Make a man wait 6 months brehettes

[Turbulent]

that post nut clarity must have hit him like after those six months. dude must have felt like "god dayum, i waited 6 months for this???? i gotta make a change. i'm not living right..."

the more i think about it, i don't think dude was fukking anyone else.

 

[LordOfTheManor]

Although I self-identify as an asexual, I wouldn't do this. If you're waiting till y'all are comfortable with each other cool but these time limit things...... creates side chicks and side dikks and whatnot.

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[At30wecashout]

Pretty much.

If a girl tells me no sex till marriage I have much more respect for her then some girl who is like... "ummm 5 months"

And it means she doesnt wanna get tangled up. Im sure every woman has the story of the guy who hit who she caught feelings for after the fact. Protecting the is a great idea, but if her reason for not engaging is anything more than "it needs to be right" then its bushworthy right then.


This is coming from me, a guy who hit his first lick after knowing a chick for 8 months. No, we didnt date, no, she didnt make we wait, but we knew and trusted each other and went with the flow. I didnt need a cheatcode of pretending not to be boyfriend material so she would let me hit. If thats the key, thats exactly why dudes complain about "a$$holes."

 

[Dwolf]

For the woman who gave it up to everyone but then holds it from me? No, it has no value. Chicks who are promiscuous get cuffed and wifed everyday because they have better things to offer.

If her great "test" to see of im worthy is whether or not I want sex, then she will be sorely disappointed.

I was speaking in general.

 

[Action Mike]

Thats fine. But if she thinks i am going to respect her more because she held out on me, false. A woman who sets a standard and NEVER breaks it is a woman of appreciable character.

He is a nice dude and she was feeling him, but she turns down his advances.
Next guy is a baller, spends freely, and happens to have a tender heart. She likes him, but nah, she isnt about his lifestyle so she doesnt indulge.

That woman i know from jump that she has a standard that she does not bend on. She is unwavering and if we arent compatible, she isnt going to give herself freely. I know this, and know what to expect and what to respect when it comes to her values. If she starts making exceptions, suddenly her values have conditions, which kinda defeats the purpose.

Breh, the condition of that value is i felt like it. Tops everything.

 

[Soundbwoy]

but why would that even matter if you already have your own rule that supersedes that?
Yes, I totally agree that having a time stamp on your vagina is pretty stupid and worthless but please stop frontin like a lady who let it happen naturally and it coincidentally being 6 months wouldn't get the same results from some of you.

tbh if I stuck it out for 6 months with you if the sex is good I'm not going anywhere

 

[wet landscapes]

Is that another way of saying "born again" virgin

nah I just wanted to specify that there are like beliefs, consequences and certain degrees of shame that go along with sex, there is a risk involved
she's never had sex and I feel like her lack of trust is making her miss out on some of the best years of her life

Okay i see, and such men get no respect from me. Is she meeting these brehs in church? Are they virgins themselves?

Her dating a man that has had sex before is just gonna give her heartache 99% of the time, but lets say its:

Dating for 2.5 years

Engaged 1.5 years.

Thats 4 years of a man used to options/intimacy having none. It won't work. Virgins date Virgins.

a man her age that's a virgin that's sexually attractive is pretty much non existent
he doesn't have to be a virgin tho
he just has to not pretend to understand her situation or even be a part of it at all if he's not into it
which is what I'm saying
if someone is putting limits on something you don't think that limits should be on, you guys are not compatible
it's not that they're wrong or denying you something that you deserve
they are not for you
you can stop trying to have sex with them
it was a misfire, redirect your focus

Its not about past. There are chicks who date one guy but fukk others. Sure if she sees potential she may stop juggling, but the dudes getting the draws may just accidentally become a boyfriend anyway. We arent talking about once or twice in the past , we talking about a chick who at some point said "this isnt working, maybe i shouldnt have sex so soon."

Thats cool, but why arent the guys sticking around? This falls under the "choose better" banner. No, she is not obligated to give anything up to me, but i would have to wonder why the benchmark for sex isnt "when she feels we are good together" and not a set amount of time. We can be yin and yang in 2 months or six, and you best believe a woman witholding sex is holding back other aspects as well. What those are vary from woman to woman, but im positive that most relationships that go right are spontaneous and organic in its growth, not a checklist to "reward" me with p*ssy down the line. Is there a better reward or is that supposed to be what keeps me around?

you are saying the shyt that makes women extra cautious when it comes to sex
when dudes are obviously judging them on their chastity, they might have consider if you're worth sacrificing it for and if you didn't make the cut
it's clunky and awkward but since people care about their numbers, they set up goalposts

 

[At30wecashout]

There should be a better vetting system than a 3-6 month wait. Try being their friend first and getting to know them maybe. You know, actually see if there's chemistry between y'all and you actually enjoy this person's company. Because when all's said and done, you could've waited 6 months, made him "chase", and you find out you don't even like the dude and there is no chemistry.

My husband and I were pretty cool before we even thought of dating, we had mutual friends, and we hung out together a lot. We realized we had really good chemistry, we always tended to gravitate towards each other in convo in our group of friends, and I wanted to be around him a lot because he always kept me laughing and smiling. My best friend kept commenting that would we be great together. Some time passed by of hanging out, but by the time we started dating I didn't wait no damn 90 days or 6 months. I wasn't waiting for no other hoes to snatch him up. But my philosophy and process was different, it happened naturally and I wasn't worried about looking like a hoe because I knew we liked each other and pretty much cemented something. That's the difference between making a guy wait, and what I did.

All of thisYou telling the truth. Whats fukked up is anytime i tried getting to know someone, i ended up firmly in a friend role. Thats not to say it dont happen, but i would prefer not having to be all touchy feely and shyt from jump rather than hearing 6 months later that im "like a brother". Dating is so fukking weird.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

They make some guy wait 6 mth
Another guy 1 year
Another guy 1 week
Another guy same night

As a man its up to you which guy u wanna be

 

[miranda]

brehettes i got a question for yall. why do women think that they can change us and our way of thinking? if we see a woman naked all over the internet she holds no real value to us.just another piece of p*ssy.we're not wired to see women getting naked or wearing revealing clothing as "respectable." they get fukked and ducked and get mad because dudes treat them like whores .9/10 dudes aint gonna wife no naked ig thot or some naked psuedo feminist

this whole " i can get naked if i want, dont slut shame me" shyt will never work. would any real man be comfortable with their wife, especially if they have children, getting naked on the internet for other dudes to lust over? no. i need your perspective

she's stupid and has no direction. if youre going to do the 90 day wait reformed hoe plan, you have to go all in. but she couldnt bear giving up the attention that comes from showing out online, so her "im a respectsble girl that waits" angle didnt line up wih the "ass tattoo, p*ssy popping insta vids" online persona. she has a booking link for gods sake.
she put a record of her behavior online and on her body, she cant even run game on most dudes at this point. but as you said there are 1 out of 10 men that will overlook it, especially because she is attractive, she just needs to learn how to identify those men, and ONLY deal with them if she is looking for a longterm relationship.

 

[audemarzz]

Nig got that puss and was like

 

[QuavoFlow]

she's stupid and has no direction. if youre going to do the 90 day wait reformed hoe plan, you have to go all in. but she couldnt bear giving up the attention that comes from showing out online, so her "im a respectsble girl that waits" angle didnt line up wih the "ass tattoo, p*ssy popping insta vids" online persona. she has a booking link for gods sake.
she put a record of her behavior online and on her body, she cant even run game on most dudes at this point. but as you said there are 1 out of 10 men that will overlook it, especially because she is attractive, she just needs to learn how to identify those men, and ONLY deal with them if she is looking for a longterm relationship.

should frame this and put it up in my sociology class

 

[Dwolf]

nah I just wanted to specify that there are like beliefs, consequences and certain degrees of shame that go along with sex, there is a risk involved
she's never had sex and I feel like her lack of trust is making her miss out on some of the best years of her life

I see. Then she needs to adopt the "if you don't like it you can get the hell on" mindset. *see @Juicy for notes on this mindset*

she's stupid and has no direction. if youre going to do the 90 day wait reformed hoe plan, you have to go all in. but she couldnt bear giving up the attention that comes from showing out online, so her "im a respectsble girl that waits" angle didnt line up wih the "ass tattoo, p*ssy popping insta vids" online persona. she has a booking link for gods sake.
she put a record of her behavior online and on her body, she cant even run game on most dudes at this point. but as you said there are 1 out of 10 men that will overlook it, especially because she is attractive, she just needs to learn how to identify those men, and ONLY deal with them if she is looking for a longterm relationship.

Wow

 

[At30wecashout]

you are saying the shyt that makes women extra cautious when it comes to sex
when dudes are obviously judging them on their chastity, they might have consider if you're worth sacrificing it for and if you didn't make the cut
it's clunky and awkward but since people care about their numbers, they set up goalposts

Ive said it before, ill say it again. It ain't about the numbers. My thing is, if im special and meant to be a potential mate, how am i to wait when it isnt necessary for others?

If she is making me run a marathon before I hit, is it because she is not feeling me or because she is afraid im going to run? Vetting people by making them wait is stupid. I could, theoretically, fukk other women in the meantime while killing time with her, then when she gives it up, go ghost. In that case, she wasted her time and energy on me, much more than if i hit and disappeared...you know...like the other dudes. If we were gonna click and stick together, her giving it to me wouldnt change that. Her witholding that from me, amongst other things, might cause me to go elsewhere anyway. I can list a hundred reasons why. Please dont make me

 

[jwonder]

He did the right thing and he was probably getting some from someone else during that 6 months

I was in the same boat one time. Met a worthy woman, but she didn't want to have sex right away. At first I ok I'm out, but she was buying me things, paying for events like football games, comedy shows, and dinner. Of course I was smashing other chicks, but you would really surprised that when a chick presents that without the financial liability how long you would stay.

This bird brain bytch probably wanted to go to the expensive restaurants and who knows what else. Dude probably got it and her p*ssy was weak. He probably pulled his hair out saying I spent x amount of dollars and the p*ssy was terrible.