Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
but overall on the topic of transactional dating with me and my buddy who is getting a divorce, have had an Epiphany about it.
I realize that you are a fool if you think you can have a sustainable and fruitful romantic life without Moving in a transactional manner.
The idea that you will be a Leonardo DiCaprio and dating 20 or 30 something year old beautiful women without them getting something out of it whether it be finances or clout or access to a lifestyle, is insane. So you Bros on the Coli are not old enough or have delusions of grander to think differently.
in my mid 30s the guys that I know that are slaying the most p*ssy live a certain lifestyle. They are either rich or they are big steppers. you really think they’re not letting women get a taste of their money or perks?
even the baddie in your city who is letting a Dboy hit, is getting tricked on by that nikka. And you’d be surprised at how small the number it is to actually trick on a bytch. Some these hoes think getting 10k out of a nikka in a year is securing the bag 
but transactional dating doesn’t have to be this evil thing. For most of human history people got married due to transactional reason. Women needed a man to survive in the world. men needed a healthy young woman to bear children so that their bloodlines can survive and so they can have children to inherit the occupation.
In 2024 these don’t really exist anymore. so that’s a huge reason why marriage and long-term relationship aren’t as prevalent.
But I would tell any man as I’m having trouble with this now is don’t settle down unless you are getting very transactional items out of your relationship.
Yall may chafe at the idea of selling a woman on your finances but some of the most dedicated and hard-working wives are women who married a man because he can take care of them . These are the true high value women in my opinion as they understand the part that they are playing and they are grateful for the opportunity .
for all the talk of coli pimping, I’m shocked that y’all are on OPs head for giving that chick some dough. if y’all are really in the streets hoeing around, then y’all would be meeting women who may be single moms and over 30 but are great women nonetheless who you don’t mind helping out when you can. says a lot about some of y’all that y’all can’t conceptualize this.
But this also should apply for men as well. As an older man now I understand why a lot of men get married to trophy wives/sluts
. When you are a very self-sufficient, well to do man all you might need is a bytch for is to suck you off like a pro every night.
I also understand why some men only go after women who are financially secure or rich. One of my best friends who stays chasing after rich girls and it paid off for him as his soon to be fiancé is loaded. She’s a cute girl too but shes tall so she probably was happy to meet a guy who wasnt intimidated by it (my guy is tall too).
Like I said it’s all about transactions.
And also understand that if you don’t plan on having children or getting married getting in long-term relationship is kind of pointless.
I realize that you are a fool if you think you can have a sustainable and fruitful romantic life without Moving in a transactional manner.
The idea that you will be a Leonardo DiCaprio and dating 20 or 30 something year old beautiful women without them getting something out of it whether it be finances or clout or access to a lifestyle, is insane. So you Bros on the Coli are not old enough or have delusions of grander to think differently.
in my mid 30s the guys that I know that are slaying the most p*ssy live a certain lifestyle. They are either rich or they are big steppers. you really think they’re not letting women get a taste of their money or perks?
even the baddie in your city who is letting a Dboy hit, is getting tricked on by that nikka. And you’d be surprised at how small the number it is to actually trick on a bytch. Some these hoes think getting 10k out of a nikka in a year is securing the bag but transactional dating doesn’t have to be this evil thing. For most of human history people got married due to transactional reason. Women needed a man to survive in the world. men needed a healthy young woman to bear children so that their bloodlines can survive and so they can have children to inherit the occupation.
In 2024 these don’t really exist anymore. so that’s a huge reason why marriage and long-term relationship aren’t as prevalent.
But I would tell any man as I’m having trouble with this now is don’t settle down unless you are getting very transactional items out of your relationship.
Yall may chafe at the idea of selling a woman on your finances but some of the most dedicated and hard-working wives are women who married a man because he can take care of them . These are the true high value women in my opinion as they understand the part that they are playing and they are grateful for the opportunity .
for all the talk of coli pimping, I’m shocked that y’all are on OPs head for giving that chick some dough. if y’all are really in the streets hoeing around, then y’all would be meeting women who may be single moms and over 30 but are great women nonetheless who you don’t mind helping out when you can. says a lot about some of y’all that y’all can’t conceptualize this.
But this also should apply for men as well. As an older man now I understand why a lot of men get married to trophy wives/sluts
. When you are a very self-sufficient, well to do man all you might need is a bytch for is to suck you off like a pro every night.
I also understand why some men only go after women who are financially secure or rich. One of my best friends who stays chasing after rich girls and it paid off for him as his soon to be fiancé is loaded. She’s a cute girl too but shes tall so she probably was happy to meet a guy who wasnt intimidated by it (my guy is tall too).
Like I said it’s all about transactions.
And also understand that if you don’t plan on having children or getting married getting in long-term relationship is kind of pointless.
A true ‘man of means’ knows that there’s people with way more, so we do not speak like this.
