Married brehs are in denial. Enter.

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

lf you were smart, you'd notice that I preemptively wrote "IF thats what you were going for" in order to account for any other shyt you might say that differs.

You weren't counting on what I said at all. You just wanted to be an ass.

You succeeded.​

 

[StretfordRed]

My marriage ended when my wife died 3 years ago.

You can take your foot out of your mouth now.​

Sorry to hear that. God bless.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Sorry to hear that. God bless.

Thanks. It sucks a little less every day.​

 

[StretfordRed]

As for the OP there are many things the mind desires but for the best of myself I do not indulge in for short pleasure.

The whole point of being married is a partnership between two people. The partnership doesn’t mean just sex, it’s building a relationship, family and a home. Also someone in this thread reminded me of the hardships too, I’ve had people pass away, I had a major health scare, been through depression/anxiety and I honestly would have struggled more if I suffered by myself or had to tell the story to 1 of many partners who may not have cared.

If you haven’t had the privilege of finding someone you hope to grow old with, to see everyday, to have a child with, to pay bills with, etc, then that is your own issue to worry about and not ours.

 

[Genos]

How old are you op?

 

[invalid]

It would seem to me that marriage isn't for hoes (both men and women). That's probably why, back in history, the emphasis was on virgins entering into marriage. Not people that had a wide variety of sexual experience.

Someone that has had multiple sex partners will never be satisfied in marriage. They will always be comparing. There will always be 'what ifs'.

We live in a society where recreational sex is the norm. Marriage is complicated in this type of environment. To be happy in marriage, limit your sexual partners even though society tells you the opposite (i.e. have as much sex before settling down to get it out your system). But it's already too late for most of you.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Married women some of the biggest hos out there. You think she going to the grocery store. She going to stop and get some D first then the grocery store.

 

[Dave24]

It would seem to me that marriage isn't for hoes (both men and women). That's probably why, back in history, the emphasis was on virgins entering into marriage. Not people that had a wide variety of sexual experience.

Someone that has had multiple sex partners will never be satisfied in marriage. They will always be comparing. There will always be 'what ifs'.

We live in a society where recreational sex is the norm. Marriage is complicated in this type of environment. To be happy in marriage, limit your sexual partners even though society tells you the opposite (i.e. have as much sex before settling down to get it out your system). But it's already too late for most of you.

@invalid what if you look at a lot of porn and to this day look at a lot of porn but are a virgin? Would someone like that be satisfied in marriage?

 

[Crude]

Eventually you’ll get older and your desire to slide in a different woman every night will wane.

Marriage is more about the companionship aspect of things and having someone to share the good times with and also lean on during times of turmoil. This is not to mention it’s a more favorable environment for raising children.

A lot of you think you going to be smashing randoms from now until the day you die, but at some point life is going to start life(ing) and when it does you’re going to deal with all kinds of shyt like problems on your job, financial issues, life threatening/altering illnesses, the death of loved ones, etc.

It’s better to have a person that can occasionally be your peace and your help in the midst of the storm than trying to navigate all the aforementioned situations alone as you naturally start aging and many of your close loved ones have moved on to a different chapters in their life that don’t include you such as starting their own families, falling out of contact, death, etc.

Marriage is definitely not for everyone and there will always be what ifs involved. There will always be what seems to be a badder female out there, but there are what ifs in all aspects of life. There is always going to be a better house than the one you’re living in, a better vehicle than what you’re driving, better clothes than the ones you’re wearing, a better job than the one you have etc. You learn to live with it, grow, and make memories and hope by the time you’ve reached the dawn of your life you’ve lived a life worth living and have left a legacy those after you will admire, respect, and appreciate.

Of course, all the above mentioned is possible as a single person; however, you’re highly delusional if you think you’re still going be on that mackdaddy shyt into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond if you’re fortunate enough to live that long. Most people’s priorities change and they seek more meaningful relationships and bonds as they age.

 

[Marc Spector]

Hell, im in my first real relationship after hoeing like crazy. Never been in a ltr, figured id try it out, fukked alot, and im in my prime still. my girl is kinda great actually...which scares me. Because I definately think about fukking other chicks.

And now that im doing the LTR thing....despite me reallly caring about my girl, and not wanting that to end....I cant help byt think this may be a trap, another outdated concept of self deception imposed by humans that NEED this shyt for some reason.

Because not many dudes are..gifted enough to truly TRULY have options. To TRULY have a satisfying social life, and women that still pursue YOU. 95% of men dont have that kinda juice. So they NEED the relationship dynamic. Its their ticket to mating consistently .

I have a home boy who talks a good game. But jumped from one relationship to an ugly chick, to another ugly chick. And now he proposed. He always kinda acted like maintaining a relationship was a skill that perhaps I couldnt do, but he could. So I may fukk more bishes, but they wanna BE with him type of thing.

Now, that im in one, i realize this dude was being a damn simp, and didnt have options like that nor a social life. Most of these dudes utlize their SO as their source of companionship too...as in they lose or dont have many friends.

Long story short, my girl is awesome. Dont want her to go anywhere, but...there was definately perks to the single life also IF you have juice and a good social life. So now you're in a place where its like...well shyt Im not gonna cheat (but I can see why some dudes do tbh) and im not gonna break up with her because I wanna fukk around either...that seems...not right.

I still kinda think this shyt is designed for dudes that lack some shyt. So wheb a dude is MARRYING, im like...okay bro lol you trapped bad, or clueless.

u mostly spittin.

however one thing u gotta consider is that most men need to be married in order to truly “grow up” and have an incentive to build community. most men who are single and in these streets are extremely self centered (which isn’t necessary a bad thing) and typically dont feel a strong desire to build community as they can always dip out.

also consider that men need to marry in order to focus energy on more productive things. Very,VERY few men have the juice to have hoes at their beck and call without sacrificing money, time, and effort. Having a wife means the roller coaster of courting is over and maintaining a relationship becomes the status quo. Meaning a man can spend idle time building his family/career/community.

 

[StretfordRed]

Eventually you’ll get older and your desire to slide in a different woman every night will wane.

Marriage is more about the companionship aspect of things and having someone to share the good times with and also lean on during times of turmoil. This is not to mention it’s a more favorable environment for raising children.

A lot of you think you going to be smashing randoms from now until the day you die, but at some point life is going to start life(ing) and when it does you’re going to deal with all kinds of shyt like problems on your job, financial issues, life threatening/altering illnesses, the death of loved ones, etc.

It’s better to have a person that can occasionally be your peace and your help in the midst of the storm than trying to navigate all the aforementioned situations alone as you naturally start aging and many of your close loved ones have moved on to a different chapters in their life that don’t include you such as starting their own families, falling out of contact, death, etc.

Marriage is definitely not for everyone and there will always be what ifs involved. There will always be what seems to be a badder female out there, but there are what ifs in all aspects of life. There is always going to be a better house than the one you’re living in, a better vehicle than what you’re driving, better clothes than the ones you’re wearing, a better job than the one you have etc. You learn to live with it, grow, and make memories and hope by the time you’ve reached the dawn of your life you’ve lived a life worth living and have left a legacy those after you will admire, respect, and appreciate.

Of course, all the above mentioned is possible as a single person; however, you’re highly delusional if you think you’re still going be on that mackdaddy shyt into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond if you’re fortunate enough to live that long. Most people’s priorities change and they seek more meaningful relationships and bonds as they age.

Talking like a man with experience in life.

Honestly we waste our time telling people this shyt over and over; let’s just leave them to it.

 

[Dave24]

@Crude

@Marc Spector

Any advice for the incel types who wish they could get married?

 

[Clayton Endicott]

Eventually you’ll get older and your desire to slide in a different woman every night will wane.

Marriage is more about the companionship aspect of things and having someone to share the good times with and also lean on during times of turmoil. This is not to mention it’s a more favorable environment for raising children.

A lot of you think you going to be smashing randoms from now until the day you die, but at some point life is going to start life(ing) and when it does you’re going to deal with all kinds of shyt like problems on your job, financial issues, life threatening/altering illnesses, the death of loved ones, etc.

It’s better to have a person that can occasionally be your peace and your help in the midst of the storm than trying to navigate all the aforementioned situations alone as you naturally start aging and many of your close loved ones have moved on to a different chapters in their life that don’t include you such as starting their own families, falling out of contact, death, etc.

Marriage is definitely not for everyone and there will always be what ifs involved. There will always be what seems to be a badder female out there, but there are what ifs in all aspects of life. There is always going to be a better house than the one you’re living in, a better vehicle than what you’re driving, better clothes than the ones you’re wearing, a better job than the one you have etc. You learn to live with it, grow, and make memories and hope by the time you’ve reached the dawn of your life you’ve lived a life worth living and have left a legacy those after you will admire, respect, and appreciate.

Of course, all the above mentioned is possible as a single person; however, you’re highly delusional if you think you’re still going be on that mackdaddy shyt into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond if you’re fortunate enough to live that long. Most people’s priorities change and they seek more meaningful relationships and bonds as they age.

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[Carl Tethers]

You weird man

 

[Hawala Man]

Very simple only in North America is monogamy instilled for men to live miserable lives while polygamy is frowned upon. If you read that coli thread "married men how much are yall having sex" the stats and numbers are there to prove to you sex is controlled by the woman in marriages. Men control commitment and women control sex in western societies.

Many societies and cultures thrive off polygamy if the roles, responsibilities, duties and obligations are adhered to. Similarly, in many parts of the world like Africa, Asia and Middle East men have 2 or 3 wives with the key determinant being he has the means to provide for all. In fact, in many of these countries the first wife scouts and vets a 2nd wife for her husband. To me that sounds much better than risking getting caught cheating with a side and having those wages garnished via alimony and child support.