Married Brehs Is This True? U Get Married For Convenience?

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I thought the same but apparently alotta men feel the same. My own dad said to never marry the women u love the most. Said love makes men weak and women dont respect weak man.

I mean every dude I know who was deep in so called love lost his backbone and took too much shyt from a woman that I woulda been gone


It seems like being deep in love with someone is lacking self respect.

pops was dropping them jewels!

 

[Xyrax]

The older they got married I say its more likely, Me and my girl hooked up around age 24 we didn't get engaged for nearly 8 years. Worked fine for me, but I got friends still single, and I know damn well they may not meet another bytch they felt for like they BM etc, but they BM got married so....

 

[Hugs]

 

[Serious]

To an extent. But we must remember that a man's "ready to marry" is partly defined as being in a place in life where he feels he has the choice of women that he deserves. Men who know they are headed to great things will many times wait and see what the game has to offer them when they've arrived. Thus, many women who insist on finding someone who wants to settle down early on are left with bums with no ambition or realistic aspirations.

Obviously that's not everybody but it happens much more than it should.

 

[African Peasant]

This guy seems to have mental issues.

 

[African Peasant]

Love the woman you marry instead of marrying the woman you love.

 

[the bossman]

Wife the woman thats loyal, wont cheat, gets along with moms, cooks, is a good mother and holds you down. Call it a day

nikka made the shyt sound simple as hell

 

[King Khufu]

True love only exists in some instances for those who lucky to live in such a "illusion."

Most of us are settling, or if we are smart/charming/attractive enough bagging something new till death.

I had girls I love. But the idea of being with the one? Shiiit I don't even know if I am going to be alive next year half the damn time lol so being with the one till death just sounds like too much leg work when there's so many girls that could possibly actually be the one for me and I had barely the opportunity to actually experience the sex to determine if they even are so.....

 

[Afro]

Right these dudes really sound like bytches. U use ur logic and wife up the women that makes the most sense instead of the one that looks the best or the one that gives u butterflies. I didnt know this many men wanted to fall in love like a chick flick but im starting to think men are the more romantic sex while alotta women are using logic (marrying the highest status men they can get). Its like these dudes want a real life Hitch movie. I could be wrong but its starting to appear like that.

All the popular romantic songs come from men. Poems, men. Romantic gestures, men.

People keep applying these concepts on to women and wonder why it ain't all like the movies.

Because the movies are made by MEN

 

[Bless't]

I would agree with @Hennessypapi but as I stated it depends on the circumstance. I would agree because most people settle, hence terms like "starter marriage" etc. In my observations, many of women, who get married in their 20s end up marrying the first guy she meets that differs from those who she likes. What usually happens next is resent, divorce etc.

My advice to the brehs who are contemplating marriage is to do a little research on your potential wives "ex-boyfriends" before you commit. IF you are the outlier, don't do it. Every woman has a type, if you aren't her type, chances are you are her convenience man.

People change/evolve over their lives, obviously... but this is good advice IMO.

 

[MaxPain]

This guy seems to have mental issues.

Yeah that @NoChillJones guy is a proud deranged cuck.

 

[NoChillJones]

Yeah that @NoChillJones guy is a proud deranged cuck.

Smh......laced your corny ass with some game, you still acting bytchmade though........this is why you will never win life in breh.......

 

[bucks3115]

Wish this thread has more view

I think you should love the one you
you married

We gotta stop with those illusion , of marrying the love of your life
Usually shyt like this dont end well

 

[Originalman]

Whatever. Every man gonna say that when they trying to shoot they shot.

Bet they wouldn't say that to a ugly women who is trying to hollar at them.

Jokers would be like naw leave me alone I got a wife and love her.....