Lowkey growing up I resented my Dad at times

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I mean most of the time he was a pretty cool guy, but other times he could be the world's biggest a$$hole. Growing up it seemed like I could never do anything right in his eyes. Not once in my life then he ever tell me that he was proud of me, and he would also compare me to my older brother and say things such as " it's good you got a 3.0 on your report card but your brother got a 4.0 why can't you do that, I know you can but your just lazy and don't apply yourself.

There were also times where he would embarrass me in front of my friends and classmates.For example one time during my freshman year of high school, he was picking me up from football practice, I was talking to this girl and he yelled out from his car "boy get your ass in this damn car don't no body got time to wait on you". When I got in the car I asked him why he had to embarrass me and he replied " you embarrass yourself."

Speaking of Football there were times where I almost quit playing because of my Dad pushing me so hard. I remember he would wake me up at 6 in the morning on some weekends and we would go to the park and he would say things to me while me were practicing such as " Stop being a p*ssy and hit harder them little white girls on the cheerleading squad hit harder then you" or if you dont stop playing like a fakkit your going to do laps until you drop. I swear to God there were times when my Dad and I almost Boxed. He played football in college and even was a on The Kansas City Chiefs practice squad during the 1988-1989 NFL Season so I feel like he was trying to live his life through me.

I played Football in college but the school I went to was not good enough in his eyes because it was a D2 school and not Division 1. I me didn't say that to me out loud but but could always tell he didn't like the fact I played D2 Football and not D1. Another thing my Grandpa as the same way to my Dad and his brothers growing up so I knew why he was the way he was but that didn't make it right. But at the same time he taught me how to stand up for myself and not take shyt from anyone.
 

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My father was/is the most supportive person in my life.

When I see how a majority of my family members either don't have a father or their father was a piece of shyt I literally have nothing to complain about.

Your father was hard on you because he wanted more for you than what he had growing up. I don't even know him and I can guarantee you that.

Call that man right now and tell him you love him because you don't know when he'll be gone.
 
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datnigDASTARDLY

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Your daddy isn't necessarily your best friend , his job is to push you in a positive direction. Sometimes that meshes well with your young self, and other times it doesn't.

The point is, is that hes actually there to do it.

My pops is the best example of a father I know, yet we didn't agree or see eye to eye until I was an adult.

That's just how it is sometimes breh :yeshrug:
 
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