"lower your standards" is not good advice to the the non-eating brehs

[It is a mystery]

Most people in general know or have an idea from observing others as to what they should get looks-wise. Believing struggling brehs are only approaching dimes is something someone who is either naive or daft would think. Actual dimes are even noted to cause nervousness in average, eating brehs. People think because they see thirsty comments by guys on IG thot pages that this is reality but it isn't; people are bolder behind a screen and will shoot their shot at anything. In real life, this is not the case.

When it comes to "lowering your standards" it's generally meant for something beyond feasible. "lower your standards" is often codewords for pressuring guys to going for overweight women. I could see telling struggling brehs to chill on other harder-to-fill requirements (such as needing to do some niche hobby) but don't let people pressure you into playing yourself.

Here's better advice: If you aren't eating and you believe your standards are regular, it's probably something else; my guess would be tilt. Don't hold onto negative experiences or situations where you OR women did something stupid/wrong and assume it's going to happen again with future women you talk to. Your lens will shape your outcome. If you always clean slate, things will work themselves out.

Agree/Disagree?

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Here's better advice: when it comes to women, don't tilt. Don't hold onto negative experiences or situations where you OR women did something stupid/wrong and assume it's going to happen again with future women you talk to. Your lens will shape your outcome. If you always clean slate, things will work themselves out.

This is sound advice. But the thing is, a lot of these dudes are straight up entitled and no better than the females they rail against. And don't want to compromise at all. Even the bolded is a compromise to these dudes believe it or not. You'll find out when more posts roll in.

So many dudes here are absolutely sure you gotta be tall...you gotta be this....you gotta have that. They are looking for cheat codes. And are scared of rejection due to the entitlement.

 

[HellRell804]

Its either lower your standards or step your game up, and a lot of dudes act like they're allergic to self improvement. Some even get defensive when the topic is mentioned.

But I guess you can hold out for that one in a million girl who's everything you dreamed of and will accept you as you are.

 

[DrHackenbush]

Too many dudes think getting a woman will solve all their problems when it reality it's just gonna create more..If you worry about getting yourself together and make sure everything is tight then the women will start coming automatically

 

[lowkey0z]

Its either lower your standards or step your game up

/thread

 

[Treblemaka]

Sound Advice so far...

This could be one of those rare threads about getting women that is realistic and productive.

 

[Dorian Breh]

Sound Advice so far...

This could be one of those rare threads about getting women that is realistic and productive.

Give it a few more pages

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Most people in general know or have an idea from observing others as to what they should get looks-wise. Believing struggling brehs are only approaching dimes is something someone who is either naive or daft would think. Actual dimes are even noted to cause nervousness in average, eating brehs. People think because they see thirsty comments by guys on IG thot pages that this is reality but it isn't; people are bolder behind a screen and will shoot their shot at anything. In real life, this is not the case.

When it comes to "lowering your standards" it's generally meant for something beyond feasible. "lower your standards" is often codewords for pressuring guys to going for overweight women. I could see telling struggling brehs to chill on other harder-to-fill requirements (such as needing to do some niche hobby) but don't let people pressure you into playing yourself.

Here's better advice: If you aren't eating and you believe your standards are regular, it's probably something else; my guess would be tilt. Don't hold onto negative experiences or situations where you OR women did something stupid/wrong and assume it's going to happen again with future women you talk to. Your lens will shape your outcome. If you always clean slate, things will work themselves out.

Agree/Disagree?

Just depends breh short dudes gotta be on point fat guys too. Tall brehs just gotta know who they are. I know for myself I have to get in shape or change my surrounding. Its hard for a guy not getting female attention to go by word of mouth he has to transform himself and see the ups and downs

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

I don't know one nikka who has too high standards in women

Even the brothas with multiple degrees and in shape still date women on their level or a little lower They not going after IG models or whatever the running joke is on here.

But yeah, the best advice if you are struggling in dating is improve yourself. It's like the finance game. If you are struggling to pay ya bills or live the life you want, you can only save so much. You need to focus on increasing your income instead.

 

[StickStickly]

Maybe you don't have to forget about the 8s or 9s you want. The point is to also see attractiveness in other women and give them a chance.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Maybe you don't have to forget about the 8s or 9s you want. The point is to also see attractiveness in other women and give them a chance.

Ive been getting a lot of shyt lately because people think its a good idea trying to set me up with their single friends but im never attracted to them some of them I wouldnt mind being friends with them but actually dating them

 

[Reginald Noble]

I think in this age of self improvement, information via Internet and awareness of the importance of game, I give most brehs the benefit of the doubt.

The reality is social media has rapidly increased the difficulty for young Men being able to acquire punani with reasonable efforts. Now you practically half to spend double the game time for 1/2 as many results.

The average nikka putting in 5-10 hours weekly average trying to acquire p*ssy. The market cannot sustain this. This is why American productivity has flat lined and consumerism is softer than the 5-10 year outlooks. Males are spending money on maintenance and upkeep of themselves to attract Women, but not as much money on Women themselves compared to historic benchmarks because the female's standards for what these Men need to bring to the table are ridiculously unreasonable.

So because of these dynamics Spring/Summer industries, ( a time for singles to find mates) are seeing an uptick while holiday shopping remains a little lethargic because most of these Women are single "by choice " AKA waiting for Leonardo Omarion Chestnut . Compared to the 90s gifting among non family members is down. If you notice advertising specifically targeting DATING couples is all but non existent. Chicken vs. EGG argument but I feel a lot of this is due to American female's unrealistic standards in the dating market along with changing culture and traditions.

The trend of American Women preferring a certain type of Negroid and opting to SHARE a top 10% one and become a side piece instead of being REAL with herself and what kind of Man she can REASONABLY expect to QUALIFY for, has REAL effects and impact upon socioeconomics at a societial and aggregate level.

 

[Turk]

In tryna step my game up and level up. Once I inprove nyself my circle of women will improve as well

 

[HellRell804]

I think in this age of self improvement, information via Internet and awareness of the importance of game, I give most brehs the benefit of the doubt.

The reality is social media has rapidly increased the difficulty for young Men being able to acquire punani with reasonable efforts. Now you practically half to spend double the game time for 1/2 as many results.

The average nikka putting in 5-10 hours weekly average trying to acquire p*ssy. The market cannot sustain this. This is why American productivity has flat lined and consumerism is softer than the 5-10 year outlooks. Males are spending money on maintenance and upkeep of themselves to attract Women, but not as much money on Women themselves compared to historic benchmarks because the female's standards for what these Men need to bring to the table are ridiculously unreasonable.

So because of these dynamics Spring/Summer industries, ( a time for singles to find mates) are seeing an uptick while holiday shopping remains a little lethargic because most of these Women are single "by choice " AKA waiting for Leonardo Omarion Chestnut . Compared to the 90s gifting among non family members is down. If you notice advertising specifically targeting DATING couples is all but non existent. Chicken vs. EGG argument but I feel a lot of this is due to American female's unrealistic standards in the dating market along with changing culture and traditions.

The trend of American Women preferring a certain type of Negroid and opting to SHARE a top 10% one and become a side piece instead of being REAL with herself and what kind of Man she can REASONABLY expect to QUALIFY for, has REAL effects and impact upon socioeconomics at a societial and aggregate level.

Idk breh, if you're truly at her level or especially above all the simp attention doesn't matter, and If you have to put in all that extra effort and she's playing games with you, you're not at the level you think you are. At best you're a 3rd stringer, getting "the honor" of taking her out when the starter and backup are busy.

Take it from a nikka who knows, ain't nothing like fukking a girl fresh off 250+ likes and all you had to do is free up a lil time. Then they start showing you all the thirst buckets, creeps, and weirdos in her comments and inbox. Its like a drug lol have you feeling like

 

[MikelArteta]

Key is to live your life women are everywhere I've never chased, begged, pleaded, and I've canoodled and cavorted with an array of women


If you struggle meh Its just not your time yet or count your blessings.


Better to be single than to be with a chick stressing y