Let's end this single mothers BS

[GodsPerspective]

Shaming them hasn't worked so far lol.

What shaming goes on in the black community?

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

i know tons of women

people rarely change i can spot a bum ass fake nikka a mile away

People can hide who they truly are though. A lot of folks do the shyt everyday. You act like most people are straight up honest individuals and that's not true. You only have what a person shows or tells you.

 

[GodsPerspective]

You must not know many women. A lot of quality women get put in shytty situations by men who seemed one way but turned out to be another. Shyt happens to the ratchets and the non ratchets.

Stop saying that shyt

you make it sound like the women are oh so defenseless and are taken advantage of.

TRUST ME when I say this, ALOT OF THESE FEMALES KNOW BETTER.

They love the attention that the guy brings and just choose to ignore all the negative traits that they see and hope it isn't true.
These females are at as much fault as the guys in this situation.

I don't excuse stupidity for bringing a life into this world

 

[Raava]

'Sigh"

You love picking at straws. The fact of the matter is that in the black community most single mothers aren't a result of divorce. It is a result of this baby mama culture that is taking place, true or not?

Also look at the divorce rate in this country. People rush into marriage without really loving one another.

They need to learn to pick the right partner and avoid all this grief.

Of course I'm not talking only about single mothers. I'm talking about the deadbeat guys as well.

That isn't straws at all and what you said didn't even address what you quoted me on.

I agree what some of what you just said but that's not what I was quoted on and you know it. You want to be on your soap box go ahead but address what I said. My main point is. Single mom doesn't equal dead beat dad in a lot of cases.

 

[Elle Driver]

What shaming goes on in the black community?

I think it's a weird juxtaposition. On the one hand, it's accepted through the moniker of "baby muva", on the other hand it's shamed because baby muvas are seen as less than.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

'Sigh"

You love picking at straws. The fact of the matter is that in the black community most single mothers aren't a result of divorce. It is a result of this baby mama culture that is taking place, true or not?

Also look at the divorce rate in this country. People rush into marriage without really loving one another.

They need to learn to pick the right partner and avoid all this grief.

Of course I'm not talking only about single mothers. I'm talking about the deadbeat guys as well.

People need to truly understand commitment, but our culture doesn't value marriage as much as it used to so many don't either. whether a person rushes into marriage or not ... Once they are there, both parties need to man up for that it calls for (the sacrifice, maturity, commitment, etc). Most folks aren't about that life.

 

[GodsPerspective]

Lmao at dudes that keep running around to a fraction of rachet chicks in our race and nuttin raw in em.

I'll never stop laughing at nikka logic. Why do you all expect hoodrats and trash pussies to be responsible for the honor of childbirth.

Like my dad said, this ain't about women. This is about our current generation of males wanting to nut in easy, raw p*ssy w/o consequence.

Lmao! Easy p*ssy is NEVER easy p*ssy bros. Love and wife Instagram thots b/c u chasin azz and titties?
Deal wit the high abortion rates, OOW baby rates, divorce rates, and broken communities!

Lmao all b/c y'all couldn't say no to rachet p*ssy. Lol!

Like I said, blk women. Fall back. These nikkas out here casting their seeds b4 swine and lookin surprised when shyt hits the fan.


Ya'll got me dying over here! Lmao!

"But why wasn't this stripper mo careful with her womb?!"

Oh shyt! Lmao!!!!!

I like your point of view, because it's the reverse of most of the guy posters on here.

All this shows is that both parties are to blame

There are too many prevalent deadbeat guys, and too many stupid ass females

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Stop saying that shyt

you make it sound like the women are oh so defenseless and are taken advantage of.

TRUST ME when I say this, ALOT OF THESE FEMALES KNOW BETTER.

They love the attention that the guy brings and just choose to ignore all the negative traits that they see and hope it isn't true.
These females are at as much fault as the guys in this situation.

I don't excuse stupidity for bringing a life into this world

I'm not saying anyone is a victim, all I'm saying is people can't make blanket generalizations about a demographic based upon the majority. I agree, some women brush shyt under the rug... But not all. Some men ain't shyt from jump... But not all. In some cases, both are to blame. In other cases... Not so much.

 

[GodsPerspective]

That isn't straws at all and what you said didn't even address what you quoted me on.

I agree what some of what you just said but that's not what I was quoted on and you know it. You want to be on your soap box go ahead but address what I said. My main point is. Single mom doesn't equal dead beat dad in a lot of cases.

No, you're the one at fault here.

In my orginal post, I stated "SINGLE MOMS AS A RESULT OF FUKKING WITH DEADBEAT DADS".

Did I mention divorce or any other circumstances? NO

I knew fukkbois would try and nitpick my words, that's why I made it very clear

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

men hae always done this nothing has changed, just tha tbefore it was shamed to have a kid out of wedlock now its praised

Wrong. Dead wrong. Men have always dealt with hoes. But rarely have they glorified them the way our current men do. Fuk a hoe. Wife a woman.
Ya'll are fukkin hoes. Wifin hoes. Getting mad at hoes for being hoes. Shaming other women for not being hoes. Then running to other races of women only to choose hoes there and restart the cycle.
And then being shocked when dealing with hoes results in high abortion rates, OOW baby rates, divorce rates and std rates.

Smh

 

[Raava]

No, you're the one at fault here.

In my orginal post, I stated "SINGLE MOMS AS A RESULT OF FUKKING WITH DEADBEAT DADS".

Did I mention divorce or any other circumstances? NO

I knew fukkbois would try and nitpick my words, that's why I made it very clear

At fault for what? You are all over the place. Why are you so mad? I made I general simple statement in here, I never even said I disagreed with what you said. You came ready for an argument, you need to wait for a poster actually arguing with you. Over here wasting all your little smilies and CAPS.

 

[Blackout]

But to pretend that these rachets hoes with multiple baby daddies poppin out illegitimate kids in our race and trappin nikkas with kids are supposed to be responsible?

Nah nikka. A hoe is a hoe. It's YOUR responsibility to avoid them and build with quality chicks. That's the only difference between this generation of males and the previous generations. Stop chasin azz and titties hopin that's gonna translate to wifey material. And another thing, if divorce rates with every race of women you interact with are high and mainly instigated by said women, you don't think that maybe there is something wrong with YOUR choices in women?

Ya'll never learn.

I doubt that the men who are being targeted in this thread as deadbeats are actually posting in this thread.

Like me I'm doing my part to avoid hoes but that doesn't stop another man from wifing her since she let him have access to her and have father less kids come into existence

 

[O.T.I.S.]

People can hide who they truly are though. A lot of folks do the shyt everyday. You act like most people are straight up honest individuals and that's not true. You only have what a person shows or tells you.

I agree to a certain extent but really, most women can't seem to spot a bum ass nikka...

Or they overlook the red flags.. And being a bum ass nikka doesn't necessarily mean being broke. It's red flags everywhere..

The same way you might look at a chick and can tell she isn't shyt is the same way we look at certain nikkas and tell he ain't shyt. And especially since most nikkas don't put up the same front around dudes than they do around women

That's when having a strong set of values and morals come in. Being able to recognize important shyt about a person and making a decision to be with them based on that.

For example, I didn't like how my last ex never took responsibility for anything and never tried to assist with important shyt to make me feel like we were partners... The end result being that I didn't marry her and damn sure didn't get her pregnant

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I agree to a certain extent but really, most women can't seem to spot a bum ass nikka...

Or they overlook the red flags.. And being a bum ass nikka doesn't necessarily mean being broke. It's red flags everywhere..

The same way you might look at a chick and can tell she isn't shyt is the same way we look at certain nikkas and tell he ain't shyt. And especially since most nikkas don't put up the same front around dudes than they do around women

That's when having a strong set of values and morals come in. Being able to recognize important shyt about a person and making a decision to be with them based on that.

For example, I didn't like how my last ex never took responsibility for anything and never tried to assist with important shyt to make me feel like we were partners... The end result being that I didn't marry her and damn sure didn't get her pregnant

I understand what your saying. Unfortunately life doesn't happen in a vacuum and people on both sides can get screwed... Visible red flags or not. That's life and shyt still goes wrong even in the best of circumstances.

 

[Nomad1]

Breh aren't you from canada? What black community are you speaking on? You're no different than @Yup when it comes to these topics.

you a moron for real