Lets say you are actually able to get a girlfriend
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Just making an observation. Don't try to demean me b/c ya'll can't get ya shyt straight.
Sorry, I'm just not going to give you the answer you looking for. I'm an older cat, I started dating before black planet was a thing.
You young people creating all types of scenarios that don't make sense
The flirty part can go in the bushes. Everything else I'm cool with. But in this day and age a person like that might as well be a unicorn. I've been working in an office for the last 10 years and its absurd how much women gossip and talk about every facet of their relationship. I know extensive details about people's lives I never and probably will never meet because their significant other doesn't know how to keep their mouth shut.
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She sounds like the female version of me in some ways...
But not exactly. I'm just not crazy about putting my personal life on social media.
But not exactly. I'm just not crazy about putting my personal life on social media.
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Where did you get me trying to "demean" you from? That's a valid argument, your comment was a detractor from the OPs question.
You said my opinion didn't matter. That's demeaning. And it wasn't valid b/c it wasn't even an opinion. It was an observation.
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It doesn't matter in the context of the conversation, if she had asked women for a response then what good is my opinion at that point since it's is aimed at another sex? I don't know how a female is supposed to feel in such a litmus test like situation.. even more so since personalities differ greatly.
My input could easily be misconstrued, misinterpreted, etc..some of the responses to you have gone outside of the theme of the thread which is why I responded. My intention wasn't to demean you, I'm only operating by cold logic and my high interest in Jayne's thread. If you feel slighted then I apologize but my point must be made..acidly, if needs be.
my girl is similar minus the flirting. her friends and fam know me and have met me but I don't hang out with them. She don't have any social media pages to share any pics of us and we been together for 5 years. And she a dimeWomen like this do exist.They aren't on IG or other social media platforms, so you can't easily identify them. Especially if she is attractive, because now of days men automatically put attractive women into the thot category without ever getting to know her on a personal level.
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Sounds like she perfect jump off material or side chick like you new nikkas like calling them
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Yeah. Ain't particularly fond of getting to know a chick's parents since she ain't going to be having formal dinners with mines.
I don't do the show off to friends shyt either so if she don't want me hanging on her arm around then, I'm cool with that too.
As long as our relationship was intimate and we are both happy with each other, I'm cool with not knowing much about her family or company. However she'd have to readily convince me that I'm not some next door fukk jar if she wants me to not ever entertain thoughts of her having me as a side piece, though.
I don't do the show off to friends shyt either so if she don't want me hanging on her arm around then, I'm cool with that too.
As long as our relationship was intimate and we are both happy with each other, I'm cool with not knowing much about her family or company. However she'd have to readily convince me that I'm not some next door fukk jar if she wants me to not ever entertain thoughts of her having me as a side piece, though.
Her and I would probably be cool irl.