Make a man wait 6 months brehettes

[wet landscapes]

No, im saying if im special to her, why are the gates locked for me when less special guys got it? The p*ssy has no value, breh, cause a man who turns her on physically alone gets it before the man who turns her on intellectually, socially, etc. Im not saying give it to me, im saying that if others are hitting without commitment, do you have something better to offer?

Withhold your p*ssy from the guy who wants your everything, but give your p*ssy to the guy who wants one thing. Lack of consistency is unattractive. If im putting in the time, why didnt they?

a woman is a woman
her being in a relationship with you doesn't change that she's a woman and applies the expectations for women to herself
if she thinks having sex too early is bad, wouldn't she consider the short time it took with a guy from her past as a mistake?
would you want a woman you felt something for to do something that makes her feel less like a respectable woman because you're comparing yourself with dudes from her past? If you do, I wouldn't think that you liked her as much as you thought you did, and you reached a good place to tell her that it's not going to work and move on to finding a girl who's beliefs match yours

if a girl you were vibing with for a minute wanted to stick like three fingers up your booty (cuz that's her fetish), would you let her, no questions asked?
or would you be hesitant to do what could possibly hurt your respect for yourself in the future?

 

[1/2 Man 1/2 Hennessy]

I dont understand the dating world...

How long are you REALLY supposed to make a man wait? 6 months seems like overkill....

Sounds like purgatory. Either damn me or let me in them pearly gates

 

[Elle Driver]

Precisely.... so if I'm just looking to smash, what's the point of me waiting for some p*ssy. On the flip, if she's making me wait, she obviously wants something more than just sex and what kind of man would I be if I deceptively played along just to hit and split.......

If a chick brings up that she wants to wait, as a man, you need to ask what are her real intentions, and if its more than what you want to deal with, send her back out there into the world...

See, nikkas wanna game bytches and be justified in doing so, until the game gets played on them.........

I understand your point, it's just a matter of personal opinion and I've never really seen the importance of waiting. If we click, we click, and I've never wasted time with someone I don't actually care for.

 

[knickscrusaderm]

Then you tell her that, and not just end all communication. He clearly only wanted sex from her.

We don't know if he ended all communication. He could have told her after sex or the next day "I didn't like that you did (or didn't do) x,y, and z. Z is a definite deal breaker so we should just end things." She afterwards could have went onto twitter and claimed he ended communication with her abruptly. We don't know the truth only her side.

I'm just going off the responses in the thread they're saluting him for lying to her and playing her because they think she shouldn't have a say in when she sleeps with someone.

Okay that's fair and I see your point. I need to get husbanded so I don't have to deal with shyt like this .

 

[Gold]

I'm just going off the responses in the thread they're saluting him for lying to her and playing her because they think she shouldn't have a say in when she sleeps with someone.

There's just not enough to really judge who was in the right or wrong here.

We don't even know if they were exclusive or not

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Sounds like purgatory. Either damn me or let me in them pearly gates

You a fool!

So after you smash a chick, do you feel compelled to stop talking to her? Does it make it easier to vibe with her if you got sex out of the way...?

 

[Action Mike]

a woman is a woman
her being in a relationship with you doesn't change that she's a woman and applies the expectations for women to herself
if she thinks having sex too early is bad, wouldn't she consider the short time it took with a guy from her past as a mistake?
would you want a woman you felt something for to do something that makes her feel less like a respectable woman because you're comparing yourself with dudes from her past? If you do, I wouldn't think that you liked her as much as you thought you did, and you reached a good place to tell her that it's not going to work and move on to finding a girl who's beliefs match yours

if a girl you were vibing with for a minute wanted to stick like three fingers up your booty (cuz that's her fetish), would you let her, no questions asked?
or would you be hesitant to do what could possibly hurt your respect for yourself in the future?

Your putting women on a way too high moral ground and using yourself as a point of reference. As if these 'mistakes' are not consistent. We are all human and have needs, thats cool.

But lets not pretend women dont go on dates, and come back to Action Mikes crib telling me how the dude was corny for the second time.

 

[TwistedMetal]

still waiting on @Juicy to give me that googly moogly

But I'm a patient breh

 

[Dwolf]

No, im saying if im special to her, why are the gates locked for me when less special guys got it? The p*ssy has no value, breh, cause a man who turns her on physically alone gets it before the man who turns her on intellectually, socially, etc. Im not saying give it to me, im saying that if others are hitting without commitment, do you have something better to offer?

Withhold your p*ssy from the guy who wants your everything, but give your p*ssy to the guy who wants one thing. Lack of consistency is unattractive. If im putting in the time, why didnt they?

Yes it does. People that think it like this usually end up with kids by women they hate

 

[Gold]

I understand your point, it's just a matter of personal opinion and I've never really seen the importance of waiting. If we click, we click, and I've never wasted time with someone I don't actually care for.

Its the people who are still living in fantasy world and putting everything on pedestals for no reason and have an inflated view of their own morality.

I'm not saying you should let him hit day 1, but having some arbitrary amount of time that is based on nothing that has anything to do with the man in question is asinine.

This is why I don't mess with childish girls... you gotta peep where they mind is at from the jump and move on when you see that you aren't compatible. 6 months is a waste of everyone's time.

 

[Remote]

I actually meant to post this video instead:



When you meet a woman and everything is perfect and she won't do anything, it's a trap. Sometimes it backfires because a lot of women play these games with sex. And ladies like sex just as much as we do, guys. But they act like they don't.....See you know where it backfires, ladies? When you go and meet a guy and he wants you....you want him.... and you like each other and everything is perfect but you won't do anything.

He says "baby let's go".
You say "no, I'm not gonna do it"

And after that...he don't like you no more. But he still wants to fukk you.
So he waits....like "Okay, I'll wait. Goodnight".
And you wait. You wait 3 months. Then you finally get it.

And she's like "I'm yours!"
And you go "Fucc you, bytch!"

 

[Gold]

Yes it does. People that think it like this usually end up with kids by women they hate

Not sure you read the entire post you quoted

 

[The Mad Titan]

The problem overall is putting a time limit on something like sex. If your dating at some point sex should have come up in the conversation, and if it hasn't the its something that needs to be brought up...If the man or woman is like "we have to wait x amount of days before sex" thats red flag number one. A big one at that, its not normal to have some kind of lock and key on when you can have sex, either wait to marriage or you tell the other person your waiting until your comfortable or in a serious relationship.



Your setting yourself up for failure putting dates on something like sex, you make yourself look through'd or traumatized or you set yourself up to be disappointed when the day comes along and the chick or dude is laying in your bed butt naked at 11:59. Never to be seen again the next day.

 

[At30wecashout]

Because she felt like it. And thats all that matters.

Thats fine. But if she thinks i am going to respect her more because she held out on me, false. A woman who sets a standard and NEVER breaks it is a woman of appreciable character.

He is a nice dude and she was feeling him, but she turns down his advances.
Next guy is a baller, spends freely, and happens to have a tender heart. She likes him, but nah, she isnt about his lifestyle so she doesnt indulge.

That woman i know from jump that she has a standard that she does not bend on. She is unwavering and if we arent compatible, she isnt going to give herself freely. I know this, and know what to expect and what to respect when it comes to her values. If she starts making exceptions, suddenly her values have conditions, which kinda defeats the purpose.

 

[Gold]

You a fool!

So after you smash a chick, do you feel compelled to stop talking to her? Does it make it easier to vibe with her if you got sex out of the way...?

You need to specify if you are just kicking it with someone or you are looking for a serious relationship.

Chicks feel like we stop talking to them but the truth is we never really talked much prior... we just stalked about sex.

Girls out here acting like they were having late night conversations of politics and religion by candlelight before giving it up


Some of you need to be honest with yourselves