Man makes $130,000 a year and lives with his parents

[Azul]

Didn't even waste brain cells to read past the first few sentences.

Dude is a lame. His parents are lame. And any chick that deals with him is a lame.

First, there's no good reason a 31 year old lives at home. Unless some catastrophic event happening, a grown person, especially a grown man, needs to be in his own place.

Second, he's super disrespectful to his parents for balling out while living on their dime. I didn't read, so maybe he contributes financially to the household. But even so, I'd be damned if my grown son is going to be living at my house while driving exotic cars or taking lavish trips. Grown men who live with their parents need to be working hard to get on their feet.

Third, this dude is a grown boy. Not a man. Men produce. Men provide. Men have their own sh#t. Men are the foundation for any relationships they enter with women. This dude exudes none of this.

The sad thing is, there's going to be dudes on here who applaud this because this is the diagram they're on or wish they were on. So many threads have been made on here applauding grown men living with mommy and daddy. And these same men complain about how the world perceives them.

Lame all the way around

Peace

Thank you.

We have discussed (many) black parents who don't seem to be supportive of their children to help stand before they walk and yes, this is an issue. However, this is not the case. As I said previously, this dude is in his 30s, MORE than capable and financially ready, but CHOOSES NOT TO because he'd rather floss n' shyt. The nikka doesn't contribute in ANYWAY. He "pitches in" for groceries that he eats up. If you're gonna be at home, at the least help out a bit.

He even said the crew is "changing" AKA GROWING THE fukk UP.

 

[EndDomination]

I work with a guy who is 40 and still loves with his parents.

The guy makes atleast 80k a year and his mom still gives him $20 everyday to buy himself somthing to eat.

He saves every check he gets though.And he also owns property.

Here in Vancouver it's a common practice for asians/indians/Persians.

Its wierd for me cause where I'm from back home in the states nikkas got kicked out soon as they turned 18.

this is the silly ass mindset that has Black children being born into fukked up dysfunctional situations every day. nikkas gotta factor p*ssy into every equation.

It's not the norm for anyone to be living with their parents while in their 40s, Asian or not.
Unless their parents are sick, shyt is not the wave.
I don't know what kind of weirdos y'all hang around, the Middle-Eastern/Asian doctors, lawyers, business owners, pharmacists, professors, etc I know all live with roommates, by themselves, or are married by their mid-30s.
And sex is a biological imperitive, people get married for a reason, the reason people move out of their parent's home is for freedom, a good chunk of that "freedom" is sex.

 

[Black White Sox Hat]

That Heyman Hustle plan

 

[richaveli83]

this is the silly ass mindset that has Black children being born into fukked up dysfunctional situations every day. nikkas gotta factor p*ssy into every equation.

I'm sorry but this shyt made me bust out laughing

 

[David_TheMan]

Nothing wrong with the man if his parents see nothing wrong.
Stack that money up, this is how a lot of families build wealth in the 3rd world and Europe.
Looking at the debt and job prospects in the US, I can see this becoming the norm.

 

[mcdivit85]

Thank you.

We have discussed (many) black parents who don't seem to be supportive of their children to help stand before they walk and yes, this is an issue. However, this is not the case. As I said previously, this dude is in his 30s, MORE than capable and financially ready, but CHOOSES NOT TO because he'd rather floss n' shyt. The nikka doesn't contribute in ANYWAY. He "pitches in" for groceries that he eats up. If you're gonna be at home, at the least help out a bit.

He even said the crew is "changing" AKA GROWING THE fukk UP.

The thing that trips me out about these kind of men, many of which post here, is that these are supposed to be men. Men don't plan to live at home with their parents as grown men. Part of being a man, is having one's own life and one's own things....separate from the parents that raised him.

In every society from time immemorial, the sign of manhood was a male being able to provide for himself and protect himself. And then being able to provide and protect a family. And if he was a great man, circle back and provide and protect his parents who raised him as they grew older. And if he was a supreme man, leave something behind so that he would be able to provide and protect his progeny even in death.

But even if you can't be a great man or supreme man, it was at least expected that one would be a man by being able to provide and protect for himself and a family. The first step to that process is leaving the nest and doing for self.

If and when I have a daughter, I would NOT want her marrying this type of guy.

If and when I have a son, I would NOT want him to be this type of guy.

This type of guy is incredibly selfish and non-productive. I don't care if he has a million dollars under his bunk bed. He's a b#tch who never went into this world and made a way....like men do.

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

What about having money stacked up so you don't gotta live in a shack or some shytty apartment or with roommates...

And everybody does it these days and it's not a problem besides with Black people...

The Indian couple next door got 5 20 year olds living in there...

The Latino dude next door got 2 different families with him...

My dad looking at me like nikka you need to be taking advantage of us while we here, THEY doing it




I rather have money in my bank account than a crappy spot

What's the point of having your own spot if you got no money to enjoy yourself?

Making 6 figures and your parents allowing you to stack and you can splurge when you want without looking in your bank account like

Every paycheck you can deposit without having to spend a dime on rent

If you want to go catch hoes or hang out in the city with your homies you can rent a sweet ass AirBnB pad or a hotel


I ain't trying to have a family or a GF or whatever...if I could stack up 100K...and have it in my 20s...one in a lifetime opportunity


I'll take that and buy a wavy spot in Vietnam or Ghana and live out my life

Why is the rationale for this argument "living in a crappy spot"? Not every person who actually acts like an adult and moves out of their childhood bedroom lives in a "crappy spot." Some people actually live well outside of the help of mommy and daddy.

In fact, that's the progression of being an adult. Being able to move up and on without help from your parents. If you need your parents to live well, then you're still a child.

Dudes doing Air BnB just to have sex

Peace

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

My best friend makes 6 figures and stays at home. He broke it down to me like this, he works from 7am till 6pm 5 days a week and goes to the gym after work so he is only home to eat dinner and sleep. The chicks he smashes are jumpoffs that have their own spot so he just goes there when he wants some ass, and if he did buy his own home they wouldnt do shyt but try and move in with him so he is eliminating that option. He doesnt see why he should get a mortgage just to have a bed. He would only get his own place if he met a chick and they got serious enough to warrant it.

I cant argue with him. He has enough dough stacked to buy a house cash damn near anywhere he wants so i cant knock the hustle.

Is your friend splurging?

that's the problem I think most people have with homeboy in the article... its not that he lives home its not that he makes 100k .. its the fact that what he's doing with his money is seen as wasteful..
He can splurge if he wants but do it living in his own apartment.. if he staying home to save.. then he better save... its seen as using the parents so you can have fun...

 

[skeetsinternal]

he probably is on child support and only actually makes $20k

 

[The_Sheff]

Is your friend splurging?

that's the problem I think most people have with homeboy in the article... its not that he lives home its not that he makes 100k .. its the fact that what he's doing with his money is seen as wasteful..
He can splurge if he wants but do it living in his own apartment.. if he staying home to save.. then he better save... its seen as using the parents so you can have fun...

The thing about it is that if you eliminate a mortgage/rent, utilities, and cable/internet from your expenses you gonna save what, about $1600 a month right there. If i went out and spent $1600 a month on whatever the hell i wanted to then it would look like splurging but in reality you just spending it on yourself instead of a bed.

I dont understand the need to spent that much money on a bed unnecessarily. Many people here make it seem like you should do it just to prove to others that you are responsible.

 

[the cac mamba]

Nothing wrong with the man if his parents see nothing wrong.
Stack that money up, this is how a lot of families build wealth in the 3rd world and Europe.
Looking at the debt and job prospects in the US, I can see this becoming the norm.

he only has 80k and no intentions of buying property

the article wasnt 'im doing this to invest and prosper', its 'im doing this to live like an a$$hole'. which is cool its his life. this article isnt some commendable shyt tho

 

[Logic Reigns Supreme]

You not stacking you slacking. Period. Dumb bytch

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

The thing about it is that if you eliminate a mortgage/rent, utilities, and cable/internet from your expenses you gonna save what, about $1600 a month right there. If i went out and spent $1600 a month on whatever the hell i wanted to then it would look like splurging but in reality you just spending it on yourself instead of a bed.

I dont understand the need to spent that much money on a bed unnecessarily. Many people here make it seem like you should do it just to prove to others that you are responsible.

but in a sense you are not spending it on yourself.. a 300 bottle of wine is consumed.. there's no looking at it. admiring it etc...

 

[AquaCityBoy]

this is the silly ass mindset that has Black children being born into fukked up dysfunctional situations every day. nikkas gotta factor p*ssy into every equation.

Shut the fukk up, virgin.

 

[Matt504]

You not stacking you slacking. Period. Dumb bytch

If you can't afford to stack because you're paying bills and being "responsible", are you slacking?