Even worse if they were emotionally broken. Like bitter as fukk. It was always the same ole story. Some toxic bytch they were chasing played them and they now hated everything female. They try to cover up their resentment but they end up wearing it on their sleeves. Most of the time they end up judging you or looking down their noses at you like they are superior just b/c they are older. It got tiring to watch a dude have little vitality, a closed off bitter heart, and a chip on their shoulder talking about what u need to do as a young woman.
All that being said, some older dudes can be real gems, but the percentage of good ones without severe emotional baggage is small. We always talk about women having baggage as they age but nobody ever wants to talk about male baggage.
Regardless I don't think it's weird for older men to want younger women. It's just not what a lot of younger women think it's gonna be in a lot of cases. One of my sister's friends is divorcing her older husband of 6 years now. She said it felt like she was living the life of an 80 year old and he was one of the most negative people she'd ever dealt with once they got married. Super critical of EVERYTHING. shyt gets old. No pun intended.
That part. Well fukk, all the parts. I was in 2 relationships with older men...needless to say, they were bitter about life and would just keep harping on it. They were also controlling as hell and wpuld feel some type of way if i went against anything they wanted.
Now, I don't think all older men are like this obviously lol. But i definitely think theres a myth that older men arent bitter and older women are when in reality, it varies from person to person.
it’s not weird that older dudes want younger women. wanting something attractive is a primal and natural instinct.
the only thing funny is that a lot of those are playing themselves and paying cash money for it. if it’s a genuinely attractive woman she probably has hella options her age and is only using old dude for resources. knew a bunch of girls in college having threesomes with dudes and livin it up on campus while getting funds from older dude who gets kisses and maybe sex once in a while.
pretty sure them kinda dudes is where the high ass STD rate for old people is coming from as well
dudes getting sick from young chicks, gettin their feelings and wallets crushed then spreading that to someone’s divorced mom when they gotta start dating their age again
the only thing funny is that a lot of those are playing themselves and paying cash money for it. if it’s a genuinely attractive woman she probably has hella options her age and is only using old dude for resources. knew a bunch of girls in college having threesomes with dudes and livin it up on campus while getting funds from older dude who gets kisses and maybe sex once in a while.
pretty sure them kinda dudes is where the high ass STD rate for old people is coming from as well
dudes getting sick from young chicks, gettin their feelings and wallets crushed then spreading that to someone’s divorced mom when they gotta start dating their age again