Males of the Coli, Why Do You Guys Blame The Guy For Getting Cheated On?

[wickedsm]

because he didn't take the initiative and cheat first.

I'm bout to start cheating the day me and my chick make it official. always better to play with a lead

logical.

 

[Nemesis]

Yes, I do agree with that certain are only good for fun and having sex with no matter how attractive they are but at the same time the most homely quiet chick could be the biggest cheater too. dikk is literally a facebook message away for the modern girl. Looks like she was talking to many guys. If a chick is remotely decent loooking these days there will be thirst buckets trying to fukk.

obviously it goes without saying that anyone can cheat..... and I feel for anyone male or female whos been the recipient of that kind of behaviour ... a lot of times you cant see it coming

but what pisses me off about a lot of these dudes is that they see a pretty face or a banging body and ignore all the red flags...

you really have to laugh at the #HOH nonsense ...... some of the best times I ever had sexually were with hoes..... everything has its purpose, you wouldnt wear sneakers with a business suit.... so why you gonna wife a ho? ..... and then get mad when she shoes ho tendencies ..

 

[Giselle]

They all think they're players and alpha males when in reality they're all bytches.

I'm confused by your reply.

I think you were confused by my question lol.

I asked why were the guys on here blaming the guy who got cheated on for his gf cheating on him.

what coli are you reading where nobody blames the woman who gets cheated on? you definately get a variety of "well she should have expected it' 'men arent meant to be monagamous' ' its probably payback for some dude she did dirty in the past'
and the coli standard
she should have chose better

this is the coli. its equal opportunity bashing here.

I do see a lot of "Men aren't meant to be monagamous", but that doesn't blame the woman who got cheated on, it's making more excuses for men to cheat.
I have never seen any guy on here mention it being karma. Never.

From the males I always see "he's corny/lame, that's why he got cheated on, he isn't _____ or _____, His dck game is wack, real alpha males don't get cheated on". Little stupid stuff like that. I don't see that for when women get cheated on. The main thing I see for them is "men are meant to be monog" "men need variety" & that has nothing to do with it being the womans fault.

Y'll falling for the okie doke from the threadstarter

What are you talking about?

Stop it breh...most coli dudes think they top notch niccas who wont get cheated on. Any men could get cheated, any men. Now if you are wifing a chick with a history of being a thot then thats forseable but a lot of times, you dont know that shyt.

Yes! This is why it is much easier for women to cheat & get away with it than it is for males. Males like the ones on here usually are like "that won't happen to me b/c I'm an alpha male and I fck good, I do this and that". Those are probably the same ones blaming the males who got cheated on, and those are probably the same ones currently getting cheated on themselves. They don't pay attention to the signs b/c they're thinking it could never happen to them. But sometimes there are no signs.

It's always the guys fault. That's per society atm, not my personal opinion.

lol It seems like it sometimes.

Real question Op is It's Valentine's day why aren't you getting your ass licked?

Never. I wouldn't be with a guy who likes licking ass or playing with booty holes

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

I'm confused by your reply.

I think you were confused by my question lol.

I asked why were the guys on here blaming the guy who got cheated on for his gf cheating on him.

What I said is exactly why lol they think they're the type of nikkaz who smash other dudes broads and never get cheated on when in reality they're just a bunch of beta cuck fakkits like 95 % of the American male population. They've developed this dog eat dog attitude in a world where they can't survive they think just cause their voice is a bit deeper than someone else's or their jeans are a bit baggies or there a fraction of a cam taller that they are more of a man than the next dude lol. Never do they measure a mans status where it's important cause none of them have that shyt. Looks status money actual physical inclination they'd rather base it off some petty shyt like "that nikkas voice" then act like some cream of the crop dude who's girl the average man couldn't fukk when in reality he could lol. They don't want to be able to relate to a lame nikka so they pull this type of shyt cause in their minds they know they're lames themselves.

 

[Giselle]

dude stop being naive .... you see these idiots out here caping and trying to save or impregnate every single thot because she looks good and then wondering why shyt goes south......

certain women are only good for fun and fukking, dont matter how fine they are, If these idiots cant see that I have no sympathy for em

Cheaters come in all different shapes/looks and sizes. & so do "thots".

 

[DrX]

i dont blame a man for being cheated on, if he stay hes a sissy....

 

[Soundbwoy]

I just left that Valentines Day Cheating Thread. A lot of you guys were saying that it was the guys fault that he got cheated on. How? That doesn't make any sense.

If a person wants to cheat, they are going to cheat. The person they cheated on is not at fault for them having poor morals.

Also, I almost never hear you say it's the girls fault if a girl gets cheated on, but when a guy gets cheated on it's his fault?

Explain pls

because its always the guys fault, at some point she gave him some signs she wasn't shyt he chose to ignored them, same with disrespect

 

[Giselle]

because its always the guys fault, at some point she gave him some signs she wasn't shyt he chose to ignored them, same with disrespect

That is false. There are not always signs. & for there to be signs that a person is/has cheated, the person actually has to cheat first, which would still put the blame on the cheater and not the person they cheated on.

 

[b. woods]

dap + rep

 

[Soundbwoy]

That is false. There are not always signs. & for there to be signs that a person is/has cheated, the person actually has to cheat first, which would still put the blame on the cheater and not the person they cheated on.

when someone is showing you signs of disrespect and you let it slide the person will take it further

 

[JQ Legend]

What I said is exactly why lol they think they're the type of nikkaz who smash other dudes broads and never get cheated on when in reality they're just a bunch of beta cuck fakkits like 95 % of the American male population. They've developed this dog eat dog attitude in a world where they can't survive they think just cause their voice is a bit deeper than someone else's or their jeans are a bit baggies or there a fraction of a cam taller that they are more of a man than the next dude lol. Never do they measure a mans status where it's important cause none of them have that shyt. Looks status money actual physical inclination they'd rather base it off some petty shyt like "that nikkas voice" then act like some cream of the crop dude who's girl the average man couldn't fukk when in reality he could lol. They don't want to be able to relate to a lame nikka so they pull this type of shyt cause in their minds they know they're lames themselves.

Well damn

That is false. There are not always signs. & for there to be signs that a person is/has cheated, the person actually has to cheat first, which would still put the blame on the cheater and not the person they cheated on.

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[The M.I.C.]

The OP probably seeing like only six replies since she/he/it has almost all of theColi on ignore.

 

[DrexlersFade]

Never. I wouldn't be with a guy who likes licking ass or playing with booty holes

Ha Ha good answer smart woman here

 

[GoldTeef]

I don't really blame the guy for the girl cheating unless the guy was doing some fukked up shyt

 

[SunGod]

I'd say the cheater is at fault, but the other person has to accept the fact that they made a bad decision. I don't really believe this whole "sometimes there are no signs" crap.