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Lori Harvey Explains Why She Dates on Her 'Terms': 'I Almost Got Married Very Young'
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It came from all those housewife shows, people forget that a lot of younger black women watched and grew up on these shows. In fact I would wager that every black woman who talks about "wanting a high value man" "levelling up", "hypergamy" "black girl luxury" watches one variation of them. It's not just birds who watch them. Then later on we have black female entertainers who are in a completely different social and financial bracket/class than the average black woman promoting the same lifestyle and pushing narratives attacking the working Black Man in regards to finances.
"If he not buying you a birkin bag and paying your bills, send him back to the streets" - Saweetie
So now struggle love has evolved from it being a phrase that refers to a black woman looking after an unemployed bum (I agree with the term here) to it now being dating your financial equal who cant give you a luxury lifestyle.
Meanwhile cacs and Asians in the same financial brackets are talking about using dual incomes to buy homes and create generational wealth
You will never see cacs or other groups who do this call it "struggle love" or "settling" like Black Women do.
This lie that cacs are in traditional old school relationships is only put out there by weirdly other black people.
Meanwhile cacs are telling other cacs (who know they are in the white supremacy matrix where they get more benefits than others) to STILL pool the money together when in relationships
I think this is why Kevin Samuels and all this redpill stuff blew up in the black community the way and at the time it did. You've got younger black women being targeted and being told to hold out on rich black men and not their equals to avoid "struggle love" while often at the same time fornicating with bums. So the average black man or black man in their tax bracket sees this and grows resentment.
Aaaaah. Yea I stopped watching that shyt a long time ago.
Even still, if you live in reality and actually look around, it’s just common sense that most (Black) folks aren’t living that lifestyle. Smh
Basically in a nut shell. I literally had an ex call me recently we broke up because she was too inconsistent with the one foot in and one foot out. But she calls me randomly and basically got an attitude because I'm spending money on other women I'm dating and not her. I could tell she was tipsy but it's the sheer nerve that annoyed me. She literally wants all the perks of me without the responsibility or expectations that come with it
I’m not telling the person I’ve been coming to for years for my loc maintenance that I’m not coming back to her because this is the third time she’s overbooked people and I’m sick of getting to an appointment and having to wait for her to get started on my hair. I’ll smile and chat while I’m in the chair, and let her do my hair. I don’t want her to fukk my hair up so I’m not saying shyt to her about how irate I am.
But she won’t see me again. Im finding a new stylist. Doesn’t matter how long I’ve been going to her, what’s going on with her that’s causing her to make those scheduling mistakes, or how I much I like her as a person. Im moving on.
I’m not telling a bytch boss at a company where everyone stays for years, that im looking for another job, so she better find a replacement. I’m going to act normal until I give her my two week notice once I found that job. she didn’t see it coming because I’ve only been at the company for a year and she probably thought I was going to stay and take the abuse like everyone else on the team but now she knows.
Sometimes the best way to communicate your dissatisfaction and your standards is with action.
Now in a relationship, I’ll communicate and let them know how I feel before peacing out , obviously lol.
She fukked Diddy and his son... Sounds like hoetivities to me...
First of all you I want you to know I love you. We all we got I love you for real whether I agree or not. That being said I did that to a barber and I still regret it lol. I tipped the fukk out of him. Anyways so when you communicate to a partner, are you patient so he can grow or you ghost this nikka?
Hazel Brown
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And how is it going for you thus far?
Have you been able to pull a pawg that looks better than Lori? Or is this more likely to be your fate?
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Bondye Vodou
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Her own terms means when's she older, out of shape, got kids, p*ssy loose, couple of STDs, and doesn't have the same options, that's when she's ready to settle down
HarlemHottie
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Silly girl. They don't make them like Steve Harvey no more, her mother is giving her outdated advice.
I won’t argue. Not my style also not my business .. if true.
This is all well and fine as long as she doesn't complain later on about the men that she wants not wanting her due to her being old and such. Then again, the name of the game with some women is to find a simple simp rather than an actual partner. And then we wonder why some people give rise to fukked up kids.
Basically in a nut shell. I literally had an ex call me recently we broke up because she was too inconsistent with the one foot in and one foot out. But she calls me randomly and basically got an attitude because I'm spending money on other women I'm dating and not her. I could tell she was tipsy but it's the sheer nerve that annoyed me. She literally wants all the perks of me without the responsibility or expectations that come with it
I get it...I had 4 exes still calling and I been in a relationship a few years now, 1 stopped in the spring, I blocked another who still tries to call from other numbers , the other 2 try every 2 or 3 months. And they say men keep trying/waiting for years. Women do the same thing.
Yeah she's the call from different number type. I could change my number but That's even more of a headache since I do business on the number too. But she essentially told me she wants me to be apart of her life but she don't want me to be with anyone else. That's cool but we'll just be FWB but the level of perks you get aren't the same as my actual girlfriend which makes her mad. She also messed up since I met her family and they love me. So anybody she brings after they immediately compare and they don't measure up
Yeah she's the call from different number type. I could change my number but That's even more of a headache since I do business on the number too. But she essentially told me she wants me to be apart of her life but she don't want me to be with anyone else. That's cool but we'll just be FWB but the level of perks you get aren't the same as my actual girlfriend which makes her mad. She also messed up since I met her family and they love me. So anybody she brings after they immediately compare and they don't measure up
I've been hearing alot about these dumb requests for a few years now(been a victim myself), and how alot of men are being tricked into fake relationships by women who want a committed penis without committing themselves.