Man is upset his gf didnt make his birthday cake the way he wanted. Is he in the wrong?

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It's simple, She asked him what he wanted but gave him what she wanted.
This. He had every right to be disappointed. He was honest with her, and even after she goofed, he's still looked as the bad guy. If the roles were reversed, the commentary would look a LOT different.
 

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The only issue I see is eating half. That was feminine. She clearly asked what he wanted prior to...:manny:, unsolicited from what I gathered. But she still would've asked how he liked it and he's giving the vibe of still unleashing the flutes even if he finished the slice...:pachaha:
 

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Disappointed over a thin vanilla layer of frosting in the middle is petty considering that she baked you a fukking cake. :hhh:

Grow up.
She asked me what I wanted and I told her. She went out her way to do wtf she wanted and I'm posed to be grateful?

If she told me, "sorry baby I ran out of icing so I used some vanilla icing..my bad" I would accept that L cause it make sense. This is a woman that will tell you can name your first born child but decide the middle name is hers. She is a snake.
 
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She asked me what I wanted and I told her. She went out her way to do wtf she wanted and I'm posed to be grateful?

If she told me, "sorry baby I ran out of icing so I used some vanilla icing..my bad" I would accept that L cause it make sense. This is a woman that will tell you can bake your first born child but decide the middle name is hers. She is a snake.
Sounds like she asks him what he wants because that’s what she’s supposed to do. She’s gone do what she wants anyways lol.

With that being said, I wouldn’t have made a big deal about it, but in private, I’d definitely let her know this isn’t what we talked about or what I asked for. I mean, I’d still be appreciative that she made me a cake, but nah babe, this ain’t what I asked for. He probably lets her get away with this often, but now he’s standing up for himself. A bit late for this now lol. Thank God I have someone who listens to me, and does what I ask. If she can’t, she lets me know ahead of time.
 

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Sounds like she asks him what he wants because that’s what she’s supposed to do. She’s gone do what she wants anyways lol.

With that being said, I wouldn’t have made a big deal about it, but in private, I’d definitely let her know this isn’t what we talked about or what I asked for. I mean, I’d still be appreciative that she made me a cake, but nah babe, this ain’t what I asked for. He probably lets her get away with this often, but now he’s standing up for himself. A bit late for this now lol. Thank God I have someone who listens to me, and does what I ask. If she can’t, she lets me know ahead of time.
Me personally I would've been lissed and would never ask her to do a damn thing again. My bday is special to me. And if you offer to do something and it's not done the way I ask for I genuinely will be very upset. This is shyt my Mama does. And we not on talking terms and it's been 4 years. Idgaf. Reasons why I'm not in relationship. Some women are sociopathic narcissists.
 

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Me personally I would've been lissed and would never ask her to do a damn thing again. My bday is special to me. And if you offer to do something and it's not done the way I ask for I genuinely will be very upset. This is shyt my Mama does. And we not on talking terms and it's been 4 years. Idgaf. Reasons why I'm not in relationship. Some women are sociopathic narcissists.
Oy
 

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Me personally I would've been lissed and would never ask her to do a damn thing again. My bday is special to me. And if you offer to do something and it's not done the way I ask for I genuinely will be very upset. This is shyt my Mama does. And we not on talking terms and it's been 4 years. Idgaf. Reasons why I'm not in relationship. Some women are sociopathic narcissists.
like when you text specifically what you want from the store and they come back with a whole different brand of ice cream and the wrong flavor. :hhh:

if they dont have what i want you got a phone, text me and ask what i want in it's place, pay ME the same courtesy I pay YOU. dont assume i'm gonna life some offbrand bullshyt
 

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Back in June my girlfriend asked what I wanted to do for my birthday I said watch the finals in peace and that's exexactly watch happen.

I get what shawty was trying to do but sometimes you have to just listen.

Who the fukk eaeats cake as an adult anyway?
So cakes are only eaten by children? :unimpressed:
 
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