Let's talk about cheating ...

[Still Benefited]

I cheated alot in the first 2 years of my relationship. All of the women I've fukked except 3 came within that 2 year period. It was because we met during freshman orientation at college so I never got a chance to be single. It was my first really serious relationship and I didn't know how to act.


I've thought about doing it a million times, and even come close a few times. But I haven't since I got caught a while back.


If your in a serious relationship with a person you could see yourself marrying then you shouldn't do it. But if you have any doubts, or your just dating somebody then fukk it......cheat til your dikk falls off.

Thank u...womens idea of when the relationship is "official" is usually a lot sooner then we consider it that....is that cheating bcuz she took it upon herself to be naive and believe u would cut off any former or new women just bcuz u met her a month ago?

 

[ANewClassic]

men leave their wives and even KILL OFF their wives to get with mistresses all the time. (Scott Peterson etc)
also the "it's just sex" excuse doesn't fly with me. i'd consider that even more demonic than if you were to actually kinda care about the person you're screwing around on me with.
Where is Kevm3? he needs to come thru and spit that righteous gospel in this thread.

It is unflattering behavior and even if an excuse, it is an excuse that has biological implications behind it. Growth/maturity comes in being able to control such urges, that is what most people say separates us from animals, the ability to control urges. I think I come more from a respect perspective. I respect my boyfriend enough to break up with him before I would cheat on him. And most of the girls I know that cheated did it on some "revenge" type stuff because they believed that is the biggest shot to a guys ego.

 

[Anothergirl]

Your married right?

If your husband were to cheat would that be the end of your marriage?

yep married almost 4 years now...and at this point we don't have kids....so yes i would leave. it's the ultimate disrespect.
when we have kids that's gonna be harder to say because it's not just about "me and him" anymore. let's hope i won't ever have to make that decision however.

 

[Bean]

Have you cheated?

No

Would you cheat?

Yes

Your stance on cheating?

shyt happens. can't do shyt about it but let go of the person that cheats on you and move on.

One of my brehs whose wedding I was in like 4 years ago, I just found out he's cheating on his wife, I've know both of em for like ten years, on one hand I don't want to be a snitch even an anonymous snitch, but on the other hand I'll feel bad if she gets HIV or something cuz hubby was messing around.

What would you do brehs? Look the other way?

nothing. its not my business. she picked him she gets what she wanted.

 

[The Jewnited States]

Never cheated.
Never will cheat.

I think cheaters are disgusting, If you want to have multiple partners then do that but don't drag someone into your lifestyle without telling them first.

I would say something because I would want someone to tell me.

 

[KingX]

lying ass lovey duvey ass nikkas yall all kno if the p*ssy wuz in yo face you would take it being faithful is a fukkin facade

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

ZERO tolerance. bytch lemme find out you fukkin wit some otha nikka..






*mumbles histerically to self* "mmhmmm..Oh..OH..but you was wit yo sister out shoppin Sunday huh....yeah okay..."

 

[kevm3]

I'm not into the whole cheating thing. If I wanted to talk to a whole bunch of women, then I'd be single and do that. If I make a commitment to someone, then I'm in that.

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

Yes.
Yes.
I've never been faithful in any real relationship that I've been in and I can live with that. Monogamy isn't for everybody. That being said, I support and applaud folks that are in happy relationships, and have on more than one occasion tried to help keep friends and family that are flirting with stepping out on the "righteous" path.
Cheating is basically a matter of conscience and logic: if guilt, remorse, or regret isn't enough of a motivator against fukking someone other than your mate, and you can rationally justify fukking someone other than your mate, then you're gonna cheat.

From my experience people, particularly women, that have the most indignation about people that physically cheat while in relationships are the main ones that have no problem justifying emotionally investing in someone other than their mate, as if cheating is purely a physical thing.

 

[Egomaniacal1]

My stance?

99.9% of all women deserve to be cheated on for being idiots, backstabbing whores, idiots, evil manipulators, idiots, entitled brats, etc......but mostly for being IDIOTS.

The end.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

My stance?

99.9% of all women deserve to be cheated on for being idiots, backstabbing whores, idiots, evil manipulators, idiots, entitled brats, etc......but mostly for being IDIOTS.

The end.

I'm really hoping this a joke post, otherwise you're really exposing your vagina right now.

 

[wutang512]

No

Depends on the situation.(I Plan on going to japan and brazil before I get married so... what black man goes to those countries and turns down free p*ssy?)

I used to be the cheaters aint shyt type of guy. But being in a relationship for 3 yrs I do understand why some dudes cheat.
-Women and men fall off after they get comfortable
- Women complain that your not being romantic anymore
-women pick fights just so they can have some drama in their lives or something to get mad over
-women get annoying asking trying to get attention all the damn time
- and etc....

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

No

Depends on the situation.(I Plan on going to japan and brazil before I get married so... what black man goes to those countries and turns down free AIDS?)

I used to be the cheaters aint shyt type of guy. But being in a relationship for 3 yrs I do understand why some dudes cheat.
-Women and men fall off after they get comfortable
- Women complain that your not being romantic anymore
-women pick fights just so they can have some drama in their lives or something to get mad over
-women get annoying asking trying to get attention all the damn time
- and etc....

fixed

 

[Rominati]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

Women and Men are wired differently. Until girls understand and accept that they will never get it.

Its in a mans nature to want to fukk numerous women. GET OVER IT. Men get bored with fukking the same chick over and over again. Thus the new p*ssy allure.

I understand why men cheat. Like the guy above me said. When you in a relationship for several YEARS. Then talk to me. All these cheaters aint shyt fellos prolly havent been in a real relationship.

Women get annoying, obsessive, petty, nagging, and overall lame as fukk once they get real comfortable with you. Dont knock another man when you dont know his situation.

Girls put on a front for like at least one year in any new relationship. Then when you get hit with the REAL them (insecurities, jealousness, cattiness)

You gon be like why am I even in a relationship.


And then that sexy big booty chocolate mami walks into the room.......

 

[MikelArteta]

No

Depends on the situation.(I Plan on going to japan and brazil before I get married so... what black man goes to those countries and turns down free p*ssy?)

I used to be the cheaters aint shyt type of guy. But being in a relationship for 3 yrs I do understand why some dudes cheat.
-Women and men fall off after they get comfortable
- Women complain that your not being romantic anymore
-women pick fights just so they can have some drama in their lives or something to get mad over
-women get annoying asking trying to get attention all the damn time
- and etc....

This is true but you've been together for 3 years so it pops up would you risk throwing it all away for some other puzzy?