Make a man wait 6 months brehettes

[iBrowse]

If a man only wants sex and to bounce, he's going to only want sex and to bounce. Doesn't matter if you make him wait six months or six hours.
I understand the rationale but it's a short sighted and lazy way of gauging whether or not a man seriously views you as a mate.
What's more, a lot of men who may have been genuine will be immediately turned off by arbitrary waiting periods and move on, especially if they have options.



Sex should happen spontaneously and naturally.
It's insincere to put a time line on it.
It's perfectly normal to get to know someone personally before having sex.
Two different things that a lot of women conflate.

Another sound post

 

[thirdeye]

Although I self-identify as an asexual, I wouldn't do this. If you're waiting till y'all are comfortable with each other cool but these time limit things...... creates side chicks and side dikks and whatnot.

 

[agnosticlady]

always the #1 indicator

I think that is true, because as we become adults we CHOOSE who we want to hang around. We choose who we want to spend our free time with.Birds of the same feather flock together. Even if she denies that she is not like the friends she choose to claim she is lying. An uncle once told me that if you hang around a barber shop long enough eventually you will go inside. So eventually she will become like them.

 

[Action Mike]

I've fukked guys I met same day.....some guys I've had wait and chase for years. ...all depends imo, everybody is diff....

You have no idea how insane this sounds to a breh that actucally likes you. Completely crazy, and I would never get it.

But hey.

 

[Soundbwoy]

yeah but not all moments lead to sex...probably
it just seems kinda ridiculous to see a person, like them, talk to them romantically as a person when you're really looking at them like a countdown for sex, especially in this case when he dipped after he got it, like there weren't other women who are willing to not wait 6 month
lots of people have been fukkin since middle school, everyone doesn't need to be a conquest
it's like people are more willing to have people all up in their genitals than all up in their hearts
what is the rush?

it's not about rushing it's about waiting 6 months no matter what,

 

[iBrowse]

All about reputation.

Expound plz.

 

[wet landscapes]

Although I self-identify as an asexual, I wouldn't do this. If you're waiting till y'all are comfortable with each other cool but these time limit things...... creates side chicks and side dikks and whatnot.

what if she just didn't want to have sex with anyone?
like, just celibate
why does sex have to happen?

 

[QuavoFlow]

I think that is true, because as we become adults we CHOOSE who we want to hang around. We choose who we want to spend our free time with.Birds of the same feather flock together. Even if she denies that she is not like the friends she choose to claim she is lying. An uncle once told me that if you hang around a barber shop long enough eventually you will go inside. So eventually she will become like them.

couldnt have said it any better. your circle of friends tells a lot more about you than you think

 

[thirdeye]

what if she just didn't want to have sex with anyone?
like, just celibate
why does sex have to happen?

that's the problem i run into, lol. "why don't you have sex" "i don't feel like it" "strange "
maybe i just dont feel like fukking, what's the issue?

 

[Elle Driver]

Expound plz.

If a woman puts out too early then she's seen as easy.

 

[wet landscapes]

it's not about rushing it's about waiting 6 months no matter what,

I didn't see anything about her having a specific time limit
maybe he had some drama or something or maybe she was tying up loose ends and didn't wanna have sex until she felt comfortable and it took 6 months for that to happen

I get that people wanna fukk, but why did she specifically have to fukk him and why in a short time period
if either other them wanted to get off, both coulda just masturbated or fukked with someone they fukked before or could have just done nothing, you don't die if you don't get off

why was this guy waiting around for 6 months for vagina from this specific person?

that's the problem i run into, lol. "why don't you have sex" "i don't feel like it" "strange "
maybe i just dont feel like fukking, what's the issue?

right
or maybe you wanna get to know the person better before you fukk them

 

[Action Mike]

what if she just didn't want to have sex with anyone?
like, just celibate
why does sex have to happen?

She can be celibate as long as she likes. It's her life. It's imposing her views on a man she likes is where the problem lies.

Men like sex. 90% of the God given time everyday. For relationships to work you have to understand the type of creature your talking to.

Overtly telling me, "let's wait x amount of time" is putting value on that vagina above her as a person, and he acted accordingly...

 

[thirdeye]

She can be celibate as long as she likes. It's her life. It's imposing her views on a man she likes is where the problem lies.

how is she imposing her views? he could just leave lol

 

[Soundbwoy]

what if she just didn't want to have sex with anyone?
like, just celibate
why does sex have to happen?

if she makes it clear to the guy and he accept that

 

[Action Mike]

that's the problem i run into, lol. "why don't you have sex" "i don't feel like it" "strange "
maybe i just dont feel like fukking, what's the issue?

No issue, It's your life to live. Just don't expect him to stay of it is one.