how young are we talking?
22 year old "Bottle Service" girl.
how young are we talking?
Htine hoes got another oneMy young party girl just asked me to put an apartment in my name.
I think I might be done with these struggle girls.
The problem with the professional bytches is they feel like they need to compete and they're all uppity as shyt. Only thing uppity about me is where I stay.A damn dentist and entertaining trollops. Ungodly.
Htine hoes got another one
And thieves...You still hanging around beggars, breh?!?!!
what happened? We need to filter these dames out for you my Brother.And thieves...
what happened? We need to filter these dames out for you my Brother.
The bolded is literally how my ex and I just got into it two months ago.Pretty sure this has been talked about before in here but I thought I'd share a recent experience.
For those of you who know me, you know I've been a dentist for nearly 15 years. I don't have student loans or other ridiculous debt because of the GI Bill and Hazelwood Act. Outside of tax season, I don't owe Uncle Sam shyt.
Y'all also know that I'm divorce for a little over a year now. I've decided to step back out in the dating world. I've met all types of women. Young vibrant girls, who just want to have fun and be treated nicely to upscale professional women, shi want to treat me nicely.
The one thing I noticed in all of this dating is it doesn't matter if they're young or old, if they don't know how to take care of money or never had it, they don't understand it.
Here's an example:
One of the women I mess with is nearly 40 like me. We're on the phone yesterday discussing our date for Sunday night. We were going to go to an upscale restaurant but with all of this family shyt going on (Uncle had a stroke and found out he's HIV + ) I told her I didn't want to dress up and sit in a restaurant. I wanted to do something fun. So we're going to this adult miniature golf joint on the west side of town.
We were talking about what we're going to were and I jokingly brought up buying a $350 shirt from Gallery Dept. Then I said something like "I'm just playing. I ain't rich enough to do that". When I said that, her entire tone changed. It was almost like she's was disgusted because I wouldn't buy the shirt. This is how it came off:
You ain't got the money to buy a $350 shirt
I do have the money to buy a $350 shyt. I just think it's ridiculous.
A little background on her. She's my age. Two kids. Will buy every pair of Jordans that drop. Is getting ready to go to PR next week. But will complain about how she doesn't have money for food or something and how her son's father doesn't help her. I've front her a few hundred dollars for the sake of her kids a couple of times.
I know this is a long post, especially for me. But I realized in that moment that a lot of people stay broke, not because they have deadend jobs or can't get a promotion. But a lot of people make really stupid ass decisions with their money.
I say all that to say, if you're seriously dating and plan to take things to the next level with someone, doesn't matter if you're a man or women, make sure it's with someone who understands money.
Oh, you're in Houston? Those apts are ok. Did you meet this hoe at prospect, davenport or something .The problem with the professional bytches is they feel like they need to compete and they're all uppity as shyt. Only thing uppity about me is where I stay.
I stay in the Windsor on Memorial, which is an upscale high rise. I went out with this NP awhile back and we went back to my crib. bytch started acting goofy asking me why I stay here and if I have the money, I should move to this other upscale high rise.
I knew it was fukked up out here but I didn't know it was this fukked up.
I’m currently dating someone that’s financially irresponsible (buys designer weekly, has two AMG Benz, lives in a skyscraper downtown) and makes over $200k/yr but still survives paycheck to paycheck. He also had a death in his family recently and had to ask for donations/loans from his circle.
I’ve called him out on it before in an argument on some petty shyt early on into dating but now that it’s gotten more serious I have no idea how to have the conversation with him because I know he will bring up the fact that I make less. Blah.
Oh, you're in Houston? Those apts are ok. Did you meet this hoe at prospect, davenport or something .
The bolded is literally how my ex and I just got into it two months ago.
She knows I make WAY MORE than her but I had a family thing I had to handle at the end of the year last year
that set me back by thousands of dollars.
I told her that our V-Day date would be scaled back because I just spent a lot to handle some major shyt.
She cried on the phone and said that I didn't think she was important.
We officially called it quits this past Sunday but she:
Has two kids.
Is criminally irresponsible (failing the fukk out of college, getting written up at work etc.)
Major spend thrift and specifically wants a breh with money for that.
And I've reached the conclusion that a phat ass can only go so far and because we didn't financially align, it's up.
Also, you're right, if people don't respect or understand money, it really shows tbh.
That's your first problem:Met her at the Reauxpour in Memorial City. I typically go there Friday nights and hang out at the bar. I don't drink so I typically order a Dr Pepper and appetizer.
Song still holds relevancy til this day...The bolded is literally how my ex and I just got into it two months ago.
She knows I make WAY MORE than her but I had a family thing I had to handle at the end of the year last year
that set me back by thousands of dollars.
I told her that our V-Day date would be scaled back because I just spent a lot to handle some major shyt.
She cried on the phone and said that I didn't think she was important.
We officially called it quits this past Sunday but she:
Has two kids.
Is criminally irresponsible (failing the fukk out of college, getting written up at work etc.)
Major spend thrift and specifically wants a breh with money for that.
And I've reached the conclusion that a phat ass can only go so far and because we didn't financially align, it's up.
Also, you're right, if people don't respect or understand money, it really shows tbh.