Man, I fukked up

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You gotta find you a young chick or a woman that doesn't have superficial unnecessary ideals and standards for what a man is supposed to be.

Also get you a woman with high self esteem and was raised well or at least has her head on straight.
 

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When you looking for a connection but women see you as a hypersexual boytoy. I'm not even a player like that, I try to be a decent dude, but chicks out here try to put me in that role :yeshrug:.

Thats why I dont really go out of my way for non-black women. Not trying to be some whores taboo fantasy. These stereotypes getting old

This is exactly it.
 

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You gotta find you a young chick or a woman that doesn't have superficial unnecessary ideals and standards for what a man is supposed to be.

Also get you a woman with high self esteem and was raised well or at least has her head on straight.
I;m 32.

I don't want to deal with young women anymore. I'm not a college kid like you. I've actually always liked older women, but they were the first to put me in that role.

Eh...
I just have given up on having fufilling healthy relationships with women. It's not happening. Just one night stands and flings that lead to nothing. They never gonna see me as anything more than some player or dog. Like I';m not marriage material. I'm not that man women want to bring home to their fathers. And never will be.
:yeshrug:

I've just made peace with the fact there will never be a wifey for me. I'd rather focus on my money and my life situation right now. GFs will be unneccessary distractions and headaches I don't need in my life. I can operate without feeling a significant other defines me as a person. I dont' need someody else to define me as a human being when I do that just fine by mysel;f.

Just women that wanna put me as a side nikka role or never really put me out there as their main.

Im fine with that.

As long as I can work on myself, make money, and do what I want to do with my life I can be at peace with not being in a relationship, having an longterm GF, or getting married.

That shyt's not for everyone.

:yeshrug:

I'm not trying to be like everyone else, Im just doing me and trying to enjoy my life.
 

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Like I never got dudes who felt luike they had ALWAYS to be in a relationship. Like why do you feel you need a woman in your life to help you become a better person when you can do that by yourself? I was never in any like that...never any that lasted more than 4 months.


I don't even want a girlfriend. I want this money. It will take care of me better at the end of the day than any woman can. They ain't gonna be there for nikkas like me like that they way they do other men. It ain't happening.

:yeshrug:

It's cool. Part of life is accepting stuff. Accepting the good and accepting the bad. I just was not meant to have that life of being boyfriend material that women want to show off. Will never happen. It's cool./ I jave other interests in life to take away from the BS anyways.
 

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Also, please don't give me any dating advice. I will refuse to listen to it. I'm sick of reading dating/relationship advice. I'm too disconnected from humanity to take that seriously these days.
:yeshrug:

I've become a shallow emotionless husk.
 

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For some (probably most), it's an avenue of sovereignty/control and throwback to the breadwinner man & submissive/homemaker wife standard of 50 years ago.

I'd rather people come here, vacation, spend money, than to come over here and take/abuse our resources.

Considering the majority of marriages fail, they are being cleaned out.
 

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Not even sure what this thread is about tbh
You tired of women only wanting to fukk you?

That sounds like a female problem and im not even trying to diss

I spent a lot of time in life worrying about why i wasnt able to get what i eant from other ppl
And all that did was damage my self esteem and make me feel worthless
And had me ignoring the things that i was good at

Life is short
You cant control how other ppl react to you
So just live life doing what you love and what you have control over
 
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Do yall want to "eat" or do yall want a girl?

Not many men eat.

Why do yall think yall deserve to run through women without something to distinguish yourselves?

Because it's man's nature to wanna run through women. We only get to experience 15-20 minute intervals in which we're not horny.

The the thing that really sucks tho is when you want somebody for real companionship but can't find it, because not too many women truly value it. They want a dude who can make the giny tingle, or a dude who can make her famous.
 
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