Let's be reality. Black feminism is needed. (no trolling please)

[Yup]

fathers that are in their childrens lives are raising their sons. studies have shown they're more involved in their kids lives as well.

just takes choosing to start a family with man over choosing to start a family solo.

@marcuz you are going in circles dude. So now it's woman's fault these fathers are not in these children's lives.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

I'm not blaming it on the brothas. We all live in this system, and as I said, women have internalized these messages and project them onto other women (and men) too.

Ok, so how do you solve the problem?

 

[Ashley Banks]

I don't see why any man would have a problem with feminism unless he was no good and treated women like shyt. I see a lot of negative things said about feminism on the Coli (not this thread) guys seem real disturbed by something that's supposed to be positive. It reminds me of how white people probably felt in the beginning of the civil rights movement.

Explain to me the issue some posters have with it.

This. One of my classmates said something similar to this a few days ago.

 

[Poitier]

Yoy use the panthers/NOI as if it was a good example.

As far as providing food, clothing and shelter? YES

 

[NobodyReally]

Ok, I gotcha. Could you expand on that problem? :hmmjb:

That's because this is patriarchal society and men are viewed as the leaders of the home and community so you can't all the way blame that narrative on the brothas. Hell, yall got Black Girls Code, yall got yall own award show, you sure as shyt can flip the channel to First 48 and see more young brothas gettin hemmed up and sent to jail for cacs viewing pleasure. So it's not as if yall are being totally ignored.

in the black community, women are not only viewed as intellectually equal, they're viewed as intellectually superior.

which has back fired on y'all cus now you got a bunch of nikkas that think yall are superwoman and can handle it all

Who views black women as intellectually superior? I never heard a Coli brother call another brotha a "bytch" for sounding smart or witty. Earning more degrees does not equal intellectual respect. We still don't get it. And I don't think women getting more education is the downfall of the black community. If you think that's the problem, then we really have a long way to go as a community.

 

[Ashley Banks]

@marcuz you are going in circles dude. So now it's woman's fault these fathers are not in these children's lives.

Yes, everything's women's fault we can't do anything right that's why we should let these men that don't take responsibility/aren't held responsible for anything lead us. Even though if anything goes wrong we'll get blamed for it.

 

[Yup]

Many have said black women too bossy and not being able to let a man lead. Now I ask, who should women follow?

 

[marcuz]

@marcuz you are going in circles dude. So now it's woman's fault these fathers are not in these children's lives.

@Yup, we've been over this before. you can choose to start a family with a man or without. most black single mothers are choosing to be single mothers.


its not like y'all are in LTR relationships and the guy says he'll be out for a pack of cigs and disappears forever. most single mothers fukked a nikka they had no real relationship with, and decided to give birth to a baby w/o him in your life.

 

[Poitier]

And I don't think women getting more education is the downfall of the black community. I

Using that education to work under Cac daddy has been part of the issue.

 

[Gravity]

I don't see why any man would have a problem with feminism unless he was no good and treated women like shyt. I see a lot of negative things said about feminism on the Coli (not this thread) guys seem real disturbed by something that's supposed to be positive. It reminds me of how white people probably felt in the beginning of the civil rights movement.

Explain to me the issue some posters have with it.

You're full of shyt, just like the lame who made the thread and most black feminist supporters. That's the problem that people har with black feminism. First you say "I don't see why any man would have a problem with feminism..." then you turn right around and say "I see a lot of negative things said about feminism...". Well if you paid attention to the negative shyt that people have to say about black feminism then maybe you'd understand why people have a problem with it. The truth is that you don't really want to understand folk who have a problem with it, this is just your passive aggressive way of trying to shame those people. See the bolded. "The only men who could possibly have a problem with black feminism are no good men who treat women like shyt". FOH

 

[Yup]

@Yup, we've been over this before. you can choose to start a family with a man or without. most black single mothers are choosing to be single mothers.


its not like y'all are in LTR relationships and the guy says he'll be out for a pack of cigs and disappears forever. most single mothers fukked a nikka they had no real relationship with, and decided to give birth to a baby w/o him in your life.

What are the stats? So.most single mothers are hit and quits by men?

 

[NobodyReally]

Ok, so how do you solve the problem?

Breh, if I knew that, I wouldn't be on this forum talking to y'all. I'd be book-signing, and booking speeches.

 

[marcuz]

Yes, everything's women's fault we can't do anything right that's why we should let these men that don't take responsibility/aren't held responsible for anything lead us. Even though if anything goes wrong we'll get blamed for it.

who is telling BW to follow unqualified leaders?

 

[LA Fisher]

Using that education to work under Cac daddy has been part of the issue.

So the women have to take care of the children, take the blame and also provide jobs in the black community too?

 

[Yup]

You're full of shyt, just like the lame who made the thread and most black feminist supporters. That's the problem that people har with black feminism. First you say "I don't see why any man would have a problem with feminism..." then you turn right around and say "I see a lot of negative things said about feminism...". Well if you paid attention to the negative shyt that people have to say about black feminism then maybe you'd understand why people have a problem with it. The truth is that you don't really want to understand why folk have a problem with it, this is just your passive aggressive way of trying to shame those who people. See the bolded. "The only men who could possibly have a problem with black feminism are no good men who treat women like shyt". FOH

What are these problems with feminism list me quotes of feminists and what they have supported and gone against please.